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Dildo Whisperer

Romaine Patterson

The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

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All Episodes

01:02:23

Sexual History & Dating — Does Your Number of...

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2026/04/08

Does your number of previous partners matter when it comes to dating? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we talk about body count, sexual history, double standards, insecurity, and how past experiences can (and can't) impact relationships. We explore why people care, when it's relevant, and how to talk about your sexual past without shame, pressure, or judgment. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways

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36:11

Music To Bang To- ENCORE

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2026/04/01

In this encore episode- One of our listeners sent in a topic idea and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss how music can enhance the sexual experience. Find out what makes a great sex playlist and how to make one! Plus, learn about why music is such an important tool in your sex tool box. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you

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39:35

Finding Pleasure in Pain – Part 6 Aftercare: Physical...

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2026/03/25

Aftercare is not optional—it's part of the play. In Part 5 of the Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we're talking about aftercare: the physical and emotional support that helps bodies and minds recover after pain play. From hydration, warmth, and first aid basics to reassurance, emotional presence, and post-scene check-ins, this episode explores why aftercare is essential—not extra. We'll unpack common post-scene experiences like sub-drop and Dom-drop, how to negotiate aftercare before a scene, what

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57:16

Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 5- What It Means...

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2026/03/18

Pain doesn't just live in the body—it can move emotions, unlock release, and create powerful moments of connection. In this episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain, we explore what it means emotionally to find pleasure in pain and why this experience is so meaningful for many people. We talk about emotional release, control and surrender, grounding, trust, and intimacy, as well as how power exchange and consent shape these experiences. This conversation also gently addresses the complexity of pain,

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45:05

Taking a Sex "Time Out" in a Relationship: Helpful...

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2026/03/11

Taking a break from sex while in a relationship can feel scary, relieving, confusing—or all three at once. In this episode, we explore the idea of a sex "time out": what it is, why couples choose it, and whether it's actually a healthy move or a relationship red flag. We talk about the potential benefits—like reducing pressure, rebuilding emotional intimacy, and reconnecting with desire—as well as the real concerns, including mismatched expectations, feelings of rejection, and what happens when a

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51:41

Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 4- Safety and...

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2026/03/04

Pain can be powerful, erotic, and deeply connecting — but only when it's grounded in safety, consent, and awareness. In this fourth episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore what risk-aware play really looks like, how to recognize when it's time to stop, and what to do when pain play isn't working the way you hoped. We talk about physical and emotional warning signs, safewords, aftercare, and why ending a scene early is not failure — it's skilled play. This episode is about choosing

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54:53

Valentine's Day Ideas When You've Just Started Dating

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2026/02/25

Valentine's Day can feel awkward when you've just started dating. Is a card too much? Is doing nothing a red flag? And does the holiday automatically come with expectations around sex? In this episode, we're breaking down Valentine's Day ideas that work for brand-new connections—without forcing romance, labels, or pressure. From low-key date ideas and thoughtful gestures to navigating intimacy and mismatched expectations, this episode is all about keeping things intentional, communicative, and fun

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01:04:25

Advocating for Your Sexual Health in Medical Spaces

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2026/02/18

Advocating for your sexual health in a medical setting shouldn't feel scary — but for many of us, it does. In this episode, we break down how to speak up for your body, your pleasure, your identity, and your boundaries in healthcare spaces that don't always make room for honest sexual conversations. From preparing for appointments and asking hard questions to navigating bias, shame, and dismissal, this episode empowers you with tools, language, and confidence to become an active participant in your

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55:03

Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 3- Different Types of...

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2026/02/11

Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play within BDSM, from impact and sensation play to psychological and endurance-based dynamics. We'll break down how pain can feel pleasurable, why different bodies and minds experience it differently, and how consent, communication, and aftercare transform pain into a powerful, intimate exchange. Whether

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01:06:03

Dating a Trans Person- Understanding Gender Identity...

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2026/02/04

What does it actually mean to date a trans person—and how is gender identity different from sexual orientation? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down the basics without dumbing it down. We explore common myths, unpack attraction and labels, and talk about what respectful, affirming dating looks like when your partner is trans. From pronouns and communication to sex, pleasure, and consent, this conversation centers curiosity over assumptions and people over labels. Whether you're

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44:11

A Conversation About Consent- ENCORE

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2026/01/28

Your Dildo Whisperer is still dealing with her cross country move. Which means this week's episode is an encore episode! Enjoy this encore and we will be back with new episodes soon. ENCORE Episode This week the Dildo Whisperer is having a conversation about consent. It is a topic that isn't talked about nearly enough and people often misunderstand what it means to get consent. Romaine and Ajay talk about personal experiences of times when consent was about mental health, personal preference and

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50:33

Year In Review

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2026/01/14

The Dildo Whisperer is wrapping up the 3rd season of the show with a look back at Romaine and Ajay's top 3 episodes of 2025. This is a fun look back on episodes that were both serious and comical but most importantly educational. Tune in to hear about some of the episodes you may have missed. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can

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48:01

Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 2 — Consent,...

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2026/01/07

In part 2 of our Finding Pleasure in Pain series we will focus on why pain can be an erotic, intimate, empowering — and deeply pleasurable part of sex — when it's done with care, clarity, and consent. In this episode, we explore how people find pleasure in intense sensation, why the brain sometimes loves a little sting, and what it really takes to make pain play safe, connected, and mutually satisfying. We break down the foundations of informed consent, walk through real-world negotiation tips, and

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29:09

Finding Pleasure in Pain Series: Part 1-...

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2025/12/31

Why do some people find pleasure in pain? In this educational, sex-positive series, we are going to explore the science and psychology behind erotic pain—how certain sensations activate the brain's pleasure centers, why trust and vulnerability deepen the experience, and how kink dynamics create powerful emotional intimacy. In part 1 of this series we break down different types of sensation play, from spanking and scratching to temperature play and BDSM tools, all through a lens of consent, safety,

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27:59

Holiday Heat- Bringing Seasonal Spice Into Your Sex Life

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2025/12/24

The holidays aren't just about twinkling lights and cozy sweaters—they're also a perfect chance to spark intimacy, reconnect with your body, and bring a little extra spice into the season. In this episode, we unwrap creative, consensual ways to blend holiday traditions with pleasure: from festive sensory play and sexy gift ideas to roleplay, themed lingerie, and cozy rituals that can deepen connection. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode offers fun, shame-free

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47:11

Gratitude and Pleasure- Honoring a Healthy Sex Life

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2025/12/17

In this heart-centered episode, we explore how gratitude can transform your sexual well-being—from deepening emotional connection to boosting desire, confidence, and communication. Whether you're solo, partnered, monogamous, or somewhere in between, we break down how gratitude helps cultivate a more fulfilling, joyful, and authentic sex life. We'll dive into self-love practices, partner appreciation rituals, body positivity, and the simple moments that keep intimacy thriving beyond the bedroom

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40:47

Small but Mighty: The History of the Pocket Rocket

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2025/12/10

It's the little vibrator that changed everything. In this episode, we blast off into the history of the Pocket Rocket — the small, unassuming toy that helped bring sexual pleasure out of the shadows and into the mainstream. From its 1990s debut as a "personal massager" to its rise as a cultural icon, the Pocket Rocket redefined what a sex toy could be: discreet, approachable, and designed for real people. We'll explore how this tiny device empowered a generation to embrace self-pleasure, influenced

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46:35

Love at a Distance- Staying Connected with Sex Tech

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2025/12/03

Who says long-distance can't be intimate? This week on the Dildo Whisperer, we're turning up the heat with remote-controlled and app-connected sex toys—the tech keeping lovers close even when they're miles apart. From how these devices work to tips for creating emotional connection across screens, we'll explore the fun, the fantasy, and the future of digital intimacy. Whether you're separated by cities or continents, these toys prove that love (and pleasure) can travel at the speed of Wi-Fi.

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51:39

Holding Back for More- The Pleasure of Edging

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2025/11/26

Get ready to flirt with the edge! In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we explore the art of edging—the practice of teasing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and pulling back for even more intense pleasure. We'll talk about how to do it safely, why it heightens sensation, and how it can strengthen sexual connection and communication. Whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner, this deep dive into control, patience, and pleasure will have you rethinking how you finish.

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44:51

Barrier Benefits- Why Condoms Still Matter

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2025/11/19

They're small, they're mighty, and they just might save your life. From flavored to glow-in-the-dark, condoms have come a long way. Join us as we unpack the myths, the science, and the fun behind this bedroom essential. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The

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