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Wives Not Sisters

Kayla Nielsen and Alix Tucker

A playful, unfiltered podcast where a married wlw couple dives into the chaos of modern relationships, pop culture, queer lore, and all the little things most people wouldn’t admit out loud.Wives Not Sisters is a queer-led podcast where marriage meets humor, honesty, and a little too much sharing but in the best way. We’re here to normalize nuance in relationships -- from romantic, platonic, familial, and everything in between- and to create a space where deep conversations and dumb jokes can

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All Episodes

57:09

I'm WLW, But I'd Never Date A Woman

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2026/02/03

In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one of the most controversial queer takes on the internet: being attracted to women, sleeping with women, but not wanting to date or marry them. Is it preference, internalized homophobia, avoidance, or just honest self-awareness? Through listener submissions, they dive into WLW stereotypes, deal breakers, attachment styles, emotional intensity, codependency, and why queer relationships can feel so confronting. This episode is funny, nuanced, validatin...

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72:36

I Lost 50k Followers When I Came Out

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2026/01/27

What happens when you come out online—and thousands of people decide they’re done with you? In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack cancel culture, internet outrage, and the emotional, financial, and personal fallout of coming out publicly. From losing 50,000 followers to navigating homophobia disguised as “wellness,” they explore why the internet struggles with nuance, change, and coexistence—and why scrolling past the beans might save us all. This is a raw, thoughtful conversation about qu...

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50:32

Should Straight People Be Allowed In Gay Spaces?

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2026/01/20

In this episode, married queers Alix & Kayla debate one of the most polarizing topics in LGBTQ+ culture—from gay bars and lesbian parties to allies, baby gays, and the future of community spaces. It’s thoughtful, funny, deeply personal… and ends with the messiest Who’s the Problem yet (yes, it involves towels). This conversation explores queer history, safety, allyship, feminism, chosen family, and why context matters more than hard rules. 00:00 – Intro: married, queer & back for the ...

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56:50

What's With All The WLW Breakups Lately?

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2026/01/13

Why does it feel like every WLW couple is breaking up right now? In this episode, Alix and Kayla unpack the recent wave of WLW breakups—from emotional burnout and attachment styles to visibility pressure, queer dating dynamics, and why sapphic relationships can feel so intense. They discuss common breakup patterns, listener perspectives, and how queer relationships navigate communication, community overlap, and healing after a split. 00:00 – Intro & why WLW breakups feel different 03:10 –...

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48:05

Cheating Stories in 3, 2, 1…

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2026/01/06

Is it cheating… or just crossing a line? Alix and Kayla kick off the new year from Nicaragua by playing "Cheating or No?" —breaking down gray-area relationship scenarios like shared playlists, DMs, flirting, emotional affairs, and “we weren’t official” loopholes. They read listener-submitted cheating stories that include coworker crushes, wedding-night confessions, secret double lives, and queer awakenings sparked by one kiss. Honest, funny, and unfiltered conversations about boundaries, emot...

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68:53

Is This Female Friendship or Gay AF? Untangling...

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2025/12/23

Are homoerotic friendships a canon queer experience? 🌈 Recording from their new studio in Nicaragua, Alix and Kayla dive into homoerotic WLW friendships—the kind that blur the line between “best friend” and “something more.” From red/green flag dating games to listener submissions about twin-bed cuddling, forehead kisses, shared Google Docs, and lifelong “what ifs,” this episode unpacks queer longing, closeted intimacy, and the friendships that change us forever. Plus: a late-addition deep

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79:31

Chosen Family, Holidays, and Saying No to Expectations

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2025/12/16

Family, queerness, religion, and the holidays—this episode goes deep. Alix and Kayla open up about navigating strained family relationships, missed weddings, religious rejection, reconciliation, and what it really takes to protect your peace as a queer couple during the holidays. From engagement fallout and parents not showing up, to rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and creating chosen family traditions in Nicaragua—this is an honest, emotional, and deeply relatable conversation for anyo...

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80:12

Lore: Caitlyn Jenner

Wives Not Sisters ·

2025/12/09

In this juicy, long-form episode, Alix and Kayla go deep into Caitlyn Jenner’s childhood, gender dysphoria, Olympic fame, marriages, parenting issues, transition timeline, political contradictions, and why the public remains so divided. Honest, funny, compassionate, and unfiltered. 00:00 – Intro, reviews & coming-out stories 01:20 – Why listeners say the show helped them come out 04:40 – Caitlyn Jenner: pronouns & how she refers to her past 06:30 – Childhood, dyslexia & early gend...

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55:04

When Queer Love Changes: Trans Partners, Privilege &...

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2025/12/02

This week on Wives Not Sisters, Alix & Kayla dive into your juiciest queer write-in questions—identity shifts, relationship changes, generational LGBTQ+ tensions, age-gap love, and what really counts as “queer representation.” It’s honest, hilarious, vulnerable, and very, very gay. 🌈 We also play Underrated or Overrated (spoiler: baths don’t stand a chance), confront who’s the problem this week, and unpack the Sydney Sweeney “good jeans” chaos. 00:00 – Intro: Married, codependent, and

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80:00

WLW Lore: Caroline Calloway

Wives Not Sisters ·

2025/11/25

Alix and Kayla dive deep into the wild, chaotic, endlessly fascinating lore of Caroline Calloway — from Instagram fame and ghostwritten captions to book-deal drama, retreat controversies, and the blurred lines between “scam,” self-mythology, and survival. The wives break down the friendship between Caroline and Natalie Beach, the homoerotic tension, the internet cancellation, the workshops, the snake-oil era, and why queer audiences are obsessed with this story. If you love scammers, internet...

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64:04

Two Wives, One Wallet: Love, Finances and Your Money...

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2025/11/18

If you’ve ever argued about groceries, avoided showing your partner your skincare receipts, or wondered how to merge finances without losing your mind, this one’s for you! From $300 facials to $3,000 handbags, Venmo-requesting girlfriends, U-Haul financial disasters, queer throuple budgeting, and how not to commit tax fraud as a married couple — this episode has answers to the questions YOU submitted about managing money. 01:35 – Splurge or Save: Dyson dryers, facials & quiet luxury 05:2...

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67:16

The TERF Talk

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2025/11/11

In this episode, Alix & Kayla dive into the internet discourse that blew up: Are lesbians allowed to have dating preferences—specifically around bi women or trans women—without being labeled discriminatory or TERFs? Check out the post that started the comments war HERE! This conversation isn’t about exclusion—it's about autonomy, nuance, and consent in queer dating. 🎙️ Whether you agree or disagree, you’ll want to be in the comments for this one. 02:00 – Why real conversations matter

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59:57

How Problematic is The L Word?!

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2025/11/04

In this queer culture deep-dive, Alix and Kayla revisit The L Word — the iconic show that shaped lesbian visibility for an entire generation. From nostalgic favorites to problematic storylines, they unpack what the series got right (and wrong) about queer representation, trans inclusion, family, and chosen community. If you’ve ever debated who you’d be on The L Word, this one’s for you. 00:08 – Intro + Spotify love from listeners 01:13 – Would You Rather: The L Word edition 05:30 – Why The L ...

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71:00

WLW Lore: Sedona Prince

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2025/10/28

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla cover the shocking story of college basketball star Sedona Prince — from her rise to fame as a gender equality advocate to the disturbing domestic violence and assault allegations shared by multiple exes. This episode dives deep into power, manipulation, and healing after abuse during Domestic Violence Awareness Month. ⚠️ Trigger Warning: discussions of domestic violence, sexual assault, and emotional abuse. 00:00 – Intro + Domestic Violenc...

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71:05

Coming Out Confusion: The Most Googled Questions and...

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2025/10/21

Ever Googled “Am I gay?” You’re not alone. In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla react to the internet’s most-searched coming-out questions — from “How do I know if I’m gay?” to “Can queer people still travel?” They share their own coming-out stories, red flags (or rainbow flags), gay panic moments, and what it’s really like navigating identity, family, and love in 2025. 00:00 – Online slang test: “Serving cunt,” “shipping,” & other chaotic lingo 0...

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59:54

Fighting Fair: What Took Us Years To Learn

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2025/10/14

In this episode, Alix and Kayla get real about what it means to fight fair after six years together. From weirdly specific compliments to the unspoken rules that keep their relationship grounded, the couple unpacks how they’ve learned to communicate, manage triggers, and find humor in the chaos. Expect laughter, honesty, and a little courtroom energy. Timestamps: 00:00 – Weirdly specific compliments 💕 10:50 – Why we fight and how it’s changed over time 14:30 – Ground rules for healthy

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76:45

WLW Lore: Jojo Siwa

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2025/10/07

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alex and Kayla dive deep into Jojo Siwa’s rise from Dance Moms to queer icon status. From the origins of her bow empire to Nickelodeon fame, child star controversies, her bold coming out, and her highly public relationships—this is a full WLW Lore Series breakdown you don’t want to miss. The hosts unpack Jojo’s “karma era,” viral moments, her mom’s controversial role, and whether the internet’s obsession is fair or fueled by queerness and celebrity cultur...

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73:11

Queer Culture: Lesbians vs Bi Girls

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2025/09/30

This week, Alix and Kayla dive into the long-standing dynamics between bisexual women and lesbians—myths, stereotypes, and the cultural nuances that shape queer relationships. From playful debates (Renee Rapp vs. Cara Delevingne) to candid reflections on identity, cancel culture, and representation in media, this episode explores queerness, binaries, and belonging in both private and public conversations. ⏰ Timestamps 00:01 – Intro + community shoutouts 01:21 – Bi vs. Lesbian: celebrity edi...

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71:09

Are We Actually Compatible? A Queer Couple Takes the...

Wives Not Sisters ·

2025/09/22

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla put their relationship to the test with a compatibility quiz led by producer Lex. From cover-stealing confessions to worst vacations, love languages, chores, intimacy, and financial teamwork, the couple dives deep into what makes their partnership thrive (and where it needs work). This candid and hilarious conversation shows that compatibility is about more than just matching answers—it’s about laughter, growth, and resilience. Timestamps...

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70:26

Our Queer Fertility Journey: IUI, IVF, Pregnancy...

Wives Not Sisters ·

2025/09/16

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla unpack the “propaganda we’re not falling for”—from self-help catchphrases to fitness influencers and even avocado toast—before diving deep into their three-year fertility journey. They share candidly about choosing a sperm donor, navigating IUIs and IVF, pregnancy loss, and ultimately turning to surrogacy. Honest, funny, and vulnerable, this episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about queer family building, fertility challenges, or si...

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