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The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we"re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the

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07:18

How to Handle Fear & Jealousy in Swinging Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/12/30

Fear and jealousy are natural—but how you handle them can make or break your relationship. In this heartfelt video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional challenges that can arise in the swinging lifestyle and how honest communication and vulnerability can turn those moments into opportunities for deeper trust and connection. Drawing from personal stories, they show how facing insecurities together strengthens their bond and helps build a supportive, judgment-free relationship

20:10

How to Unlock Non-Sexual Benefits in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/12/23

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving feedback that a previous video focused too much on the sexual aspects, they dedicate this episode to discussing how open relationships have strengthened their bond beyond the bedroom. Discover how open communication, deep trust, and radical honesty have created a foundation for their 13-year relationship. John and Jackie share personal experiences

06:28

Setting Boundaries in the Swinger Lifestyle

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/12/16

How do you set healthy boundaries in a swinger or open relationship? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share practical advice for navigating boundaries—especially for newcomers exploring the lifestyle. They discuss why observing before participating can be helpful, how boundaries should evolve over time, and the importance of not using them to control your partner. With a focus on open communication, mutual respect, and gradual exploration, this episode is a must-watch for anyone

14:03

How to Balance Feelings and Fun in Non-monogamy

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/12/09

In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing emotions as an external play partner in an open relationship. With their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining boundaries while acknowledging natural human emotions. The hosts discuss the challenges of a play partner who has been in a relationship for 1.5 years with strict rules about

06:36

How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/12/02

How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Can swinging lead to more emotional intimacy? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share how their open relationship has created a deeper sense of honesty, trust, and personal growth. Unlike traditional monogamous relationships where conversations about outside attraction are often avoided, John and Jackie embrace openness—creating a safe space for vulnerability, acceptance, and unconditional

22:14

10 Myths About Swinging Debunked Pt. 2

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/11/25

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind Colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie tackle the judgmental statements and questions they hear repeatedly. In this episode, they address myths like "that is disgusting," explore jealousy in open relationships, discuss how they handle

09:14

Consent in the Swinger Lifestyle: Why It Always Matters

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/11/18

Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean consent is automatic. In this important video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the vital role of consent within the swinging community—especially in environments like swinger clubs and parties. They address common misconceptions, share real experiences, and emphasize that clear communication, mutual respect, and the ability to say "no" at any time are essential. From using safe words to navigating alcohol responsibly, this conversation is a

12:04

10 Surprising Misconceptions About Nonmonogamy PT.1

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/11/11

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from "vanilla" friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears of association. The Melfis share their experiences of educating curious strangers, dealing with people who avoid them due to their lifestyle choices, and

09:04

Love & Swinging Lifestyle: Not Always Traditional

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/11/04

Can emotional connections exist without threatening your primary relationship? In this thought-provoking video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional side of swinging—and how trust, communication, and an open mindset can make all the difference. They share personal experiences, debunk common fears, and discuss how societal norms around monogamy shape our views on love, attachment, and fidelity. Whether you swing strictly for fun or are curious about deeper connections, this

09:08

Fantasy Roleplay in Consensual Non-Monogamy...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/10/28

In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, and confidence within relationships. Whether you're new to consensual non-monogamy or simply looking to spice up your intimacy, roleplay offers a safe, creative space to explore fantasies together. From costumes and card games to themed nights at clubs like colette, John and Jackie reveal how fantasy roleplay can break routine, build trust, and help

07:04

Swingers Lifestyle & Consent - What Does It Really...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/10/21

Consent isn’t one-size-fits-all. In this eye-opening discussion, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com unpack the many ways couples define and navigate consent—highlighting how mutual respect, trust, and open communication are the keys to maintaining freedom without slipping into control. They share their own experiences, caution against turning consent into restriction, and encourage ongoing conversations to ensure both partners feel safe, heard, and empowered. Whether you're exploring

12:57

When Fights Test Your Relationship: Handling Conflict...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/10/14

In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major fights and moments of emotional turbulence. They answer a viewer’s heartfelt question about whether a serious fight means the lifestyle “isn’t right” for them — and reveal why the opposite is often true. Drawing from over two decades of experience, John and Jackie explain that conflict is a normal part of any relationship, not just open ones. They share

07:13

How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/10/07

How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Looking to connect with like-minded people in the open or swinging lifestyle? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share their top tips for creating an honest, attractive, and successful profile on adult social sites like SDC, SLS, and Cassidy. They cover everything from choosing the right photos and being clear about your desires to using validation features for safety and credibility. Whether you're

44:18

Breaking Stereotypes in Open Relationships 🌍

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/09/30

Breaking stereotypes and redefining what relationships can be! 🌍 Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let’s explore it together 🙂! In this exciting and eye-opening discussion, we dive into the world of swinging, polyamory, and non-monogamous lifestyles. Ever thought about how trust, communication, and intimacy play a key role in building stronger connections? Tune in to learn how inclusivity and open-mindedness are transforming relationships everywhere! Discover the secrets of

09:52

How Swinging Can Strengthen Your Relationship

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/09/23

How Swinging Can Strengthen Your Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Think swinging ruins relationships? Think again. In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share how embracing the swinger lifestyle has enhanced their communication, intimacy, and emotional connection. They dive into how exploring fantasies without guilt, talking openly about desires, and learning from other couples can actually bring partners closer together. With personal stories and practical insights, this

17:53

The Truth About Cheating in Open Relationships

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/09/16

In this eye-opening discussion, hosts John and Jackie Melfi tackle the intriguing question: "Do lifestyle couples cheat less than monogamous couples?" Drawing from their extensive experience in open relationships and as owners of Colette Swingers Clubs, they explore the nuances of infidelity, trust, and boundaries within consensual non-monogamy. Join the conversation as they dive into what really constitutes cheating across different relationship models, why trust matters regardless of relationship

08:31

Swinging as a Threesome

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/09/09

Can swinging ever be truly “equal”? In this honest and insightful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the emotional dynamics of open relationships—especially around gender, jealousy, and fairness. Sparked by a viewer email, they dive into what happens when one partner is more actively exploring than the other, and how communication and trust play a key role in navigating those feelings. From their first threesome experience to emotional growth and lasting friendships, John and Jackie

16:55

Boundaries vs Rules: Why Language Matters in...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/09/02

In this insightful episode, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into the important distinction between boundaries and rules in relationships, especially within consensual non-monogamy. They share their personal experiences and wisdom from over 20 years in open relationships to help couples navigate these concepts effectively. The Melfis explore how boundaries are personal, fluid, and evolve with trust, while rules often feel controlling and parental. Learn how establishing healthy boundaries has

06:24

Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs?

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/08/26

Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Curious about visiting a swinger club as a single woman—but feeling unsure? In this empowering video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the common fears and societal judgments that often hold women back from exploring their sexuality in safe, respectful environments like Colette Clubs. They break down myths, share real experiences, and explain why women are always in control at swinger clubs—no pressure, no

07:36

The Dance of Differences: Making Non-Monogamy Work...

The Openlove101 Show ·

2025/08/19

Do Opposite Personalities Work in Non-Monogamy? | Open Love 101 Podcast Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous Colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie

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