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It"s Not Me, It"s You

Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo

Love is messy. Dating is chaotic. And sometimes, it’s not you... it’s definitely them. Or is it? Join sibling duo Vanessa and Matthew Castillo (11 years apart but equally chaotic) as they dive into the wild world of relationships, fireside chat style. From ghosting and cringe-worthy situationships to long-term love and red flags we all ignore. Expect real talk, unfiltered laughs, and hard truths. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave every episode feeling a little less

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01:12:08

Gamer Girl Cracks the Code on Relationships

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2025/10/04

In this episode, we sit down with Jenny, who’s been in a loving relationship for three years and is building a future with her person. We dive into everything from sugar babies to self-love, and how knowing yourself is the real key to finding the right partner. Jenny gets real about not settling, the importance of growing with your partner, and the exciting next steps she and her girl are planning together. It’s a mix of laughs, love talk, and lessons you won’t want to miss.

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01:35:17

Chef Tavos & His Secret Sauce On Love

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2025/09/17

This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You we’re joined by the incredibly talented Chef Tavos; food truck king, flavor wizard, and culinary dreamer who’s out here making magic happen with the love of his life by his side. 🌮 ❤️ He’s serving up more than just mouthwatering dishes… he’s also dishing out his secret sauce on love.Their food? It doesn’t just taste good, it transports you. One bite and you’re not dying… you’re being reborn again. ✨Tavos opens up about how he found “the one” while chasing his

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01:08:37

Little Brother & Lover Boy: A Born Romantics Guide On...

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2025/08/31

In this episode, we sit down with Ethan Moreno (Matt’s little brother) to talk about something that’s rare but beautiful... finding real love young and keeping it strong. Ethan opens up about how he met his high school sweetheart, how he knew it was love, and the little things that keep their relationship alive.We dive into:💌 What makes a relationship feel healthy and loving🌍 Navigating long distance & staying emotionally connected😂 Random debates like “hoodies” (yup, circumcision talk)🎮 Why

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01:07:37

Authenticity Is Sexy: Dating, The Roster &...

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2025/08/27

This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You Podcast, we’re breaking down "the roster", what it is, why people have one and how it ties into dating. We dive into authenticity in dating, the importance of synergy, and how knowing yourself sets the tone for the kind of love you attract. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in-between, this episode is full of real talk, laughs, and insights you don’t want to miss.

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01:11:37

Hardboiled & Hopeful: Single in 2025

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2025/08/03

It’s giving chaos, delusion, clarity… and confidence. In this episode, your favorite sibling duo is back in the studio talking all things modern love. From dating just to smash vs actually building something real, red flag hobbies, and everything in between.Matt introduces us to the term hardboiled (aka confident with a side of gusto), while they both try to make sense of dating in 2025. Is the honeymoon phase real? Are grand gestures still a thing? Are people still looking for marriage, or just

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01:38:36

No More Lateral Moves: Your Dominatrix Guide to...

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2025/07/21

She’s not your average housewife, she’s running the house, the schedule, and the bedroom. In this episode, we sit down with a real-life freaky housewife and talk about the power dynamics of love, control, and cooking in thigh-highs. No more settling. No more playing small. It’s time to upgrade your role, from passive partner to power player. Let’s talk dominance, devotion, and domesticity… all at once.

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00:39:17

Getting Ghosted, Accountability, & Simple Communication

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2025/07/13

Ghosted again? Same. In this episode, your favorite chaotic sibling duo dives into the messiness of modern communication (or lack thereof). We’re talking about ghosting, breadcrumbing, avoiding hard convos, and why “just say how you feel” seems impossible for some. We also get into accountability in dating (yes, even yours 😬), the fine line between honesty and cruelty, and the underrated power of clear, simple communication. It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s painfully relatable. Tune in and let’s unpack

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01:15:43

She Moved for Love. Now She’s Moving Different.

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2025/07/07

She left Boston for love.The love didn’t last.What came after… she’s still figuring out.This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You, we sit down with Lena the Stitcha... a guest who says less but makes you lean in more. She moved cities, changed chapters, and while she may not have all the answers, her presence says there’s more beneath the surface.We talk about starting over, the quiet in-between, and what it means to date when you’re still piecing together who you’ve become.Not everything was said, and

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01:11:45

This One’s for the Group Chat: The Hoe Phase Exit...

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2025/06/30

This one’s exactly what it sounds like... real talk, no filter. We sat down with our homie Louiekillz, an artist and self-declared reformed hoe, and let’s just say… the conversation got wild.From running the streets and not being ready, to trying to figure out what love even looks like now, we covered it all. It’s giving locker room talk, mixed with just enough honesty to catch you off guard.It’s messy, it’s funny, and it’s real. Just how we like it.PSA: This episode is meant to be entertaining and

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01:08:30

Battlefield of Love: Rookie vs. Vet 🎙️💔 ♥️

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2025/06/21

Grab your drink and pull up a seat... it’s another fireside chat with your favorite sibling duo! In this episode, Vanessa (the “seasoned vet”) and Matt (the self-proclaimed “rookie”) go head-to-head on the ever-changing battlefield of love.We’re talking about dating do’s and don’ts, how intimacy has evolved, and much much more. No scripts. No filters. Just real convos, loud laughs, and sibling chaos as always.Hit play and join us. 💥

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01:00:47

It's Not Me, It's... Our First Episode

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2025/06/13

Welcome to the very first episode of It’s Not Me, It’s You... a love, dating, and relationship podcast hosted by siblings who could not be more different.She’s the big sister: 11 years older, been in long-term relationships, and seen love from the inside out.He’s the little brother: never been in love, but got plenty of hot takes and chaotic opinions.In this episode, we shoot the sh*t on everything from how short is too short for men’s shorts, to body counts, religion and spirituality in

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