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Dildo Whisperer

Romaine Patterson

The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

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All Episodes

51:39

Bear Necessities and Other Dirty Details

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2026/09/30

Bears, Bears, Everywhere! This week on The Dildo Whisperer, Romaine is shaking things up! With Ajay out this week dealing with some medical issues, Romaine welcomes her good friend Chris to the podcast—and he comes armed with plenty of stories and opinions. The topic? Bears! From bear weekends and regional gatherings to some of the biggest bear events around the world, Romaine and Chris dive into what makes this community and its events so much fun. Chris has been to bear events all over the globe,

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01:06:07

Accessible Pleasure: Reimagining Intimacy with Ducky...

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2026/09/23

Sexuality doesn't disappear because someone has a disability—but too often, that's exactly how society treats it. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by renowned sex educator, author, and Lunetta Lingerie owner Ducky Doolittle for an eye-opening conversation about sex, intimacy, and disability. Together, we challenge the myths and misconceptions that often leave people with disabilities out of conversations about dating, relationships, pleasure, and sexual wellness. Ducky shares her

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01:19:13

Love's Warning Signs—and Its Green Lights

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2026/09/16

Everyone talks about red flags in dating—but what about the yellow flags that deserve a closer look, or the green flags that tell you a relationship is healthy and worth investing in? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're breaking down the warning signs, the caution signs, and the positive signs that shape our romantic relationships. We'll explore the behaviors we often ignore because of chemistry, attraction, or wishful thinking, the yellow flags that call for honest conversations instead

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01:26:29

Breaking Up is Hard to Do

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2026/09/09

Breaking up is one of the hardest conversations we'll ever have—but it doesn't have to be one of the cruelest. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're exploring how to end a relationship with honesty, compassion, and respect. Whether you've been dating for a few months or sharing a life together for years, we'll discuss how to recognize when it's time to move on, how to prepare for the conversation, and how to communicate your decision without unnecessary blame or drama. We'll also tackle some

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01:11:25

Bro Code: Loyalty, Love, and the Lines We Won't Cross

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2026/09/02

Bro Code. Everyone's heard of it, but what does it actually mean? Is it a sacred set of unwritten rules, or just an excuse to avoid difficult conversations? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're unpacking the infamous Bro Code—the unspoken guidelines that shape friendships, dating, loyalty, and relationships between men. From the rules about dating a friend's ex to keeping secrets, having each other's backs, and navigating romantic conflicts, we explore where these expectations come from and

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58:39

Fisting Without Fear: Education, Communication and...

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2026/08/26

Fisting is one of the most misunderstood topics in sexual health. It's often surrounded by myths, misinformation, and sensationalized portrayals—but rarely discussed in an honest, educational way. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we take a judgment-free look at what fisting actually is, why some people choose to explore it, and how communication, consent, and preparation play a critical role in practicing it as safely as possible. We'll discuss the differences between vaginal and anal

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01:15:41

Reading is Fundamental: Learning Your Desire Through...

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2026/08/19

How do you figure out what you actually like in bed if no one ever taught you how? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're talking about sexual self-discovery through the work of smart, sex-positive authors like Ducky Doolittle, Carol Queen, and Betty Dodson. From masturbation and body literacy to fantasy, toys, communication, and learning the difference between what you should want and what genuinely turns you on, this episode is all about using books as tools for curiosity, confidence, and

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59:03

The Truth About Sex Therapy with Vanessa Cushing

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2026/08/12

Have you ever wondered what actually happens in a sex therapist's office? Is sex therapy only for couples in crisis—or can it help anyone build healthier, more satisfying intimate relationships? This week on The Dildo Whisperer, I'm joined by AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Vanessa Cushing for an honest, insightful conversation about the challenges so many people face—but few feel comfortable talking about. From mismatched libidos and communication struggles to performance anxiety, body image, shame,

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01:08:41

Sex and Sobriety: Learning to Hook Up, Date, and Feel...

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2026/08/05

What happens when alcohol or substances have been part of the way you flirt, hook up, date, or feel sexy—and then suddenly they're not? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're talking about sex and sobriety: the awkwardness, the vulnerability, the fear, and the freedom that can come with learning how to navigate intimacy without a chemical buffer. From liquid courage and lowered inhibitions to consent, confidence, hookup culture, and discovering what you actually want when you're fully

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59:36

Beauty, Confidence, and Owning Your Power: A...

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2026/07/29

This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by musician, author, award-nominated adult performer, and trans icon Blake Lovely for a candid conversation about confidence, sexuality, self-expression, and living authentically. This is part 2 of our conversation. From growing up in rural Virginia knowing she was destined to become the woman she is today, to building a successful music career, transitioning, and becoming one of the most recognized trans performers in adult entertainment, Blake shares

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51:17

Beauty, Confidence, and Owning Your Power: A...

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2026/07/22

This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by musician, author, award-nominated adult performer, and trans icon Blake Lovely for a candid conversation about confidence, sexuality, self-expression, and living authentically. This is part 1 of our conversation. From growing up in rural Virginia knowing she was destined to become the woman she is today, to building a successful music career, transitioning, and becoming one of the most recognized trans performers in adult entertainment, Blake shares

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50:59

Use Your Words: How to Ask for What You Want in Bed

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2026/07/15

Have you ever wished your partner could read your mind in the bedroom? You're not alone. One of the biggest obstacles to a satisfying sex life isn't technique—it's communication. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're talking about how to ask for what you want in bed without feeling awkward, selfish, or embarrassed. From overcoming shame and fear of rejection to learning how to give constructive feedback and discuss fantasies, desires, and boundaries, we'll explore practical ways to improve

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01:14:17

Signals, Smirks, and Seduction

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2026/07/08

What separates a charming flirt from a cringeworthy pickup artist? Is flirting something you're born knowing how to do, or is it a skill anyone can learn? This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're exploring the art of flirting—the subtle dance of attraction, communication, confidence, and connection. From eye contact and body language to playful teasing and digital dating, we'll break down what flirting really is and why it's such an important part of human interaction. We'll discuss the psychology

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01:03:11

Too Fast, Too Furious: Understanding Premature...

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2026/07/01

How long is sex supposed to last, anyway? And what exactly counts as premature ejaculation? In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we're tackling one of the most common—and most misunderstood—sexual concerns: premature ejaculation (PE). Whether you've experienced it yourself, have a partner who has, or you're simply curious about the science behind it, we're separating fact from fiction and taking the shame out of the conversation. We'll explore what premature ejaculation actually is, why it

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53:29

Dear Dildo Whisperer- Your Questions Answered

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2026/06/24

Pack your bags — and maybe your carry-on toy cleaner — because this week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're diving into your listener questions! We're talking about the dos and don'ts of traveling with sex toys, how to navigate airport security without dying of embarrassment, and what you should know before packing chastity devices or prostate toys for your next adventure. We also explore the fascinating — and surprisingly controversial — medical history of the vibrator, including how these devices were

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47:24

Harder Better Faster Longer?

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2026/06/17

Erectile dysfunction medications like Viagra and Cialis are more common than ever — but how much do we really know about them? This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we dive deep into the world of ED medications: how they work, why people use them recreationally, the pressures surrounding sexual performance, and the very real health risks that can come with misuse. We also tackle one of the most important harm reduction conversations in queer nightlife and hookup culture: the dangerous combination of ED

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01:21:59

Is It Cheating If They're Only in Your Head?

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2026/06/10

This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're diving into one of the messiest modern relationship questions: Is it cheating if it only happens in your head? Is fantasizing about an ex during masturbation crossing a line? What about during sex with your current partner? We explore the emotional grey areas of relationships, including emotional affairs, online flirting, secret texting, social media behavior, and the complicated space between fantasy and betrayal. Cheating isn't always physical anymore — and

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58:25

Close Encounters of the Sexy Kind: Alien Sex Fantasies

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2026/06/03

This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're blasting off into the strange, sexy, and surprisingly common world of alien sex fantasies. From alien impregnation storylines and futuristic pleasure devices to tentacles, abduction roleplay, and sci-fi seduction, we explore why the unknown can be such a powerful turn-on. What do these fantasies reveal about curiosity, transformation, power, and human desire? Why do so many people find freedom in imagining sex beyond the limits of humanity? And how has pop

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45:23

Late Bloomers: Coming Out Later in Life

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2026/05/27

Coming out isn't just for teenagers—it happens every day, at every age. In this episode of The Dildo Whisperer, we explore what it means to come out later in life: the fear, the freedom, the grief, and the sexual awakening that can follow. Whether you're navigating this journey yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers compassion, real talk, and a reminder that it's never too late to live your truth. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next

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48:21

Mastering Pleasure: Parker Woods & The Great...

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2026/05/20

May is Masturbation Month, and we're celebrating by diving headfirst into the world of self-pleasure, stigma, and sexual self-discovery. This week on The Dildo Whisperer, we're joined by Parker Woods—the reigning "Master Bator" turned host of the hit reality series The Great BateWorld BateOff on BateWorld. Parker takes us behind the scenes of Season 5, where five contestants compete in inventive (and sometimes surprising) challenges like "Hands Free" and "Mirror Bate," all in pursuit of the ultimate

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