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Swapping Secrets

Our Secret Spot

Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released bi-monthly. Tune in,

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45:16

Sexiest Moments of the Year - Part 2 of Red Flags and...

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2026/09/22

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45:41

1 Year of Swapping Secrets: Our Best, Wildest &...

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2026/09/09

Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light.Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests and community members who’ve joined them over the past year. We’re talking open relationships, swinging, consent, communication, first-time nerves, bisexuality, sexual health, stage fright, relationship

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49:23

Behind the Fantasy of OnlyFans with Kim Cums

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2026/08/25

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator Kim Cums to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like.Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and environmental science, an online relationship, kink exploration and early webcam modelling gradually led her into escorting, adult content creation and eventually building her own platform,

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1:15:04

Reddit’s Wildest Bisexual Dilemmas (with By the Bi)

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2026/08/12

Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY.With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas. From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards surrounding bi relationships, to discovering same-sex attraction later in life, the trio unpack where personal preference ends and biphobia begins — and why bisexuality still gets tangled up with assumptions about

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1:07:35

Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng

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2026/07/28

What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body?In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng, founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality. Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, stress and breath can influence desire, arousal and pleasure. Although many people focus on what they should do during sex, Miranda explains why noticing what is already

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1:13:53

Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time

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2026/07/15

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance. They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the entire storyline, and how children’s television can normalise different relationships without turning them

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55:51

Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel...

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2026/06/23

For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with gay men have taught him about love, loneliness, dating, commitment, and why many people

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1:02:34

Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It)...

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2026/06/09

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples:Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships? From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains the most common reasons couples seek professional help and what actually works when it comes to rebuilding

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53:46

Erotic Power, Shame & Kink w/ Eva Oh

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2026/05/26

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet.From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — Eva opens up about the hidden emotional worlds behind kink and why so many people crave control, surrender,

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1:04:44

Reddit’s Wildest Open Relationship Stories

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2026/05/13

Get tickets to the Live Recording Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast. From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made them laugh, cringe and ask: is this real or is this a troll? Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors:

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56:43

People, Policy and Pleasure: Deputy Lord Mayor Jess...

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2026/04/28

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities.From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and the role of local councils, this conversation explores how rules and boundaries can actually create safer, more expressive

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1:02:15

Sex Stigma and Smart Choices with Dr. Leigh Barlow

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2026/04/14

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame.Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and how open, informed conversations can reshape the way we think about sexual health in modern relationships and communities. Dr. Leigh shares practical insight into

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51:51

Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny

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2026/03/24

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over.We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky behaviour, poor communication, ignoring boundaries, and unsafe sex practices, to the difference between dating vs the lifestyle, this episode dives deep into the psychology of desire and

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6:05

Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and Schoolgirl Chaos |...

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2026/03/17

Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content!In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories reveal what actually happens inside a swingers club. From a school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction… to a hilariously mismatched

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43:23

What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve...

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2026/03/12

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women.With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. Visit our Patreon for extra spicy content https://www.patreon.com/SwappingSecretsPodcast Sponsors: “Flirt”

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1:00:21

Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?

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2026/02/24

In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play.We unpack: • What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex• How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy• Tips for anal and DP (double penetration) done safely• The biggest regrets (if any) about joining the lifestyle• Parenting while owning a sex club• Managing jealousy, reputation

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1:04:26

Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up?

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2026/02/10

What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self?In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, this conversation dives into the grey areas between empowerment, regret, growth, and self-awareness. They explore how desire evolves, the difference

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47:35

The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets...

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2026/01/27

The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — a powerful phase where confidence deepens, communication sharpens, and

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55:37

Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut

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2025/11/26

Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues,...The post Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

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34:17

6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy

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2025/10/28

6 Health & Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy Get your 👉 Safer Sex Checklist Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to...The post 6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy appeared first on Our Secret Spot.

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