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The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over.

I was the other woman for five years. He was married. It wasn"t the plan — but it happened, and it changed everything about how I see love, relationships, and myself. The Scarlet Edit is my podcast. I started it because I was tired of carrying my story in silence and I knew I wasn"t the only one. This is where I talk about affairs, infidelity, cheating, divorce, and starting over — without shame, without the moral lectures, and without pretending that love and relationships fit into the neat little

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58:12

The Subconscious Patterns Behind Every Affair

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/03/26

Why do smart, successful people end up in affairs — and then can't leave? What's actually driving the pattern? And how do you know if you're settling or self-sabotaging?In this episode, I sit down with Katarina Polonska — behavioral scientist, executive relationship strategist, and someone whose own family was torn apart by infidelity. Katarina watched her father's affair destroy her parents' marriage, then found herself repeating the exact same pattern in her own engagement. That wake-up call led

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24:00

Kristin Cabot Speaks Out — How 90% of the Hate Came...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/03/20

Kristin Cabot — the woman from the Coldplay Kiss Cam — finally told her side of the story on Oprah's podcast. She was already separated. He told her he was too. But only one of them got death threats, drive-bys, and 500 calls a day.90% of the hate came from other women. Every single in-person confrontation — a woman.I talk about what Kristin revealed, the double standard between how she and Andy Byron were treated, why we judge affairs so harshly, and why women tearing down other women is the part

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29:19

Do Happy People Cheat? I Don't Think So.

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/03/19

There's a stat that gets cited everywhere in the infidelity space — that 56% of men and 34% of women who cheat rate their marriages as happy.It shows up in therapy blogs, Reddit threads, podcasts, and articles, and it's used to push the narrative that cheating is random and unpredictable.I'm calling BS. Not on the data itself, but on what people are doing with it.In this episode, I break down why self-reporting is flawed, why "happy" has become a dangerously low bar, and why I firmly believe that

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33:44

Why Choosing Happiness After an Affair Is the Most...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/03/12

I actively choose happiness and joy every single day — and the more I share that, the more it seems to confuse people.In this episode, I'm getting into the mindset behind everything I do on The Scarlet Edit. Why positivity is my baseline, how my upbringing shaped me in ways that defy the stereotypes people project onto women like me, and the specific moments in my life — from my divorce at 38 to ending a five-year affair to a situationship that wrecked me — that brought me to the decision to stop

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34:15

I Waited for a Married Man to Leave His Wife

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/03/05

Ashley Madison just rebranded — and 57% of their new users are single. I break down what that means and why dating app fatigue is pushing people toward discretion.Then I go somewhere I haven’t gone before: the waiting.What it actually feels like to wait for a married man to leave his wife. The holidays alone, the phone that doesn’t ring, the stories you tell yourself to make it feel normal, and the moment I finally said I’m done.If you’ve ever Googled “waiting for a married man to leave” and found

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15:34

I Shared My Biggest Secret — And Still Put Myself in...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/02/26

A year ago I was struggling with how to share my story with the world — I was the other woman in a five-year relationship with a married man, while I felt no shame, it was the secret I carried for years. And now, a year into The Scarlet Edit, I realized I've unintentionally put myself in a new kind of box.This episode is me getting honest about that. I talk about what happened after I shared my biggest secret, why I've been struggling with what to post and how to show up, and how a conversation with

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38:35

Affairs That Cost 2 Women Their Lives & How the Other...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/02/23

Henry VIII had six wives. One wife for 24 years, then five more in the next 11. He was pursuing the next woman while still married to the current one every single time — and he was running an entire country while doing it. So much for "I'm too busy."In this episode of Affairs Through the Ages, I'm walking through every wife, every affair, and the pattern that never changed. From the annulment that broke England away from the Catholic Church to the teenager who was beheaded at 18, this story is wild

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29:15

Emotional Affairs, Fantasy & Physical Attraction:...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/02/19

Is Love is Blind actually proving that love IS blind — or is it proving the exact opposite? After nine completed seasons, the data tells a pretty damning story: 55 engagements, only 14 marriages, and a 43% divorce rate. In this episode, I break down the surprising parallels between what happens in the pods and how emotional affairs actually work — the deep connections with multiple people, comparing partners, fantasy access, keeping the door cracked open, and what happens when reality finally sets

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23:07

The Jeff Bezos Affair: Why This One Didn’t Fall Apart

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2026/02/16

On January 9, 2019, the richest man in the world announced his divorce. One day later, a tabloid story detonated across the internet — exposing a months-long affair between Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez, complete with leaked texts, private jet travel, and a global media frenzy.In this episode of Affairs Through the Ages, I break down one of the most infamous modern affairs — not to condone it, and not to judge it — but to examine how it unfolded, why it didn’t collapse immediately, and how it became

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56:18

She Called Off Her Wedding on Her Wedding Day

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2026/02/12

What do you do when you realize—on your wedding day—that you shouldn’t be getting married?In this episode of The Scarlet Edit, I sit down with Emily Kuch, a content creator and Pilates instructor, to talk about one of the bravest decisions a person can make: calling off a wedding at the last possible moment.After nearly ten years together and months of wedding planning, Emily found herself standing in full hair and makeup, overlooking the ocean in Hawaii, facing a truth she couldn’t ignore. Instead

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26:31

Ava Gardner's Affairs: How She Kept Leaving Until She...

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2026/02/09

By the time Ava Gardner was 30, she'd been married three times. In 1950s America, that meant you were supposed to disappear in shame. But Ava didn't disappear—she became a legend.In this episode of Affairs Through the Ages, I'm diving into Ava Gardner's story. From dirt-poor farm girl in North Carolina to Hollywood icon, from three marriages before 30 to never marrying again—Ava wrote her own rules when the world wanted to write her off.This isn't just Frank Sinatra's affair story. This is about

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17:46

Why I Never Called My Boyfriend During Our Entire Affair

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/02/05

I never randomly called my boyfriend during our entire relationship. Not because he told me not to—it just became normal. I also never saw him on weekends, never brought him around friends, and kept everything secret. These toxic relationship habits felt completely reasonable when I was in the affair.After it ended, I fell right into a secretive situationship because those patterns had become so familiar. In this episode, I'm sharing how affairs normalize unhealthy relationship behaviors, why power

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37:40

Monica Lewinsky's Story: Power, Betrayal & Starting Over

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/02/02

I'm launching my new signature series, Affairs Through the Ages, and I couldn't think of a better way to kick it off than with arguably the biggest affair of the 20th century: Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky.This isn't just a retelling of the scandal. I dive deep into Monica's background and uncover something I never knew - she was already involved with a married man before she ever got to Washington. That first affair with her high school drama teacher shaped everything that came after.I explore

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43:13

The Sexual Conversations That Prevent Affairs:...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/01/29

What if the things you want in the bedroom aren't as extreme as you think? Certified sex and relationship coach Amanda Dames breaks down the kink spectrum—from hair pulling to rope bondage—and explains why honest communication about sexual desires is so important for relationships.Amanda, a former professional dominatrix with over a decade of experience, discusses the crucial difference between kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. She shares why some people who can't discuss their desires with their

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22:11

Dating Separated Men: When Is He Ready After Divorce?...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/01/22

Should you date a separated man? Is dating during divorce a red flag? How long should someone be single after a long marriage before dating again?In this episode, I share results from a viral question I posted on Threads that received 141 responses from women in their 40s about whether they'd date men who are separated or going through divorce. The overwhelming answer reveals important truths about healing timelines, self-discovery, and what it really takes to be relationship-ready after ending a

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28:21

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Why This Common...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/01/15

In this solo episode, I challenge one of the most commonly repeated relationship mantras: "once a cheater, always a cheater."Drawing from research and my personal experience, I explore why this phrase is not only inaccurate but potentially harmful. I break down the critical difference between serial cheaters and situational affairs, share surprising statistics about infidelity recurrence, and discuss how society weaponizes the "cheater" label—especially against women.In this episode:The data behind

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26:46

Fantasy Access: When Someone Feels Close but Never...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/01/08

Welcome to the first solo episode of 2026 and Season Two of The Scarlet Edit.In this episode, I’m sharing two important things:The direction of the podcast in 2026, based entirely on listener dataA powerful dating concept you need to understand this year: Fantasy AccessI break down what the data has made crystal clear. You want honest conversations about affairs, divorce, shame, starting over, and emotional healing. Those episodes resonate because they make people feel seen, less alone, and

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33:45

Best of 2025: Infidelity, Divorce, and the Courage to...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2026/01/01

It’s officially a new year, and instead of predictions or resolutions, I wanted to do something different.In this episode, I’m sharing a curated Best of 2025 from The Scarlet Edit. Real conversations. Real insights. The moments that stayed with me long after the mic was turned off.You’ll hear from past guests on topics like:Why so many women stay in relationships long after they stop workingHow limerence, fantasy, and low self-worth keep us stuckWhy sex education fails women and what that costs us

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09:53

Why You Should Make an Annual Playlist (And How It...

The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over. ·

2025/12/25

Merry Christmas, and Happy Hanukkah!This episode of The Scarlet Edit is here for you whenever you need it — today, next week, or months from now.In this short and sweet solo episode, I’m sharing one of my favorite end-of-year traditions: creating an annual playlist to capture where I am in my life. Music has a way of holding memory in a way nothing else can. You might forget moments or seasons, but a song can bring you right back — exactly where you were, exactly how you felt.I talk about how music

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53:27

Why Infidelity Isn’t About You — A Psychic Medium on...

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2025/12/18

In this deeply expansive conversation, I sit down with psychic medium June Edward, whose life was forever changed after a literal death during a medical procedure. June shares what she experienced on the other side, how she chose to come back, and how that moment unlocked her ability to understand energy, vibration, and the soul at a profound level.We explore how energy impacts every relationship in our lives — romantic, familial, and personal — including affairs, divorce, and emotional attachment

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