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Dildo Whisperer

Romaine Patterson

The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

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All Episodes

46:35

Love at a Distance- Staying Connected with Sex Tech

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2025/12/03

Who says long-distance can't be intimate? This week on the Dildo Whisperer, we're turning up the heat with remote-controlled and app-connected sex toys—the tech keeping lovers close even when they're miles apart. From how these devices work to tips for creating emotional connection across screens, we'll explore the fun, the fantasy, and the future of digital intimacy. Whether you're separated by cities or continents, these toys prove that love (and pleasure) can travel at the speed of Wi-Fi.

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51:39

Holding Back for More- The Pleasure of Edging

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2025/11/26

Get ready to flirt with the edge! In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we explore the art of edging—the practice of teasing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and pulling back for even more intense pleasure. We'll talk about how to do it safely, why it heightens sensation, and how it can strengthen sexual connection and communication. Whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner, this deep dive into control, patience, and pleasure will have you rethinking how you finish.

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44:51

Barrier Benefits- Why Condoms Still Matter

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2025/11/19

They're small, they're mighty, and they just might save your life. From flavored to glow-in-the-dark, condoms have come a long way. Join us as we unpack the myths, the science, and the fun behind this bedroom essential. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The

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49:53

The Top 6 Sexual Fantasies

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2025/11/05

Everyone has fantasies—but some are more common (and more taboo) than you might think. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores six of the most popular sexual fantasies: sissification, forced-bi, role playing, cuckolding, threesomes, and blackmail scenarios. We'll break down what they mean, why people are drawn to them, and how to explore them safely with trust, consent, and communication. Whether you're curious about trying something new or just want to understand the psychology behind these

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50:15

The Unwanted Consequences of Sex

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2025/10/29

Sex can be exciting, intimate, and fulfilling—but sometimes it comes with consequences we don't plan for. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we dive into the physical, emotional, social, and even legal outcomes that can follow sexual experiences, from unintended pregnancy and STIs to regret, shame, and relationship challenges. With a focus on honesty and compassion, we explore how to protect yourself, navigate tricky situations, and reframe the conversation around safe and informed choices

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48:15

Streaming Intimacy: The Rise of Cam Girls

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2025/10/22

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the world of cam girls and live-streaming sex work. From the rise of digital intimacy to the realities of performing online, we explore why people choose camming, the myths and stigmas that surround it, and what it teaches us about sex, technology, and human connection. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at

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01:04:57

Why We Cheat: The Psychology of Infidelity

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2025/10/15

Why do people cheat? It’s one of the most painful questions in relationships—and the answers are more complex than you might think. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down what counts as cheating, explore the differences in how gender impacts infidelity, and uncover the most common reasons people stray. We’ll also look at the impact cheating has on couples and discuss whether relationships can truly heal after betrayal. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will

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38:03

Timing Intimacy: How Long Does Sex Really Last?

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2025/10/08

How long should sex last? The truth might surprise you. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay break down the myths, look at what research actually says about the average length of sex, and explore the many factors that influence timing—from biology to emotional connection. We’ll also reframe the conversation around quality over quantity and share tips for making intimacy more satisfying, no matter the clock. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of

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38:01

Pillow Talk: How Bedtime Routines Affect Your Sex Life

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2025/10/01

Your bedtime routine isn’t just about getting a good night’s sleep—it plays a major role in your sex life too. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores how nightly habits like screen time, mismatched schedules, and stress can get in the way of intimacy, while simple rituals like winding down together, setting the mood, and syncing routines can reignite passion. Tune in for science, practical tips, and real-life strategies to turn your bedtime into the ultimate connection time. Send the us your

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48:47

Sex Injuries- ENCORE

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2025/09/17

The Dildo Whisperer has a recent sex adventure that inspired this week's topic. Find out how Romaine was injured during sex and learn about the most common sex injuries. How many times has Ajay been injured during sex? More times then he wants to admit! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us

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49:07

Purity Culture: The Price of Staying Pure

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2025/09/10

Purity culture promised protection, but often left behind shame, fear, and silence around sex. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer unpacks the history of the purity movement—from abstinence pledges to purity rings—and explore how these messages impact self-worth, relationships, and sexual health. We’ll also talk about ways to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and move toward a healthier, shame-free understanding of intimacy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the

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01:11:35

The Naked Truth- Men's Bodies & Self-Esteem

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2025/09/03

In this episode, Romaine and Ajay are joined by the hosts ofthe DNR Studios show the Cookie Jar. Together they dive into the often-overlooked topic of men’s body image and self-esteem. From pressures to look muscular, worries about hair loss, aging, or penis size, to the impact of comparison culture and media ideals—men face unique challenges when it comes to feeling confident in their own skin. We’ll explore how these insecurities affect mental health, relationships, and sex, and share practical

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01:09:15

Ex Marks the Spot? Staying Friends After Love

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2025/08/27

Breaking up doesn’t always mean breaking away. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay dive into the complicated world of staying friends with an ex. From setting healthy boundaries to spotting red flags, we explore the emotional realities, potential perks, and pitfalls of keeping that post-breakup connection alive. Whether you’re hoping to preserve the friendship or wondering if it’s time to cut ties, this conversation will help you figure out what’s truly best for your heart—and your future. Send the us

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01:41:55

TRANSparent: The Intimate Realities of Tori Easton

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2025/08/20

This isn't an ordinary episode of the Dildo Whisperer. Romaine has a crush and that crush led to one of the most incredible interviews of her 20+ year career. Romaine and Ajay are joined by model and actress Tori Easton. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Tori Easton shares her journey of transitioning as a trans woman- from early self discovery to navigating relationships, identiy, and intimacy. With honesty, humor and heart, Tori opens up about the emotional and physical aspects of

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Dildo Whisperer- More Than Sex- Exploring Real Intimacy

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2025/08/13

How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives. Send the us your sex and relationship

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51:57

How Long Should You Wait? Timing Sex in a New...

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2025/08/06

How long should you wait to have sex in a new relationship? The dildo whisperer takes a look at this question and provides some methods for you to consider when asking yourself what the right time is? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is

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56:37

Behind Closed Doors: The History of Bathhouses

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2025/07/30

Romaine and Ajay are taking a trip to the bathhouse! Learn about the history of bathhouses and how gays turned up the sexuality in them. Plus, find out who go their start in music in a bathhouse! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is

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53:29

Not Just the Pill- Birth Control Beyond the Basics

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2025/07/23

Birth control is a hot topic when it comes to sex. Who's responsibility is it? What method is the best option? What works and what doesn't? For as long as people have been having sex protecting themselves against an unwanted pregnancy has been important. This week we are discussing all things birth control. And the dildo whisperer has a question for Ajay that stumps him completely. He called his wife for help but did she know the answer? Tune in to find out. Send the us your sex and relationship

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42:01

Porn Literacy

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2025/07/16

Porn is everywhere now a days but understanding how porn impacts our sex lives and our daily interactions is very important. This week the Dildo Whisperer is going to go deep with a conversation about porn literacy and why it matters. Tune in to learn more about the relationship between porn and real life sexual encounters. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our

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44:05

Pride in Pleasure- LGBTQ+ Sex Ed Unfiltered

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2025/07/09

June is gay pride month and this week the dildo whisperer is talking about how being part of the LGBTQ+ community impacts a person's view and take on sexuality. This discussion covers some of the differences in sex education for queer people and brands and toy shops that are inclusive of the queer identity. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766

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