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Dad Starting Over

Dad Starting Over

Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! "Starting Over" means different things to different people. It could be that you"re newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you"re still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you"re in the right place. I"m Ralph, a.k.a DSO, the author of books called "The Dead Bedroom Fix", "Divorce Panic", "Real Talk" and "Red Flags". You can learn more

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16:53

Rejection Sensitivity: Why You Overthink Everything

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/12/26

Rejection hits some men harder than others. For a lot of guys, it’s not just discomfort—it feels like danger. One cold look from your wife. One delayed text. One “Can we talk later?” from your boss. Suddenly you’re spiraling, apologizing, chasing, overreacting, or completely shutting down.This isn’t weakness. It isn’t you being dramatic.It’s rejection sensitivity—and most men who grew up in chaotic, unpredictable, or emotionally unstable homes are living with it without ever knowing what

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5:55

REBUILD is now available in audiobook format! (here's...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/12/16

"REBUILD: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man" is now available in audiobook format! Here is a quick sample for you to enjoy. Want to hear more? Check out the links below:Amazon: https://a.co/d/0k5nxmvAudible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0G75ZH84YApple: https://apple.co/45eKbNh

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16:15

Andrew Wilson’s Meltdown Caught Live

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/11/28

Today we’re digging into something wild: how a guy who talks about masculinity, strength, and “doing it right” completely lost his cool when his own story was challenged. That guy is Andrew Wilson.If you’re rebuilding your life, your identity, or trying to walk the line of integrity after a setback—I promise you: this matters.We’ll cover:Who Andrew Wilson is and what he representsThe “rulebook” many men in the debate/manosphere space are handed (never date a single mom, don’t be a

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10:10

Why You Feel So Needy (And How to Stop)

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/11/21

Let’s talk about neediness — what it really is, where it comes from, and how to stop letting it ruin your relationships.Neediness isn’t about “having needs.” It’s about trying to make one specific person fix your emotional state on demand. That’s not love — that’s panic.I’ll walk you through what’s actually happening inside your nervous system when you feel desperate for someone’s attention or affection… and how to train yourself to stay calm, confident, and grounded instead.We’ll cover:The

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15:23

The One Thing Everyone Misses About Dead Bedrooms

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/11/07

Most guys in sexless marriages miss the most important piece of the puzzle. They think if they just get their wife to “want it” again, everything will go back to normal. But what if the truth goes all the way back to the beginning — before the wedding, before the kids — to whether the two of you were even matched in the first place?In this episode, I break down one of the biggest overlooked truths about dead bedrooms. We’ll talk about:Why early sexual chemistry predicts long-term

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15:40

REBUILD – The Beginning of a New Chapter

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/10/24

In this special episode, I read the introduction to my latest book, REBUILD: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man. This book is the culmination of over a decade of working with men—through coaching, the Brotherhood community, and my other books. REBUILD is for every man who’s been knocked down by life—divorce, heartbreak, failure—and is ready to rise again stronger, wiser, and more grounded.If you’ve ever felt lost or unsure of your next step, this episode is the perfect place to

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11:00

Stop Blaming the Affair Partner — She Made the Choice

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/10/17

A lot of men direct all their anger toward the other guy — the affair partner — when they find out their wife cheated. I get it. It feels easier to hate the outsider than to face what your wife actually did. But at some point, we need to be honest about where the real responsibility lies.In this episode, I respond to a man who wrote in saying he’s still furious at his wife’s affair partner, years after the infidelity ended. We talk about why misplaced anger keeps men stuck, why some “nice

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11:23

John’s Breaking Point: Why Some Men Stay in Miserable...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/10/13

In today’s Dear DSO episode, I read a letter from a guy I’ll call John. He’s reached the end of his rope. His wife drinks heavily, refuses therapy, hasn’t been intimate with him in years, and contributes nothing to the family or household. Meanwhile, John’s doing it all — cooking, cleaning, parenting, working full-time — and he’s still trying to “make it work.”If you’ve ever found yourself trapped in a relationship like this, wondering what’s wrong with you for staying… this one’s going to

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9:49

When She Denies the Affair and Calls You “Insecure”

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/10/06

In this episode, I respond to a listener email from a man who caught his wife sneaking around with ‘just a friend.’ Even when confronted, she flips it on him and calls him insecure. Why do cheaters deny and gaslight instead of owning up? I break it all down—and talk about what men need to do in this situation.Submit your own story to Dear DSO.Join the HFM Brotherhood today!

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16:09

When a Wife Walks Away After 30 Years: Midlife...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/10/03

In this episode, I respond to a listener email from a man whose wife left him after 33 years of marriage. She had an affair, moved 2,000 miles away, and says she’s finally living for herself. Is this midlife crisis? Perimenopause? Or just long-simmering resentment finally boiling over? I break it all down—and more importantly, talk about what men can do when blindsided like this.Submit your own story to Deardso.comJoin The HFM Brotherhood!

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11:37

“30 Years Married… But Now Just Roommates”

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/09/29

A man wrote in after 30+ years of marriage. Three kids, a successful career, a busy and interesting life—he’s fit, adventurous, and still chasing growth at 61 years old.The problem? His wife has completely checked out sexually. No intimacy, no affection, not even a kiss on the cheek. Even hormone therapy hasn’t changed anything. He loves her, doesn’t want divorce, but he’s dying inside.

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8:17

"She Slept With Me… So I Guess We’re Fine Now?"

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/09/19

A guy books an emergency coaching call. Says his marriage is hanging by a thread. He's sleeping in the guest room. She won’t talk to him. Full panic mode.Then when we finally meet? “Oh… never mind. We had sex last night. I think we’re good now.”Let me tell you something, fellas — if a single act of pity sex is enough to make you cancel your plan to fix your marriage… then the marriage was never getting fixed in the first place.In this video, we’re talking about:Why post-conflict sex feels

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11:40

Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Her (Even Though...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/09/15

You ever catch yourself stuck in a mental loop? Replaying the breakup, the betrayal, the one thing she said that cut deep?That’s rumination — and it’s not helping you heal.In this video, I explain what rumination really is, why your brain gets stuck there, and how to break out of the loop before it drives you insane. We’ll look at the neuroscience, the psychology, and — most importantly — real ways to stop obsessing and start moving forward.This is for the guys lying awake at night asking

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11:31

"My Husband Cheated with 100 Sex Workers… While I...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/09/12

This letter hit hard.A woman writes in to share her story: 20 years of marriage. Zero sex. She thought he had a medical issue. Turns out, he was sleeping with nearly 100 sex workers behind her back. And now… he wants to reconcile.In this video, I break down what’s really going on here—from the psychology behind sex addiction and shame, to the heartbreaking reality of codependency and emotional devastation.This story isn’t just about one woman’s pain. It’s a wake-up call for both men and

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9:22

Why So Many Men Are Lonely (And Won’t Admit It)

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/09/01

A lot of men joke about single women dying alone with 12 cats... but here’s the truth: that’s projection.Men are facing a loneliness crisis. We isolate ourselves, chase careers across the country, let friendships die, and pretend we’re fine being “lone wolves.” Then we wake up in our 40s, 50s, and 60s and realize—we’ve built a resume, not a life.In this video, I break down why so many men end up disconnected, how modern culture pushes us to go it alone, and most importantly—what we can do

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11:49

Dating After Divorce: What No One Tells You About the...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/08/25

Dating after divorce is a minefield—and if you haven't been single since your twenties, you're stepping into a completely different world.In this video, I break down what actually happens when men re-enter the dating market after a long-term relationship. I cover the emotional aftermath of divorce, the brutal realities of modern dating apps, what women are looking for now, and how to rebuild yourself into a man who wins in today’s dating world.This isn’t about cheesy pickup lines or

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11:21

“He Forgot Our Anniversary… Again. Should I Finally...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/08/15

A 65-year-old woman wrote in with a gut-wrenching story. After 42 years of being married to a man who never listens, never remembers their anniversary, and always puts his own priorities first, she's wondering if it's time to finally walk away.She’s tried everything—even picked up The Dead Bedroom Fix hoping for one last Hail Mary. But this story? It’s way too familiar. Men, if you think women don’t deal with this kind of thing too, think again.Let’s talk about what happens when you

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12:25

Anxious & Passive: Why You're Stuck in a Sexless...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/08/11

In this Dear DSO submission, a man reaches out from the middle of an eight-year sexless marriage. He’s passive, anxious, and paralyzed by confusion—and he’s not alone. So many men fall into this trap.In this episode, I walk through his message and break down what’s really going on here: the anxious attachment, the avoidant wife, the therapy cycles that go nowhere, and the desperation that leads men to stay stuck for years. I also bring up a common thread I see in my community: many of these

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12:37

“My Wife Calmly Told Me She’s Not Attracted to Me...

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/08/04

Seventeen years of marriage. Three kids. Nice house. Dead bedroom for almost a decade. Then, during an argument, she looks him in the eye and says the words that’ll haunt him forever: “I’m just not attracted to you anymore.”No yelling. No drama. Just a calm, matter-of-fact gut punch.This is what happens when a woman has emotionally and physically checked out — and finally wants you to get the message. In today’s Dear DSO submission, I break down why this happens, what it really means, and

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13:51

Why Women Really Cheat (Dual Mating Strategy Explained)

Dad Starting Over ·

2025/08/01

Why do so many women in long-term relationships cheat—and often with men who seem like total losers?In this video, I break down the science behind two popular theories about female infidelity: the Mate Switching Hypothesis and the Dual Mating Strategy. One of these is more “romantic.” The other is... well, it’s the one most men fear deep down.We’ll look at the latest research—including a 2024 study co-authored by Macken Murphy—and how it lines up with what I’ve heard from thousands of men

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