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PODCAST

Desire Different Podcast

Hosted by Nikki Jennifer

100 episodes and counting, hosted by Nikki, certified in Sacred Sexuality and Energy Healing, Desire Different is a sanctuary for self-led women reclaiming pleasure literacy, orgasmic connection, feminine embodiment, and emotional wholeness. Each episode helps you understand your body, your desire, and your sensual intelligence without pressure or force. We explore desire, identity, emotional healing, and the deeper truths that help you return to yourself with clarity and confidence. I"ve walked

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00:08:08

Why You Can't Just Think Your Way to Orgasm

Desire Different Podcast ·

2026/01/16

Trying harder won’t bring you closer to orgasm. Thinking your way into pleasure doesn’t work either.In this one, I explain why willpower is the wrong access point for women's pleasure and orgasm....and how mental effort often creates tension, pressure, and shutdown in the body.Many women have been taught to focus, push, concentrate, or “get there” using the mind. But orgasm isn’t a mental achievement. It’s a biological response that depends on nervous system regulation and internal safety.Pleasure

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00:12:37

My Pleasure Story: What Actually Made Me Orgasmic

Desire Different Podcast ·

2026/01/13

In this episode, I share my personal pleasure story and the moment I realized I didn’t want anyone else telling me what kind of pleasure I was capable of. I was done with the zero orgasm bit!For years, I was handed explanations about women's pleasure that felt limiting, confusing, or disconnected from my actual body. Sex could feel good, but something was missing and I knew it wasn’t because I was broken or "messed up".So, I share with you how misinformation, performance-based sex education, and

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00:10:37

Sex Education Was Never Designed for Women's Pleasure

Desire Different Podcast ·

2026/01/09

Okay, THIS is where the initial error lives...in this episode I talk about the first structural error most women learn in their sex education....the assumption that our pleasure should behave like a man’s.When women are taught to model their bodies after a linear, goal-based orgasm pattern, pleasure becomes something to monitor and evaluate instead of embody! What often gets labeled as numbness, low desire, or difficulty orgasming is not a personal failure, but a nervous system response to the wrong

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00:11:21

Most Sex Education is About Performance Not Feeling

Desire Different Podcast ·

2026/01/05

In this episode, I explore how performance-based sex education trained women to place their attention outside of their bodies and why that’s where disorientation begins. Because....the distraction is real! 😮‍💨We were taught how sex should look and how to do it “right,” but not how to stay connected to what we’re feeling while it’s happening.I talk about what traditional sex education left out, how this disconnect impacts pleasure and intimacy, and why so many women feel something is missing even

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00:15:27

100th Episode: What I Know Now That I Didn't at...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2026/01/01

EEEEKKKKKKKKK!!!!! 😆 This is episode 100 of Desire Different Podcast!!!!....which feels honestly a little WILD to say out loud! Okay, so Happy New Year! Happy 2026!!!So in this milestone episode ☺️ I reflect on how my work with women’s pleasure has evolved over time. Ya'll we have evolved honey! What started as teaching about pleasure/orgasm....turned into something much deeper: helping women orient their bodies toward pleasure in a way that actually feels safe, intelligible, and doable, not

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00:10:47

This Is What Happens When Women Stop Trying to Force...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/28

What happens when women stop trying to make pleasure happen??!In this episode, I explore what shifts when pressure and performance fall away and why forcing pleasure often disconnects us from it. We look at the difference between chasing sensation and allowing the body to respond naturally, and how receptivity and relaxation play a central role in women's pleasure systems.This conversation offers a gentler, more intelligent approach to pleasure....one rooted in presence, safety, and

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00:09:54

Why You Can Feel 'Turned On' But Still Disconnected

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/24

In this episode, we explore an important distinction many women were never taught: being physically aroused does not always mean being fully present or ready for a deeply satisfying sexual experience. Get in here....I share why getting wet is only one small part of the conditions for great sex, and how pressure, effort, and performance can disconnect us from true pleasure. I also reflect on my own journey and how my early understanding of sex was shaped by masculine-centered scripts, and how

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00:07:54

Are You Only Experiencing Surface Pleasure?

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/20

Okay, in this one....I introduce a distinction most women were never given and once you see it, you’ll start noticing it everywhere in your sex life! Literally!We explore the difference between surface pleasure and deeper pleasure. And why stimulation and "short arousal" don’t always lead to fulfillment. Pleasure isn’t just a physical response, it’s an internal cascade. And when women don’t know that that cascade exists, they often assume the first layer is the whole experience. No, no, no

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00:13:24

Why Wanting An Orgasm Makes It Harder to Have One

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/16

In this episode, we explore one of the most common and most misunderstood challenges women face: difficulty reaching orgasm!! Bruhhhhhhhhh…I share why wanting orgasm is natural, not a sign that something is wrong with you, and how pressure, effort, and performance can actually shut down the body’s natural pleasure response. We talk about why pleasure unfolds more easily when you shift from trying to allowing, and why safety and relaxation are essential for deeper sensation.I also share how I went

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00:09:54

The #1 Reason Women Can't Feel Pleasure & How to...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/12

In this episode, I explore the number one reason so many women struggle to feel pleasure and why it has nothing to do with being broken. (Because girl, you are not f***** broken!!!) 🧚🏽‍♀️When the body is under chronic stress, emotional pressure, or constant demand, the nervous system shifts into survival mode. In this state, pleasure is basically "muted". This episode breaks down how survival mode impacts women's arousal, why presence and slowness matter, and how the body can relearn pleasure when

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00:10:48

You Don't Actually Hate Sex, Here's What's Happening

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/09

If you’ve ever thought “I hate sex,” this episode is for you. Many women don’t hate sex, they hate the pressure, expectation, and performance wrapped around it. When the body doesn’t feel safe, pleasure can’t open, no matter how much desire is there.This is a re-framing, not a how-to. Nothing is wrong with you, your body has been protecting you bbg! Ahhhh 🤣 , that means babygirl (I blame my seventeen year old 😆)As we move through December, these episodes are designed to help you slow down, soften,

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00:14:11

Pleasure Literacy: The Foundation of Top Tier...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/04

This episode is a beautiful starting point for reconnecting to your orgasmic pleasure, as we continue our December Soft Reset Arc. I'll tell you all about why....people often ask me what changed in my pleasure story when I became more receptive to orgasm, and I tell them....when I stopped having sex the way a man taught me….and started becoming literate in my own pleasure….everything about my orgasmic potential changed!! Pleasure literacy is how you de-armor, how you wake your body back up, and how

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00:08:42

The Reset Women Actually Need Before the New Year

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/12/02

In this episode we are sitting inside the start of our December soft reset arc...a month designed to bring you back into alignment before the new year begins! New alignment, new thought, clarity....all of the lady-like things that make us truly bling...."wait what?!" 🤭🤣Okay so….this one is all about reclaiming yourself: your energy, your identity, your inner voice, your essence. Not by doing more…but by returning inward. *whispers* inward like the way we were before life's fangs got this deepI

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00:13:37

If Aliens Studied Human Sex, They'd Be More Confused...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/28

What if an alien asked you to explain human habits…and you realized none of it makes sense? In this episode, I dive into a wild thought experiment, how would we explain human pleasure, habits, and intimacy to extraterrestrials? And why does our pleasure system feel…wildly unbalanced?This episode is funny, honest, and a little unhinged in the best way. If you’ve ever felt like something about how we experience pleasure doesn’t add up, this one will have you thinking!Curious to go deeper? You can

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00:19:20

Your Sex Stories Are Missing One Important Detail

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/25

(EXPLICIT: Yeah if you’re new here, this one is spicy! 😜🤣) So have you ever bragged about sex but forgot to mention if it actually felt good?! Well....this episode is equal parts funny and food for thought. I’m talking about women who brag, “He fcked the sht outta me,” but never mention if they actually felt pleasure or orgasm. We’re unpacking why fast, hard, performance-based sex is holding strong as a weird “flex” but why slowing down is the real power move. Listen....we're finally admitting

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00:04:29

When You Just Need One Safe Hour

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/22

During this Sacred Sip, I’m inviting you to slow down and breathe again. When life feels heavy, it’s often just energy asking to be released, sorted or felt more clearly.If you’re ready to untangle what’s been weighing you down, my Sacred Support Sessions are open. One-on-one healing to help you clear, re-calibrate, and return to yourself.Learn more about my Sacred Support Sessions here:https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/sacred-support-healing-sessions-and-spiritual-mentorship

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00:06:43

How to Really Bark Like You Want It

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/19

In this Sacred Sip, I’m yappin’ about barking like you want it, not barking like a confused poodle in the rain! 😅 This is masculine clarity, not chaos. No thirst. No theatrics. Just actual confidence and presence.I break down why women respond to certainty, not “maybe,” and how your energy can make or break your chances in the first 5 seconds. If you want her, act like it. This is the psychology of attraction, masculine energy, and showing up with the kind of intention women trust.If you want to

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00:12:12

Subtle Dominance: The Real Secret to Masculine...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/17

In this episode, I heard you fellas!!!! Get in here....I'm breaking down why women feel drawn to certain men instantly and why it comes down to masculine energy, presence, and subtle dominance, not looks. Women read your nervous system, your embodiment, your confidence, and whether or not you’re grounded or performing. I talk about how true masculine magnetism comes from a calm, self-assured internal state, not validation-seeking behavior, and why feminine bodies respond to steady, grounded

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00:05:00

Sacred Sips: Healing Your Mother Wound + The...

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/14

Every woman carries echoes of her mother’s pain....the patterns she modeled, the love she withheld, the tenderness she herself maybe, never learned to receive. This sip invites you to soften the distance between who she was and who you’re becoming, so you can learn, love and accept yourself with certainty, not chaotic overflow!Ready to go deeper? Begin your healing journey with a one on one session with me, focusing on "Healing Your Mother Wound & Unlocking Your Flow" and feel what it’s like to

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00:21:11

How Women Lose Their Magic & How to Get It Back

Desire Different Podcast ·

2025/11/11

In this one, I explore what it really means to reconnect with your authentic self....the part of you that existed before the noise, the pressure, and the performance. I talk about how easy it is for women to lose their intuition when life demands constant doing, and how to begin finding your way back through stillness, breath, and intentional movement.You’ll hear about the ways society conditions us to trade our inner knowing for logic, and what happens when we stay gone from ourselves, from our

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