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ask a sub

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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158. Let's Talk About Latex!

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2026/03/20

What if you wanted to wear a raincoat but like…. in a weird way?? In anticipation of our upcoming Deep Dive with Anastasiia Fedorova, author of Second Skin: Inside The Worlds of Fetish, Kink, and Deviant Desire, we're revisiting an old episode all about rubber and latex! If you're a fetishist of any kind, or just a little fetish curious, check out this link to join that discussion on Sunday, March 22. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server,

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19:40

157. Responsible Mess Management

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2026/03/13

We're all a mess rn. How do we share our messy selves with others messy selves without making too much of a mess?? It's the question of the day and Lina uses her mess to make an attempt at an answer. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub and recording a voice

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24:16

156. My Dudes! My Guys! My Bros!

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2026/03/06

What is a Nice Guy™ to do when the sub he's playing with refuses to enumerate her wants/needs? Is it pressure-y to insist on a discussion? And, more broadly, how are nice and good men supposed to operate as Doms? Lina chimes in this week on one of her favorite subjects — Men! Not to bash them, but to encourage them along the road to constructive masculinity and their best selves. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium

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28:21

155. Quick Hits: British ≠ English, Grief = Horny

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2026/02/27

On this month's Quick Hits we're talking about how Lina and Mr. Dune take their tea, and how to put yourself out there at kinky parties, when you're a little tender, and most especially when you're grieving. You don't have to be perfect to be loved, but you MOST CERTAINLY may NOT put the milk in before the tea is steeped!! Twin Cities Rent Relief: https://gofund.me/442fc6781 The Great Milk Debate | Gianmarco Soresi at Edinburgh Fringe Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub

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18:43

154. How To Tell If Someone Is Kinky (No Telepathy...

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2026/02/14

A listener wants to know how to tell if someone is kinky without having to ask. You guessed it, you do still have to ask, but there are subtle ways of sussing out the bedroom habits of your hot, competent coworker without immediately entering lawsuit territory. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this

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22:43

153. Does A 'Pleasure Dom' Imply The Existence Of A…...

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2026/02/06

Some thoughts on the implications of the words we use to signal safety, pontifications on whether 'Pleasure Doms' are inadvertent pick-mes, and another battle cry on how you deserve pleasure, respect, and softness even if your kink is hard and scary. We don't all have to be sunny, happy carebears…. Some of us are evil carebears that wear black and get stepped on. Substack post on The Chronology Of Water (also available on Patreon) Buy Chronology of Water & tip Ask A Sub with your purchase! Wild

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14:56

152. Pro-Submission with Alexis O'Kneel

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2026/02/02

Pro-sub Alexis O'Kneel joins us to discuss a little-known facet of the Oldest Profession, and how pro-subs can be a resource to all members of the kink community. Even people who have been slighted by waitresses and want to alchemize their experience into horny mutual fun. You know, #JustCanadianThings. To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon at $11/month or substack at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here. Submit questions for this podcast as

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18:17

151. If You Want The Juice, You Gotta Show 'Em The...

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2026/01/25

We're inventing idioms on the Ask A Sub podcast once again, and this time we're talking about how to balance a desire for a long-term relationship with sorting out kink compatibility. We also talk about how easy 'easy' is supposed to be, prioritizing your priorities, and how to go to the tide pools and come out with the exact pufferfish you want. It makes sense if you listen, we swear!! Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of

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22:07

150. Zen and the Art of Not Trauma Dumping

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2026/01/18

What if our baggage from the vanilla world could be taken away as easily as selling something on Facebook Marketplace? Until that time, Lina provides a rubric and several measuring sticks (??) for evaluating methods of sharing your stuff with partners that feels interdependent rather than trauma dump-y. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with

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19:38

149. Quick Hits: Clubs, Cults, and Sexual Favors

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2026/01/10

We're back with another Quick Hits episode! This time we're talking about how to get slammed in a hockey-coded way, how to tell if your kinky commune is a cult, and how to negotiate a relationship where your boundaries are no boundaries! Join us! Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by

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35:10

148. New Year, Same Heated Rivalry with Danielle Belazel

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2026/01/02

We're back with a shared full episode (no snippet!) with the Sex Ed with DB podcast, talking all about everyone's favorite smutty gay hockey show, HEATED RIVALRY! Danielle and I discuss the secret sauce that's making the whole internet so feral for this show, and some practical tips for how to use lubricant when the show may have edited that kind of thing out. Why The Girls Want To Look At The Gays | How To Do Consensual Non-Consent With Your Hockey Nemesis/Gay Lover Become a Patreon member to

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20:08

147. Getting Your Bag (Ethically!)

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2025/12/19

A caller is struggling with accepting money for Domination services, and understandably so! But this week we're talking about how to get the rent paid on the journey to the social utopia of which we all dream. Idk, my revolution involves getting a spa treatment here and there, especially if you're hard at work stepping on people. Mistress Velvet | Panel with Jill Carter | The Carter Johnson Library | SWOP Behind Bars | Red Canary Song Gift Ask A Sub! Patreon | Substack | Courses (code GIFTGUIDE40

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22:10

146. This Sex Cult Stole Our Sh*t! With Natalie...

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2025/12/13

This month on the Deep Dive series we're joined by journalist Natalie Robehmed, whose exclusive access to Allison Mack after her time in prison culminated in the podcast Allison After NXIVM. We'll explore the fine line between victim and perpetrator, and maybe roast the volleyball thing just a little bit. Cult Support Resources from CultRecovery101.com Gift Ask A Sub! Patreon | Substack | Courses (code GIFTGUIDE40 for 40% off) | Office Hours To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon at

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33:28

145. JennaWorld & Why We're So Weird About Porn with...

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2025/12/07

This week we're joined buy Molly Lambert, host of the JennaWorld podcast all about Jenna Jameson, Vivid Video, & The Valley. We track the recent history of porn from kid Rock's open fandom to today's manosphere no-nut phenomenon and once again come to the surprising conclusion that capitalism is the problem. Gift Ask A Sub! Patreon | Substack | Courses (code GIFTGUIDE40 for 40% off) | Office Hours | The Ask A Sub Gift Guide Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits

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144. Noelle Perdue Is A Pervert (Not Derogatory)

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2025/11/29

Noelle Perdue, writer of the PORN WORLD substack and noted Thinker of Thoughts joins us on the pod this week to break down the porn industry, the power of performance, and unexpected uses for the hobby horse you left in your parents' attic. Gift subscriptions!! Substack / Patreon To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon at $11/month or substack at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to

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23:02

143. Consciously Un-Subbing

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2025/11/23

A listener wants to know how to curate a conscious breakup, and Lina speaks to the unusual amount of D/s ghosts she's heard about lately. THE ASK A SUB GIFT GUIDE - Get your person a gift subscription or package of office hours! Or an online course! 'Healing Is Making Us Mean' by Gloria Alamrew Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and

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22:28

142. Quick Hits: Emily Tied-To-A-Post (And Whipped!)

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2025/11/14

This week Lina puts on her etiquette hat to solve the age-old issue of who cleans up after a scene! Also included are Mr. Dune reading assignments, a happy switching story, and bizarre kinks. Read the substack article here. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub

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22:05

141. Your Partner Is Not A McDonald's Soft Serve Machine

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2025/11/08

What happens when you have to take a pause but centuries of social conditioning tell you you're not allowed to stop until your partner comes?? Follow Lina into the McDonald's drive-through and out of the endless reassurance spiral as we swirl together one of the weirder combinations of heartfelt advice and inappropriate imagery ever served up on this pod. Become a Patreon member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as

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16:39

140. Now Write 'Submissive ≠ Passive' 50 Times On The...

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2025/10/31

Lina takes the mic this week to clarify a misunderstanding about the responsibility of subs in D/s dynamics, how both partners can bring 100%, and once again breaks the bad news that, yes, we have to talk to people about what we want if we want to get it (EW!). If you're looking for Halloween stuff, sign up for a paid membership on patreon or substack to get Lina and Mr. Dune talking about the Hellraiser franchise, specifically 'Hellbound: Hellraiser 2.' Become a Patreon member to gain access to all

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17:04

139. How To F*ck Like A Girl with Vera Blossom

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2025/10/25

How DO you f*ck like a girl?? Vera Blossom has the answers in her debut essay collection by the same name, a trans coming of age that reads like an epic poem made out with a tumblr blog in a public bathroom. We talk passing vs creating, being Elvis Presley's long lost son, and staring into the swirling chaos at the center of the earth through estrogen-tinted glasses. Pick your gender of the day and join us for some playful expansiveness as we crack the columns of the gender binary temple. Become a

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