Loading...

PODCAST

Brain Based Parenting

Brain Based Parenting, The Boys Ranch Podcast for families. We all know how hard being a parent is, and sometimes it feels like there are no good answers to the difficult questions families have when their kids are struggling. Our goal each week will be to try and answer some of those tough questions utilizing the knowledge, experience, and professional training Cal Farley’s Boys Ranch has to offer.Contact us: email podcasts@calfarley.org To Donate:

kids & family parenting

All Episodes

19:22

You Can Love Prodigals Deeply Without Enabling...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/10/06

Send us Fan Mail One child is melting down, acting out, or cutting contact and the whole family feels it. We sit with the hard question parents rarely get to ask out loud: what happens to siblings when all the energy goes to the “prodigal”, and how do well-intentioned moms and dads accidentally add pressure to the kids who are still trying to do everything right? We talk through practical, brain-aware parenting moves that protect connection in a tense home. That includes simple check-ins wit...

en-us

18:14

Parenting Through A Prodigal Season With Calm And...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/09/29

Send us Fan Mail Your child is making choices you never imagined and the question starts looping in your head: where did I go wrong? We sit with that fear honestly and talk about what a “prodigal season” can look like, from leaving home or faith to acting out in ways that scare you. More importantly, we separate what you can influence from what you cannot control, so you can stop parenting from panic and start parenting with clarity. We dig into emotional regulation for parents, because fear...

en-us

34:40

Helping Kids Navigate Fear: What to Do When Fear...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/09/22

Send us Fan Mail Fear can look like defiance, tears, anger, silence, or a full-on meltdown and that’s exactly why it confuses so many parents. We talk about what’s actually happening in a child’s brain and nervous system when fear shows up, and how a curious, regulated adult can change the outcome in real time. We talk through the parenting moves that unintentionally increase child anxiety, like minimizing with “you’re fine,” over-reassuring, or trying to control the moment so we can feel be...

en-us

27:51

Fear And The Child Brain: How To Help Kids Calm Down...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/09/15

Send us Fan Mail We break down fear as a brain-based survival response and explain why kids can look irrational when their bodies feel unsafe. We share practical ways to help children move from panic back to calm using co-regulation and Dr Bruce Perry’s “regulate, relate, reason” sequence. • personal stories of overcoming fears and what changed • fear as a survival tool that prepares the body to act • when a fear becomes a concern because it disrupts daily life • how e...

en-us

22:07

Stop Bullying With A Calm Brain:How Parents &...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/09/08

Send us Fan Mail Bullying rarely ends with a clever comeback, it ends when a kid finally feels safe enough to tell the truth and an adult actually steps in. We talk through what keeps children silent, including fear of retaliation, shame, and the painful experience of being brushed off with “work it out.” When kids don’t feel safe, their brains can’t focus, learn, or make good choices, so we treat safety as the bedrock, not a bonus. Together, we share real stories and practical bullyin...

en-us

24:05

Bullying Is About Power, Not Just Mean Words:...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/09/01

Send us Fan Mail Bullying rarely looks like the movie version, and that’s exactly why it can do so much damage before an adult ever notices. We start a new Brain-Based Parenting series by getting painfully specific about what bullying is and what it is not, so you can stop guessing and start seeing the patterns that matter: intentional harm, repetition, and a power imbalance. Today we walk through the major types of bullying parents and caregivers need to recognize: physical bullying that ca...

en-us

22:35

When Kids Fight: How Adults Step In Without Making It...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/08/25

Send us Fan Mail Kid conflict can flip a room from calm to chaos in seconds and the hardest part is knowing whether to step in, stay out, or slow everything down. We talk through what to look for when a disagreement turns into a real conflict, including the “emotional temperature” check: can they regulate, stay respectful, and disengage, or are they escalating into sarcasm, personal attacks, and dysregulation? We share practical conflict resolution tools for parents, teachers, and caregivers...

en-us

18:52

Calm In The Middle Of Conflict: Conflict Can Build...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/08/18

Send us Fan Mail Conflict at home can feel like a five-alarm fire, but it’s often a clue about something deeper: a need, a fear, or a value getting rubbed the wrong way. We sit down to talk conflict and conflict resolution through a brain-based parenting lens, starting with the real-life ways people respond under stress, fight, flight, freeze, or even the “pause” that buys us time to choose a better response. Today we unpack what conflict actually is, when it helps, and when it harms. We exp...

en-us

27:59

Forgiving Your Mistakes:You Will Mess Up as a Parent,...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/08/11

Send us Fan Mail That sinking feeling after you overreact, snap, or realize you handled something the hard way can be brutal. The worst part is how quietly it sticks around, replaying in your head and whispering that you are failing your kids. We refuse that story, and we get practical about what to do next. We share real parenting mishaps and why they can feel so heavy, then dig into what is actually happening underneath: high stakes, shame, comparison, and the belief that our kids are a mi...

en-us

16:17

Hope Grows When We Practice Gratitude Daily pt 2

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/08/04

Send us Fan Mail Hope is one of the most underrated parenting tools, and it’s not just a feeling. When kids are dealing with trauma, loss, or ongoing stress, hope can be the difference between shutting down and trying again. We dig into a memorable story shared by Dr. Bruce Perry that captures how “rescue” changes endurance, then connect it to what parents see every day: kids do better when they believe something better is possible and when they trust the adults around them. We also br...

en-us

31:28

Hope That Holds:The Real Antidote to Despair pt 1

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/07/28

Send us Fan Mail Hope is easy to talk about and hard to hold onto when your child is struggling, withdrawing, or stuck in negative self-talk. We start by defining hope as more than a wish. Real hope is future-focused and backed by action, which means parents can do more than wait and worry. We unpack the signs a child may be losing hope, from losing interest and energy to having trouble imagining a next chapter. From there we share a simple approach that opens doors instead of starting...

en-us

24:08

Mentorship Turns Everyday Work Into Life Skills

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/07/21

Send us Fan Mail The adults shaping your child are not always the ones in your house and that can be either frightening or hopeful. We sit down with a Boys Ranch team that lives this reality every day and unpack why work mentors and vocational mentors so often become the go-to trusted adult for kids. We start with first-job memories, then move into the core idea: side by side work creates connection without constant correction. A mentor who shows up, listens, and takes time to ask ques...

en-us

26:12

Kids Learn Work Ethic When We Let Them Help

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/07/14

Send us Fan Mail Chores can feel like daily friction, but they’re also one of the clearest ways kids learn responsibility, confidence, and how to live with other people. We start with a simple question about least favorite childhood chores, then move into the real parenting challenge: how do you build a healthy relationship with work without turning your home into a battlefield or doing everything for your kids because it’s faster? We walk through age-by-age expectations for chores and...

en-us

18:34

How Recreation Builds Better Parent Child Bonds:...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/07/07

Send us Fan Mail Your kid says they’re bored, rejects every suggestion, and somehow you’re the problem. We get it and we’re offering a better path: use recreation and outdoor play to build real connection, not just kill time. We’re joined by our youth activities team to talk through the small, practical choices that change everything, like stepping off the sidelines, bringing a positive attitude, and being willing to look a little silly while you learn alongside your kids. We dig into why ad...

en-us

27:25

The Olympics Aren’t Watching So Go Play

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/06/30

Send us Fan Mail Your child’s favorite memory probably won’t be the final score, it’ll be the moment you jumped in and played. We dig into how families can build stronger relationships with kids through a healthy recreation life, using brain-based parenting principles that make play more than “free time.” We define recreation as true rejuvenation and talk about why it works best when it reduces stress, builds connection, and gives kids a safe place to practice big emotions. We walk through w...

en-us

46:24

Stopping the Work-to-Home Stress Loop: How to Reset...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/06/23

Send us Fan Mail Work stress can quietly take over a home, and our kids often react before we even notice what’s happening in us. We share brain-based ways to reset after work, talk to your spouse with respect, and teach kids coping skills without chasing perfection. • warning signs of overwhelm, including short tempers, checking out, and sudden behavior shifts • how adult stress lowers capacity, creativity, and flexibility at home • why kids mirror our stress responses and ...

en-us

24:54

Why Asking For Help Makes You Stronger- Self Care pt 2

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/06/16

Send us Fan Mail The fastest way to burn out as a parent is to believe you’re supposed to carry everything alone. We dig into why asking for help can feel so loaded with shame, fear, and “I should have it together,” even when you’re doing your best and running on fumes. If you’ve ever had someone ask, “What do you need?” and you honestly didn’t know how to answer, you’ll feel seen here and you’ll leave with language you can actually use. We talk about what self-care looks like in real ...

en-us

20:53

Self-Care Plan For Busy Caregivers pt 1

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/06/09

Send us Fan Mail You can’t pour patience into your kids when your own tank has been empty for weeks. We discuss what self-care really means for parents, foster parents, and caregivers and why it’s one of the most “brain-based parenting” skills we can practice. We start with the real-life stuff: workouts, quiet time with music, crafts, getting outside, and simple alone time. Then we dig into the deeper definition of self-care as intentional choices that help manage stress and regulate e...

en-us

41:26

Teaching Kids Repentance: The Spiritual Disciplines pt 3

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/06/02

Send us Fan Mail Repentance can sound like a harsh word, especially when you’re parenting a child who already carries shame. We reframe it as metanoia, a change of mind and heart that moves your family from self-defeating patterns toward real flourishing. Along the way, we talk about why kids don’t just need “better behavior,” they need a safe relationship with caring adults and a clearer picture of what God is actually like. We talk about what healthy repentance looks like for kids: awarene...

en-us

35:37

Teaching Kids Faith Through Fellowship Worship And...

Brain Based Parenting ·

2026/05/26

Send us Fan Mail Faith can feel like a set of ideas kids are supposed to agree with, until real life hits and the beliefs don’t have roots. We sit down with our chapel team to talk about how children actually develop a lived, resilient faith through three interconnected practices: serving others, building healthy relationships, and learning what worship really is. We move into the bigger question of how belief becomes something a child can practice on a normal Tuesday. We explore...

en-us

159 results

Similar Podcasts

கதை நேரம் | Tamil Kids & Family Bedtime Stories

Bhargav Kesavan

Short Stories for Kids: Bedtime ~ Car Time ~ Downtime

Short Stories for Kids

Peace of Mind for Pet Parents: Navigating Life With Aging or Ill Pets

BrightHaven Caregiver Academy

Dad V Girls After Hours

The Fellas Studios

Popular Bedtime Stories

Aram L