Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos

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Why Are Modern Couples Having Less Sex? The...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/10/06

Modern couples have more ways to communicate than any generation before them, yet many appear to be experiencing less sexual intimacy. Intriguingly, some research suggests that the emerging divide between religious and secular couples may have less to do with religious couples changing and more to do with declining sexual frequency among secular couples. The timing raises an important psychological question: what changed as relationships moved deeper into the digital age? This episode explores how

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2:59

Does Playing Hard to Get Actually Work?

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/10/04

Playing hard to get is one of dating’s oldest strategies: show interest, but not too much interest, and supposedly the other person will want you more. Psychological research suggests there is some truth behind the idea, but only under surprisingly narrow conditions. The difference between creating attraction and killing it may come down to whether someone experiences you as selective or simply uninterested.

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3:14

Why Do We Want People More When They Pull Away?

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/09/30

Why can someone seem moderately interesting until they suddenly stop texting, become distant, or appear less available? Psychology suggests that uncertainty, intermittent reinforcement, attachment patterns, and perceived scarcity can sometimes intensify desire. But wanting someone more when they pull away doesn’t necessarily mean you love them more—it may mean your psychological reward system has been activated.

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5:16

The Disappearing Night Out: What Happened to Friday...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/08/30

Friday night used to be the unofficial start of the weekend and prime time for seeing friends — now, for most Americans, it's just another night on the couch. Drawing on two decades of data from the American Time Use Survey, this episode traces how time spent with friends has more than halved since 2003 and pinpoints when the classic "night out" quietly disappeared. It's a look at what this shift says about connection, community, and how modern life has rearranged our social habits.

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7:01

The Long Conversation: Nietzsche’s Timeless Formula...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/05/18

Before you say "I do," ask yourself one critical question: do you believe you can talk well with this person into your old age? This episode explores 19th-century philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche’s revolutionary perspective on long-term romantic compatibility and marriage as an enduring intellectual partnership. Discover how shifting your relationship focus from fleeting physical passion to deep conversational chemistry can safeguard your romantic future against stagnation.

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5:47

The Misattribution of Arousal Effect: Why Adrenaline...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/05/03

Explore the misattribution of arousal effect, a foundational concept in social psychology demonstrating how physiological arousal from fear, stress, or excitement is frequently mislabeled as romantic or sexual attraction. This episode examines the landmark 1974 Dutton and Aron “shaky bridge” experiment, supporting research, underlying mechanisms involving adrenaline and the sympathetic nervous system, and real-world implications for relationships formed in high-stakes environments. Essential

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4:51

The 10% Rule in Modern Dating: Relationship Science...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/04/26

In this episode of the Psychology of Romance, we examine evidence-based findings from the U.S. General Social Survey revealing significant variance in reported romantic partnerships. We explore the psychology of romance, romantic attachment styles, emotional intimacy in relationships, and evidence-based relationship advice for breaking unhealthy patterns and building secure attachments in today’s dating landscape.

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3:56

Still Wanting: The Hidden Truth About Love, Desire,...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/04/19

A groundbreaking 2026 study reveals that desire, intimacy, and sexual connection remain central priorities for adults over 60 navigating modern dating. This episode breaks down the psychology of attraction, attachment, and intentional relationships in later life, challenging outdated myths about aging and romance. If you want to understand human connection, longevity, and what people really want in relationships—this conversation exposes it.

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2:13

Beyond the Monogamy Myth: Rethinking Satisfaction,...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/04/15

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1:40

Gen Z Men Most Open to Dating Older Women, New Survey...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2026/04/11

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2:00

What’s the best state to date

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/10/19

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1:50

Marriages with a 10-Year or Greater Age Discrepancy

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/09/30

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35:47

WE DISCUSS RELATIONSHIPS WITH DR. FEDRICK1

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/08/17

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2:23

Almost relationships- what are they

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/08/03

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4:32

ATTACHMENT STYLE AND DATING

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/07/27

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10:19

ATTACHMENT THEORY RELATED TO CHILDREN, ADULTS AND...

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/07/20

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2:33

WOMEN WHO DATE OLDER MEN

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/07/13

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10:05

ATTRACTION AND RELATIONSHIP THEORIES

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/07/06

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1:52

IS MODERN DATING HARDER THAN IT USED TO BE

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/06/29

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3:41

WHY WOMEN CHOOSE UNAVAILABLE MEN

Psychology of Romance Dr. Carlos ·

2025/06/25

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