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The Horny Housewife

Jordyn Hakes | Pleasure Podcasts

This podcast is about the reality of sex in marriage. The good, the bad, the ugly & the inevitable. Every Monday I am discussing all things intimacy & answering your burning questions about what really goes on behind closed doors. Tune in to hear topics like navigating mismatched libidos, dead bedrooms, dating your spouse and technique tips for both men and women. Your host Jordyn Hakes is about to become your favorite unfiltered, brutally honest big(little?) sister. For all the married people still

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306. Work Ruining Your Sex Life & Pick Your Poison:...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/10/05

306. Work Ruining Your Sex Life & Pick Your Poison: Marriage, Sex & Dealbreakers Can a good marriage survive a season of bad—or barely existent—sex? And when does a relationship problem become an actual dealbreaker? This week, Jordyn is answering more listener questions about marriage, sex, mismatched libido, intimacy and relationship struggles, including one listener whose husband's promotion and longer work hours have completely changed their sex life. When work, parenting, exhaustion and real

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305. Comparison Ruining Your S*x Life & Things I Know...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/09/29

Comparison is the thief of joy… and apparently, it can also be the thief of a good sex life. This week, we're talking about how comparison can quietly creep into sex, intimacy, marriage, body image, attraction, and relationships—and why constantly measuring your sex life against everyone else's can leave you feeling like something is wrong when it might not be. Then, in honor of turning 37, I'm getting personal with the things I know at 37 that I absolutely did NOT know at 27. We're talking

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304. High Libido Wife with an Uninterested Husband,...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/09/21

This week, Jordyn is answering listener questions about mismatched libidos, marriage struggles, attraction, jealousy, and what happens when loving someone might not be enough. Plus, what do you do when another man makes it very clear he wants your wife? Real relationship problems, complicated answers, and zero sugarcoating. SPONSORS 🔥 Beducated — Start your journey today and take the quiz at Beducated. Use code JORDYN. https://beduc.at/pd2636-jordyn 💦 Popstar — Get 20% off your purchase with promo

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303. Lindsay Clancy, Death of the Pastor's Wife & the...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/09/14

The Lindsay Clancy trial ended in a mistrial—and somehow, after weeks of testimony, I'm left with even more questions about postpartum psychosis, criminal responsibility, motherhood, and what it actually looks like when a woman is desperately struggling. Then there's Mica Miller. I watched Netflix's new documentary Death of the Pastor's Wife, and her story has been living rent-free in my brain ever since. Two completely different women. Two completely different tragedies. But both stories forced me

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302. I Asked Married People Why They're Still Married…

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/09/08

Why are some couples still happily married after 10, 20, even 35+ years? I asked married people what they actually attribute their long-term marriages to—and the answers were way more honest than "communication is key." We're talking friendship, loyalty, therapy, kids, stubbornness, keeping your sex life alive, surviving hard seasons, choosing each other…and one brutally honest answer that basically came down to: divorce would've been a bigger disaster. 😂 But first, I'm answering two

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301. Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/08/31

You know your attachment style. You know your triggers. You may even understand exactly where your relationship patterns came from… so why do you STILL find yourself having the same fight? This week I'm joined by relationship therapist Dr. Darcy Sterling, host of We Need to Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling, for a conversation about the subconscious patterns quietly running our relationships — and why simply understanding your problems isn't always enough to change them. We talk about anxious vs

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300. Are We Overthinking Our Marriages Into Divorce?

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/08/25

We have more relationship advice than ever—attachment styles, childhood wounds, red flags, boundaries, narcissism, communication tools—but is all this self-awareness actually helping our marriages? Or are we analyzing our spouses to fucking death? Today we're talking about social media's obsession with toxic relationships, the cultural shift around marriage and family, and what happens when healthy self-reflection turns into exhausting relationship hypervigilance. We get into: Are we

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300. Are We Overthinking Our Marriages Into Divorce?

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/08/25

We have more relationship advice than ever—attachment styles, childhood wounds, red flags, boundaries, narcissism, communication tools—but is all this self-awareness actually helping our marriages? Or are we analyzing our spouses to fucking death?Today we’re talking about social media’s obsession with toxic relationships, the cultural shift around marriage and family, and what happens when healthy self-reflection turns into exhausting relationship hypervigilance. We get into: Are we

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299. Deleted Texts, Dreading Coming Home & The...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/08/17

What happens when one deleted text turns into a full-blown story in your head—or when you find yourself dreading coming home to your own spouse? This week, we’re talking about the stories we tell ourselves in marriage and how those internal narratives can quietly become the lens through which we see our entire relationship.From deleted texts and phone privacy to resentment, emotional disconnection, trust, marriage communication and feeling unhappy at home, I’m breaking down how assumptions can

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298. Would You Rather? Marriage Edition + My Wife...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/08/10

Would you rather: marriage edition — plus a listener question from a husband who feels like his wife doesn’t desire him anymore. I’m talking sex, attraction, rejection, marriage, intimacy, and what happens when one partner starts feeling unwanted in their relationship.A mix of fun, uncomfortable questions and a very real conversation about desire in long-term relationships. ASK ANON @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com Uberlube: get 10% off plus free shipping using code HOUSEWIFE at

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297. Why Your Spouse Doesn’t Tell You What’s Wrong

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/08/03

Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, "Why won't you just tell me what's wrong?"I think most people get this completely backwards. In this episode, I'm breaking down why people shut down instead of speaking up, what silence is actually communicating, and why the words "I'm fine" rarely mean what we think they do. If you've ever felt shut out, stonewalled, or like your partner expects you to read their mind, this conversation might completely change the way you see conflict,

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296. The Hidden Resentments that Slowly Kill Great...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/07/27

Most marriages don't end because of one explosive fight—they slowly drift apart from the small hurts that never get talked about.In this episode, we're diving into the hidden resentments that quietly erode trust, intimacy, and connection over time. From feeling unseen and unappreciated to keeping score, carrying the mental load, and giving up on asking for what you need, these are the silent relationship killers that many couples don't recognize until it's too late. We'll also walk through The

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295. The Small Things That Lead to Great Sex

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/07/20

Great sex doesn't start in the bedroom—it starts in the small moments that happen every day. In this episode, we break down the simple habits that build emotional connection, increase desire, and create a stronger, more intimate marriage. Practical, relatable, and immediately actionable for both men and women.ASK ANON @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com Super.com : Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit

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294. You're Not Happy... You're Comfortable

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/07/13

Comfort isn't always happiness—and confusing the two can keep you stuck for years. In this episode, I break down why so many people stay in relationships, jobs, and routines that feel "fine" but leave them unfulfilled. We talk about fear of change, emotional complacency, and the hard questions you need to ask if you're ready to build a life that actually feels good—not just familiar. If you've been wondering whether you're truly happy or just comfortable, this episode is for you. ASK ANON @

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293. The Marriage Advice I No Longer Agree With

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/07/06

Some of the marriage advice we've all been given is... complete bullshit. Okay, maybe not all of it—but a surprising amount of it hasn't held up in my own marriage. In this episode, I'm sharing the relationship advice I no longer agree with, why I've changed my mind, and what I think actually works after years of marriage, therapy, mistakes, and a whole lot of figuring it out the hard way. We get into things like "never go to bed angry," whether your spouse should really be your best friend,

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292. The Version of Your Marriage You're Comparing...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/06/30

Is comparison quietly damaging your marriage? It's easier than ever to look at another couple—on social media, in your friend group, or even at church—and wonder why your relationship doesn't feel like theirs. But what if you're comparing your marriage to a version that doesn't actually exist? In this episode, we're talking about the unrealistic expectations we've placed on long-term relationships, why healthy marriages still go through hard seasons, and how comparison can make a good marriage

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291. What Married Men Secretly Wish Women Knew About...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/06/22

What do married men secretly wish women understood about sex, intimacy, and desire? In this candid conversation, Stirling Cooper joins me to discuss the biggest disconnects between husbands and wives in the bedroom, what men often struggle to communicate, how confidence impacts attraction, and the habits that create lasting sexual connection in marriage. Whether you're looking to improve intimacy, reignite desire, or better understand your partner, this episode is packed with honest insights and

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290. Farting isn’t Sexy, Beginner Prostate Play &...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/06/15

tune in to hear me discuss a husbands plead for help in regards to his flatulent wife, another couples curiosity for backdoor play and why being a "bad girl" is -alluring- to your husband. ask anon @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com bluechew: buy 2 months of bluechew gold get your 3rd month free using code HOUSEWIFE at checkout at https://www.bluechew.com popstar: get 20% off your purchase using code hornyhousewife at https://www.popstarlabs.com/hornyhousewife uberlube: get 10% off + free

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289. Reddit’s Wildest Relationship Problems

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/06/08

Today we take some of reddits wildest relationship stories and discuss. From not having an orgasm the entire 3 year relationship, to threatening to hurt the dog to control, to bikini pics ruining the marriage. Tune in NOW ASK ANON. @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com Bluechew: Buy 2 months of Bluechew gold get your 3rd month FREE using code HOUSEWIFE at https://www.bluechew.com Popstar: Recieve 20% off when you use promo code HORNYHOUSEWIFE at https://www.popstarlabs.com/hornyhousewife

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288. Thirst Traps, Sex Toys & Going from 'Mommy Mode'...

The Horny Housewife ·

2026/06/01

Today one husband is on the verge of divorce as his wife as taken her social media hobby of "bikini modeling" to the level....he isnt comfortable with. Another wife recieved a giant d!ldo as a gift awhile back and husband found...he wasn't exactly turned on. Lastly a tale as old as time, a wife who dearly loves her husband and struggles to go from mommy mode to "horny housewife" as the day evolves. tune in now to hear solutions!ask anon @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com Bluechew: buy 2 months

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