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Find Love With Emily

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous

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00:17:43

Protect Your Peace (While Dating)

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/10/03

❤️ Yup, love finally happens here:Attract YOUR Man is where love happens, with clear steps, tools, practices and guidance along the way that has helped 100s of women over 30 find lasting love.$44/MONTH • CANCEL ANYTIME👉 JOIN AYM HERE❤️ Come join the conversation about this episode on Threads @findlovewithemilyHave you stopped dating? Or seriously thought about it?Because life would feel just feels SO much more peaceful without it?No dating apps.No wondering if he’s going to text.No boring talking

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00:22:20

The Break From Dating That Doesn't Cost You Love

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2026/09/26

If you’re thinking about taking a break from dating because you cannot face swiping on another dating app, forcing yourself through another boring talking stage or dealing with the aftermath of another first date that goes nowhere... I get it.You’re tired of getting your hopes up, putting in the effort, and never getting any closer to finding love.Dating can really suck!And so if you want to take a break, take it. Seriously.Step away from the dating apps, men, boring "getting to know you"

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00:23:14

The Lesson I Wasn't Expecting That'll Help You Find Love

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2026/09/22

If you’re exhausted by dating, doing everything you’re told to do and STILL not getting any closer to finding a real relationship, this episode is for you.Because there’s a huge difference between being busy dating and actually creating momentum towards love.Swiping more. Changing dating apps. Rewriting your profile. Trying another dating strategy. Working on your attachment style. Trying to say the “right” thing to men.It can feel like you’re doing something to finally change your love life, but

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00:15:32

You Don't Have To Be Happy Being Single

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2026/09/19

If you’re single and desperately want a relationship, being told to “just be happy being single” can feel pretty freaking annoying.Because you might already have an incredible life...Amazing friends and family, a career you love, a cozy home, plenty of things you genuinely enjoy doing.And yet underneath all of that, there’s still this relationship-sized hole in your life with a whole lotta sadness attached. You still want your person. You still want someone to come home to, someone beside you for

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00:08:35

"I Never Get Past A First Date"

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2026/09/15

If you’ve been dating for years and love still hasn’t happened, there are ways you could be holding yourself back from love without having any idea you’re doing it.And this is happening all the bloody time.Because there are certain things you say about yourself when it comes to men, dating and love that might seem completely true based on your experience so far.“I never get past a first date.”“Men don’t want someone like me.”“Dating doesn’t work for me.”But what if the way you see yourself is

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00:18:15

"I'm So Tired Of Being Told To Give Up On Love"

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2026/09/12

If you’re a single woman dating in your 30s, 40s or 50s, you’ve probably noticed just how much negativity there is around dating, men and finding love.Dating apps are awful. Men only want sex. Romance is dead. Finding a good man after 30 is impossible.It's EVERYWHERE.And if you want to find love, you need to start noticing how much of it you’re letting into your world.In this episode of Find Love With Emily, I’m talking about the negativity that surrounds single women who want a relationship, from

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00:21:12

Why It's Always A Fight For Love & Attention

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/09/08

Finding love can feel like one, exhausting long fight you never win.It can feel so unfair when you think about how much love you have to give.And that you're not asking for anything ridiculous, or what other people don't have.You just want a loving, committed relationship with a man who actually shows up for you. A relationship where you can just relax.But for some reason, who you are and what you do, it never seems to be enough.It feels like you're always having to try harder, put more effort in,

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00:17:18

Imagine If Dating Was Fun...

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/09/05

If you’ve spent years trying to figure out how to find love, there’s a good chance you’ve also consumed a LOT of dating advice.Which dating app should you use? Should you message first?How do you get past the talking stage?How do you get a man to actually ask you out?Should you be more in your feminine energy, less anxiously attached, play it cool, stop trying so hard?How do you "put yourself out there" more than you are already??And yet despite doing all the “right” things, finding the relationship

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00:22:35

The Balance Between Chasing Love And Not Doing Enough

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2026/09/01

Are you trying too hard to find love… or are you actually not doing enough?Both can leave you in exactly the same place...Still single, still exhausted and frustrated by dating, unsure why you never get any closer to love and having absolutely no idea what you're meant to do differently. Are you supposed to "put yourself" out there more, meet more men, get on more dates?!Or is love simply going to happen when it's meant to?!?In this episode of Find Love With Emily I answer these questions and

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00:27:16

What Makes It Easier To Find Love Over 30

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2026/08/29

If you’re single in your 30s or 40s, it probably feels like love's only getting harder for you to find. The dating pool is smaller. All the decent men are already taken. Men want younger women. It's harder to meet people.And after years of being single, dating the wrong men or watching seemingly everyone else find their person, it can start to feel less like a fear and more like a FACT...That finding love IS harder the older you get. But is that actually true?In the last episode, we talked about The

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00:17:45

The REAL Reason It's Harder To Find Love After 30

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/25

Does it feel like finding love is hard because you're over 30, over 40?That there were more decent men to date when you were in your 20s?Dating was easier?You chances of finding love were better then?And now that you're in your 30s or 40s, it feels like you chance of meeting the right man and finding love are getting slimmer by the second?And 100%, you've got PLENTY of evidence that says yes, "the older I get the harder it is to find love"...But what if your age wasn't actually the problem?This

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00:13:06

"Is He Interested?" How To Know For Sure

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/22

If you've got a crush on a man and you're wondering…Does he like me?Is he actually interested?Is there something here… or am I imagining it?Maybe it's the guy at the gym.Someone you work with.A friend.The man you see every morning getting coffee.There are glances.Smiles.Conversations that feel like something.And meanwhile, you've already imagined approximately 47 different versions of your future relationship together 💭But if what you actually want is a loving, committed relationship, you can't

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00:13:38

How To Go From Dating To The REAL Relationship

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2026/08/20

If you're meeting men, getting matches, having conversations and going on 1st, 2nd maybe even 3rd dates but...It ends there and you NEVER the actual relationship 🤯Hit play on this episode now!Because the answer isn’t getting better at dating.It’s not about learning what to say, how to act, when to text, how to keep him interested or how to finally get a man to commit.In this episode, I give you a sneak peek inside our next Loved Up Week: Dating To The REAL Relationship, that starts Monday 24th

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00:20:50

How To Meet The Right Man Without Obsessing

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/18

If you just want to meet the right man, but in the back of your mind you're constantly thinking about:How, where and when you're going to meet him.And what else you could be doing to to finally find him...Hit play on this episode now!Because you know, that even if you focus on yourself, build a life you love, take up all kinds of new hobbies, say yes to every opportunity, even take a break from dating alotgether...You're still wondering:Will I meet him here?Should I be doing more?Am I getting any

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00:17:12

Why You Just Can't Crack Finding Love

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/15

If you’ve been trying to find love for YEARS, there comes a point where you genuinely don’t know what else you’re supposed to do.You’ve worked on yourself.You’ve used the dating apps.You’ve put yourself "out there".You’ve followed the advice, healed the patterns, tried to stay positive and kept going even after yet another promising man disappeared.And still… you’re single.So what the actual f are you missing?!?!? 😖In this episode I share a realization that hit me HARD this when I found myself

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00:13:11

Why Dating Never Gets You The Relationship

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/13

You can meet men.You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential…But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship.So you start trying to work out what you’re doing wrong.Do you need to choose better men?Be less available?Play it cooler?Change your profile?Be more in your feminine energy?Finally fix whatever it is that keeps making men disappear?Because after years of dating, it starts to feel like dating is

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00:18:14

The Signs You're Missing That Love IS Happening For You

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/11

If you've been trying to find love for YEARS...You've been dating, swiping on the apps, following all the dating advice, but you still don't have the loving, committed relationship that you want...You get to the point where you'd do anything for some kind of sign, some glimmer of something that tells you love still possible.It's still worth holding onto hope for.When finding love hasn't happening yet, it's easy to assume that NOTHING is happening....but that's where so many single women over 30 get

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00:20:14

How To Find Love When You're Burnt Out By Trying To...

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/08

Feeling completely burnt out by dating and trying to find love?Maybe you're exhausted by swiping through (very!) average men on the dating apps.You're sick of investing in conversations that go nowhere.Tried of disappointing dates.Thinking you've finally found something that'll help you find love...and it doesn't.It feels like you've tried everything already to find love.All the dating strategies, manifestation techniques, anxious attachment advice, how to be more in your "feminine energy"

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00:13:05

He's Nice… But There's No Physical Attraction

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2026/08/02

Have you ever met a man who's everything you've been looking for...✅ He's kind✅ Emotionally available✅ You feel safe around him✅ He's exactly the sort of man you've been hoping to meet.But there's just no spark?No chemisty.0 physical attraction 😐So now what??!Do you keep dating him and hope attraction grows?Or is that your sign that he's simply not your person?This exact question came up inside Attract YOUR Man recently.And it sparked a fascinating conversation that revealed the truth about dating

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00:17:11

Why Healing Your Anxious Attachment Doesn't Work

Find Love With Emily ·

2026/08/01

If you've ever called yourself anxiously attached, chances are you've also spent MANY months trying to heal it.You’ve read the books.Followed all the experts.Tried distracting yourself.Keeping yourself busy with new hobbies and friends.Hid your phone.Worked on becoming more “secure”.And yet somehow…You’re still caught up in the same exhausting cycle of overthinking, waiting, worrying, constantly checking your phone and ending up with emotionally unavailable men who only your anxious attachment

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