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The Erotic Realm

Emma | Psychology of Desire

The Erotic Realm is a top 10 podcast that explores the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality. I’m your host Emma, a Psychosexuality nerd and kinkster. Join me for in depth, one on one conversations as I explore the fascinating world of eroticism, one Erotic Realm at a time. www.psychologyofdesire.com

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#43 The Monogamous Dominant: Athos Khan on Jung,...

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2025/10/28

What happens when philosophy meets BDSM?In this episode, writer and Dominant Athos Khan joins M to explore the intimate architecture of power, devotion, and consciousness inside monogamous kink. We discuss: • The Jungian concept of “making the darkness conscious” through BDSM. • Monogamy as a site for transformation, not limitation. • The flow state of dominance — where eroticism becomes meditation. • The archetypes that shape desire and relationship roles. • Emotional vs. sexual free

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00:52:15

#42 Ask A Sub: Lina Dune on Feminist Submission, CNC...

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2025/10/21

Can surrender be feminist? In this episode of The Erotic Realm, M speaks with Lina Dune — writer, educator, and host of the hit podcast Ask A Sub — about the psychology of submission, feminist desire, and the edges of consensual non-consent. We discuss: • How Lina reframes submission as self-discovery, not self-abandonment. • What makes feminist surrender so psychologically rich. • The emotional truth behind CNC and exploring dark fantasy safely. • How CNM can deepen honesty and

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00:51:30

#41 The Sacred Spanko: Iya on Erotic Healing, Shadow...

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2025/10/14

Can pain become prayer? Can spanking be a spiritual practice?In this episode of The Erotic Realm, M speaks with Iya (MousyMistress) — a mystic Domme, minister, and self-described sacred spanko — about the healing, transcendent, and psychological dimensions of erotic pain. We discuss: • How erotic discipline and spanking became a path to self-knowledge. • Why Jung’s shadow work applies to kink and erotic healing. • What research says about pain as emotional release and transcendence. •

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01:09:31

#40 The Humiliated Devotee: Petitmortician on...

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2025/10/07

Can humiliation and devotion coexist as love languages?In this episode of The Erotic Realm, M speaks with Petitmortician — a submissive, worshipper, and emotional masochist — about the psychology of male submission, cuckolding, and worship as pathways to self-understanding. We discuss: • The emotional and erotic layers of cuckolding beyond the stereotype. • How humiliation, jealousy, and devotion can coexist in intimacy. • Why research shows cuckolding is a normal and complex sexual

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01:10:16

#39 From Wallflower to Domme: MsSugarSpice on Female...

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2025/09/30

What if the most powerful phase of your sexuality starts at menopause?In this episode of The Erotic Realm Podcast, I sit down with MsSugarSpice, a 55-year-old Domme, cuckoldress, and writer who lives a 24/7 female-led relationship. Her story is one of transformation — from repression to erotic power, from silence to soulsexual expression, from wallflower to Dominant. We explore:Female-led relationships: daily rituals, dominance, and devotion.Post-menopause sexuality as an erotic

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01:13:54

#38 Reclaiming Desire: Helen on Sexless Marriage, CNM...

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2025/09/23

What happens when repression breaks open into erotic freedom? In this episode of The Erotic Realm, we meet HelenATL — a submissive and self-described seeker of “erotic intensity.” From a shocking electric chair scene in the 90s to the reawakening of her sexuality after decades of silence, Helen’s story shows us the risks, rewards, and realities of living authentically. We discuss:How yoga and kink reawakened her erotic self after repressionThe challenges and transformations of opening a long-term

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00:59:16

#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on...

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2025/09/16

Why do people eroticize regression, petplay, and degradation — and what does it mean to be your own Dom?In this episode, Valkyrie shares her journey from Pro-Domme to submissive pet. We explore the misunderstood kinks of ABDL, degradation, and regression, and end with her powerful reflection on self-domination.You’ll hear about:How she shifted from dominating others to surrendering herself — and what that taught her about power.Petplay & ABDL: the emotional logic behind regression, care, and

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00:59:16

#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on...

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2025/09/16

Why do people eroticize regression, petplay, and degradation — and what does it mean to be your own Dom? In this episode, Valkyrie shares her journey from Pro-Domme to submissive pet. We explore the misunderstood kinks of ABDL, degradation, and regression, and end with her powerful reflection on self-domination. You’ll hear about:How she shifted from dominating others to surrendering herself — and what that taught her about power.Petplay & ABDL: the emotional logic behind regression, care, and

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00:58:19

#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on...

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2025/09/09

What's it like to be a disciplinarian? In this episode, MistressBaton — a South African disciplinarian Domme — shares her story of power, discipline, and erotic devotion. We discuss:The spark of sadism and why it’s not always sexual.Misconceptions about sadists and corporal punishment.Research showing BDSM sadists score lower on “dark traits”.Baumeister’s idea of masochism as an escape from the self.What makes a spanking scene unforgettable.and so much more! Research Article: ⁠Trait Sadism in

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00:58:19

#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on...

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2025/09/09

What's it like to be a disciplinarian?In this episode, MistressBaton — a South African disciplinarian Domme — shares her story of power, discipline, and erotic devotion.We discuss:The spark of sadism and why it’s not always sexual.Misconceptions about sadists and corporal punishment.Research showing BDSM sadists score lower on “dark traits”.Baumeister’s idea of masochism as an escape from the self.What makes a spanking scene unforgettable.and so much more!Research Article: Trait Sadism in BDSM

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01:03:48

#35 The Bisexual Switch: Sage on Embracing Both Sides...

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2025/09/02

What does it mean to live a fluid erotic life?In this episode, Sage — a bisexual, polyamorous, sub-leaning switch — shares her journey of fluid identity, queer kink, and erotic psychology. From growing up in an open family to studying deviant behavior, she explores how bisexuality and kink intertwine as paths of liberation and truth.We discuss:Growing up queer in an open family and how it shaped desireBisexuality, stigma, and freedom in poly + kink spacesDiscovering her Dominant side after years as

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01:14:53

#34 Master Xtac: The 12 Rules of Power, Leather...

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2025/08/26

What does Mastery really mean? In this episode, Master Xtac — a leatherman, educator, and 24/7 practitioner — opens up about his journey through power exchange, love, and leadership within BDSM.We discuss:• His 12-part teaching series on power exchange and mastery.• Nietzsche’s idea of chaos and creativity in BDSM scenes• BDSM as sexual orientation vs. serious leisure.• How a Master proposes marriage to a slave.• His advice for young Dominants and the legacy of leather culture.Research Article: Is

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00:49:13

#33 The Lesbian Cuckcake: Iris on Poly Desire, Triad...

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2025/08/19

What does it mean to step into a 40-year love—and reshape it into a triad of submission, dominance, and devotion?In this third and final part of our relationship series, Iris shares her journey as the third partner of Master MissMarie (episode 31) and MelissaBound (episode 32). From embracing compersion to navigating the psychology of polyamory, Iris brings a unique perspective on love, kink, and erotic care.We explore:How Iris balances submission to MissMarie with domination of MelissaBound.The

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01:22:39

#32 The Trans Cuckquean: MelissaBound on Erotic...

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2025/08/12

What can 40 years of submission teach us about love, chastity, and surrender?In part two of our three-part relationship series, we meet MelissaBound—a bisexual, transgender cuckquean, rope bunny, and collared submissive who has been in a devoted D/s relationship with Master MissMarie for over 40 years.We discuss:Melissa’s journey from her first erotic awakenings to decades of submission in a 24/7 power exchange dynamic.What it truly means to live as a trans cuckquean and how this role shapes her

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00:56:48

#31 Master MissMarie: 40 Years of Domination,...

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2025/08/05

How does a Domme stay erotically alive for over 40 years? In this episode, MissMarie shares:Her journey from awakening to ascension as a lifelong DommeWhat it means to collar and guide a partner through decades of growthThe role of queerness, chosen family, and community recognitionHer personal philosophy of “bottoming from the top”How sadism, ritual, and reaction all fuel her pleasureResearch Article: Playing on the Edge: Sadomasochism, Risk, and IntimacyWant to take the Her Climax Code Female

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00:58:04

#30 The Mum of Hedon House: Building Sanctuaries for...

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2025/07/29

What does it mean to create an erotic space—not just play inside one?In this episode, we meet Gala, the Mum of Hedon House—a queer BDSM sanctuary designed for ritual, pleasure, and deep erotic inquiry. We discuss her philosophy of erotic hospitality, how she curates objects and atmosphere for psychological safety, and why perversion can be a path to power.We explore:What it means to be a “pervert” as a creative, ethical identity.The difference between producing eroticism vs. performing it.Why design

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01:20:36

#29 The Whip Master: Ritual, Rhythm & Erotic...

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2025/07/22

What does it mean to turn a whip into a language of power, rhythm, and connection?Master Dex is a 69-year-old BDSM educator, author, and Dominant with over 25 years in the lifestyle. From his background in dance to his reverence for the singletail whip, Dex brings a spiritual and artistic lens to impact play. We explore:Whipping as language, ritual, and orchestration.The connection between dance and whipping.BDSM’s psychological depth, not just its physicality.Legacy, aging, and passing on erotic

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01:00:33

#28 Erotic Resistance: Politics of Pleasure &...

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2025/07/15

What if submission was the most radical thing you could do?Gender-nonconforming writer and kink educator Auntie Vice joins The Erotic Realm for a powerful conversation on erotic resistance, queer identity, and rewriting sexual norms.We discuss:How bisexuality, gender nonconformity, and submissive identity intersect.The slap that changed everything—and sparked a feminist reckoning.Practical wisdom on writing kink, navigating desire as a public educator, and choosing who to submit to.Auntie Vice’s

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00:50:38

#27 The Fetish Lens: Erotic Photography & the Art of...

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2025/07/08

What happens when a photographer sees desire not just as an act — but as an art? In this visually charged episode, we enter the mind of JC Stark, founder of Fet-Erotica as he shares his journey into erotic photography, shibari, and oral fixation.We discuss:Why shibari changed how JC saw kinkThe birth of fet-eroticaHow Fet-Erotica chooses its themes & imagesThe deeper meaning of oral fixation—and how it shows up in his workand more!Research Article: Mainstreaming kink: The politics of BDSM

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01:12:20

#26 Healthy Masculinity & Queer Dominance: Biker Bear...

The Erotic Realm ·

2025/07/01

What does healthy masculinity look like in a world of dominance, sadism, and polyamory? In this episode, Melbourne-based kinkster Biker Bear shares his journey through power, pleasure, and queer identity. We discuss:The Key Elements of Healthy MasculinityElectrical play as erotic connectionWhy dominance isn’t control — it’s presenceSadism as serious identityA lived critique of toxic masculinityand more!Research Article: Rethinking Kink: Sadomasochism as Serious LeisurePsychology of Desire has two

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