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giving (un)bothered

Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever

Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you"re single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun

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58:30

sapphic dating wrapped & etsy witch soulmate reading

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/12/24

As 2025 comes to a close, we’re unwrapping our sapphic dating lives. Think of it as the ultimate end-of-year recap, but messier. In this episode, we dive into our personal “Dating Unwrapped” stats: the unforgettable highs, the total disasters, awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, and everything in between. From ghosting fails to swoon-worthy moments, we’re sharing what this year really taught us about love, lust, and all the chaos that comes with modern queer dating.And because we can’t resist a

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42:44

the L word debrief : loving Bette Porter is a red flag

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/12/10

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re deep-diving into The L Word — the iconic, chaotic, ahead-of-its-time series that transformed queer TV history and paved the way for modern LGBTQ+ representation in media. If you’ve ever searched for The L Word analysis, character breakdowns, or why this show still has such a cultural grip, this episode is for you.We get into everything:✨ The L Word characters we relate to most: the personalities and storylines that still hit today🔥 The L Word characters we

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37:37

surviving long distance relationships : facetime...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/11/26

Long-distance relationships are NOT for the weak and on today’s episode, we’re unpacking everything that keeps a long distance relationship alive… and everything that can ruin it.From FaceTime dates, to over-communicating vs. under-communicating, to figuring out how to stay independent while still being obsessed with your partner. We’re breaking down the real, unfiltered LDR experience.If you're navigating a queer long-distance relationship, thinking about starting one, or deep into those “I miss

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1:01:52

lesbian s*x for dummies: labels in the bedroom (with...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/11/12

We sit down with Katie, founder of queer-owned s*x toy company Labeless, to unpack labels in the bedroom: top, bottom, pillow princess, and everything in between. Plus, our first experiences with women and the awkward truth about visiting a s*x shop for the first time. Find us on: Instagram: @giving.unbotheredTiktok: @giving.unbotheredYoutube: @givingunbothered Find Labeless on: Instagram: @labelessukTiktok: @labelessuk queer podcast, lgbtq podcast, lesbian stories, queer intimacy, queer dating

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36:40

truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/10/29

We’re back with another Truth or Drink, and things got way too real. From sapphic fantasies to virginity stories we probably shouldn’t have shared, this one’s pure chaos in the best way. Grab a drink and dive into the mess of queer dating, lesbian love, and our very own red flag behaviour 🌶️Find us on:Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships #wlw

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42:22

gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/10/15

We’re answering your questions about gold star lesbians, baby gays, and queer heartbreak. Real listener confessions, breakup advice, and chaotic first-date stories: unfiltered and very gay. 🌈💔Find us on:Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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25:54

lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/10/01

We’re back, season 2 of giving (un)bothered is here! 🎉 And we’re starting off strong with lesbian hot takes: all the unfiltered, spicy opinions you’ve been thinking (but maybe not saying out loud).From controversial takes on queer dating to the unspoken truths about lesbian friendships and community dynamics, we’re laying it all on the table.💌 Don’t forget to subscribe and drop your hottest take in the commentsFind us on:Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Youtube:

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44:34

sapphic red flags : how to get over your first crush

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/07/30

Your first lesbian crush? Been there. Obsessed? Absolutely. Over it? …Eventually. In this episode, we dive deep into the sapphic red flags you should run from (👀), the ones we controversially find kinda hot (don’t judge us), and the emotional chaos of getting over your first lesbian crush.From the seductive mystery of a girl who lovebombs just enough to keep you hooked, to the heartbreak of someone who wants girlfriend treatment but won’t commit — we’ve seen it all. We’re unpacking the most common

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25:45

let’s get naked: sexting, strapping & bedroom icks

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/07/23

In this unfiltered and hilarious episode, we’re getting real about what happens behind closed doors. From sexting fails to our biggest bedroom icks, nothing is off-limits. We dive into the juicy debate: fingering, scissoring or strapping – which one hits the spot? 👀 Plus, we’re talking threesomes, swinging, and what turns us on vs. what sends us running.Whether you're queer, curious, or just here for the chaotic honesty, this episode is your go-to for sex-positive, queer-centered conversations.Find

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1:21:03

navigating long distance relationships (with Kelsey &...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/07/16

In this episode, we dive deep into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships. We’re joined by Kelsey and Becky, a couple who fell in love 5,000 miles apart after matching on Hinge — and yes, there was a ghosting plot twist 👀From navigating a transatlantic relationship (UK to LA) to their first in-person meeting, we unpack how they’re making long-distance love work. We talk conflict resolution, healthy communication in long-distance relationships, building trust across time zones, and the

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58:33

we got ghosted by the same girl?! WLW dating horror...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/07/09

This week, we're joined by our friend Amy to talk all things heartbreak, healing, and sapphic dating chaos. Amy shares how she rebuilt her confidence, stepped back into dating, and how it felt getting ghosted by the same girl as co-host Alana 👀💔 We unpack red flags, WLW dating patterns, navigating trust after betrayal, and what healing really looks like.We also dive into spiritual healing after a breakup and the surprising ways energy work, intuition, and astrology can support healing.Whether

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37:40

building a happy queer marriage (with Megan...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/07/02

In this episode, we sit down with queer writer, artist, and pottery studio owner Megan Elliott-Hewson to dive into the beauty and complexity of queer marriage, building a life in creative partnership, and the unfiltered truth about writing queer fiction.👉 We talk:💍 The honest reality of queer marriage🖋️ Writing queer novels in a straight-centered industry🫖 Creating safe, soft spaces through queer pottery classes💬 Finding love, art, and community as a queer womanFind Megan Elliott-Hewson

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1:07:20

Hinge's love expert Moe Ari Brown on queer dating...

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/06/25

In this episode, we’re joined by Moe Ari Brown (they / him) —Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert and a licensed therapist—to dive deep into the complexities of queer dating in 2025.We talk about everything from label fatigue to performance pressure on dating apps, and what Hinge has learned about how LGBTQ+ people swipe, flirt, and connect differently than straight users.Moe shares insights on:How queer users are moving away from traditional identity labelsWhat it means to perform queerness on

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33:38

truth or drink: rebounds, exes & kinks

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/06/18

Being queer in your 20s means dating drama, messy breakups, and a few…questionable choices. This week, we play truth or drink and confess it all—from kinks to the ex we’re still not over.Find us on:Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationshipsLGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW

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39:40

anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/06/11

Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people?In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. From spiraling over mixed signals to learning how to show up more securely, we’re unpacking what it really feels like to be in these dynamics — and how we’re slowly breaking the pattern.If you’ve ever felt clingy, overthought a text for hours, or kept giving chances to someone who couldn’t meet you

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39:20

WLW intimacy Q&A: debunking myths & inclusive sex ed

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/06/04

We're talking all things WLW sex in this weeks unfiltered episode!We answer YOUR most asked questions:- Is scissoring actually a thing?- How do WLW deal with long hair during sex?- What's a myth vs fact when it comes to lesbian intimacy?Plus, we dive into the serious gaps in sex education when it comes to queer relationships, and how growing up without proper info left many of us confused and googling things we shouldn’t have had to.Find us on:Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Tiktok:

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48:21

I’m best friends with my ex-girlfriend (with Abisha)

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/05/28

In this episode, we’re joined by queer model, actor, writer and artist Abisha for a candid and inspiring conversation. She opens up about being best friends with her ex-girlfriend—and how her current girlfriend has become part of the friendship too. We talk about meeting her girlfriend online during the pandemic, their bold U-Haul love story, and what it’s really like navigating relationships with openness and emotional maturity. Abisha also shares what inspired her to write an LGBTQ+ children’s

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35:09

sapphic dating mistakes

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/05/21

Sapphic dating is a wild ride and we’ve made every mistake in the book. In this episode, we roast ourselves and unpack the biggest sapphic dating mistakes we’ve made so you don’t have to. From emotionally investing before even meeting IRL, to losing ourselves in situationships with women who never even knew our last names — we’ve been there, done that, and are finally learning our lessons.Listen for relatable queer dating confessions, spicy mistakes, and the growth we’ve finally found on the other

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37:25

how to tell if you’re into women (Q&A)

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/05/14

In this episode, we’re getting into the messy, relatable realities of queer dating and identity from unpacking internalised homophobia to dealing with rejection in queer dating, we explore how to tell if you're genuinely into women or just curious. Plus: how the hell do you define the line between friendship and flirting between girls? 👀Whether you're newly out, questioning your sexuality, or deep in the sapphic trenches, this one’s for you.Find us on:Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠Tiktok:

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37:23

sapphic breakups : how to heal from a heartbreak

giving (un)bothered ·

2025/05/07

Breakups are hard—but sapphic breakups? They hit different. In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of ending a queer relationship. Whether you’re healing from your first lesbian breakup or navigating the messy end of a WLW situationship, we’ve got you. Expect raw advice, personal stories, and healing tips to help you move on (without texting her at 2AM).If you’ve ever Googled “how to get over a lesbian breakup” or “why do queer breakups hurt so much?”—this episode is for

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