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Crude

Join CRUDE where we mercilessly deconstruct love, s3x, bodies, and relationships using our own experiences and the thoughts of others. Slutty academics Frank and Misty are joined in Berlin by Elle, an activist, and avid partygoer Effie based in London. We’ll delve into topics intrinsic to modern relationships, sexual self-awareness, and the world of kink in liberal cities in the 21st century. The hosts are currently active and immersed in sex-positive scenes across Europe, meaning they date and

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38:54

Boss mom! From banking to Only Fans – Lucy Banks' story

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2025/10/14

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Lucy Banks in Perth, Australia to talk about her incredible life journey from corporate banking to a successful career on OnlyFans and the challenges this brought to her as a mother –from aggressive mothers at school to problems within her friend circles.LucyBanks is the founder of Million Billion Media, a global PR and marketing agency helping adult creators and spicy brands build real, sustainable businesses

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46:05

Somatic healing, pleasure coaching & sex surrogates –...

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2025/09/17

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London and special guests Dr Danielle and Celeste from the Somatica Institute to talk about their approach to sex and relationship counselling. Somatic healing covers emotions, communication, passion and sexual pleasure.Celeste and Dr Danielle help clients their desires, boundaries, and feelings openly to became better listeners with their partners and the people they love. Their innovative work has garnered international attention. Most notably

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42:40

Neurodivergence and sexuality – The most ADHD episode...

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2025/08/16

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in Spain and two very special guests to talk about female awakening and empowerment, OnlyFans, being ADHD and neurodivergent as well as burgeoning censorship in the US and OnlyFans. Mistress Kolipi and Øthyr took time out of their busy calendar(s) to share their life and missions with the CrudiesMistress Kolipi and Øthyr describe themselves as are architects of desire who dismantle the boundaries between pain and pleasure, dominance and devotion.Based in

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50:34

One body – How sexual abuse can relate to sexuality...

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2025/07/22

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Talia as they discuss sexual abuse and how it can relate to sexuality to art and to self-understanding.*Confidential/Anonymous Helplines*UKIf you are over the age of 16, living in England & Wales, and have been affected by any form of sexual violence or abuse, specialist and confidential support is available 24/7. Call 0808 500 2222 or visit the24/7 Rape and Sexual Abuse Support Lineto chat online or find out

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43:30

Reinventing the Spiel! From curious & vanilla to...

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2025/06/18

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with the female founders of Berlin Nocturne—a kink-friendly, inclusive companionship agency.From careers in marketing, art direction, health, and hospitality, these women found their way into seggswork and Berlin’s seggs positive scene.We talk about why they started this project, what sets them apart in the world of companionship, and how they are building a space and a community where diverse desire is not only welcomed—but celebrated

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55:57

Relighting the fire! What fuels desire in longterm...

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2025/05/17

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Dr Diane Mueller to talk about how to reignite and reset desire and passion in longtime relationships. Where Dr Diane's expertise lies in mainly monogamous couples, the Crudes discuss desire across the spectrum of relationship forms.How does dopamine affect relationships?And what are the siggles?Late in the episode, the Crudes talk about dating apps and closing orgasm gaps in their own relationships. Not forgetting

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49:40

Tying the Knot - All you ever wanted to know about...

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2025/04/17

Misty and Frank in Berlin and Effie in London are joined by special guest Velvetine to talk all about Shibari.What's the difference between Shibari and bondage?Is Shibari always seggsual?How old is Shibari?Velvetine is a Berlin-based Shibari model whose happy place is finding freedom in restraints. Coming to Shibari from BDSM, getting tied is an erotic and kinky practice for Velvetine and not just an artistic practice.When she’s not found swinging from the ceiling in ropes, Velvetine is a kink and

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59:19

Consensual non-consent (CNC) - The most contradictory...

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2025/03/18

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat to special guest Skadi to talk about all things CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). CNC will either send shivers down your spine or your genitals. All the current research says that between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will. A huge for 9% to 17% of women, these fantasies are a frequent or favourite fantasy experience. CNC or rape fantasies are mainstream fantasy, that nobody talks about

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01:11:52

Breaking free from the cage -The nine lives of Angel

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2025/02/08

Misty, and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie and Angel in London to talk about Angel's journey of discovery and trans experience.What is it like to hide your trans self?What is a man, and how do men act?When and why did Angel's dysphoria blow up?And who sold weed to George Michael?Angel is a pro domme (under the name Eris), cam girl, spicy content creator, kink photographer, welfare monitor, and dungeon mistress at some of the biggest UK feti$h parties. She founded Catnip FLINTA play parties.As a

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01:03:05

Time for new men? Masculinity, male role models and...

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2025/01/18

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by special guest Simon to talk about men, masculinity and the patriarchy. Simon discusses his journey of learning to suppress emotions and to open up about feelings, something that is absent from most boys' and men's skills sets, but why?What do men talk about when they talk? What don't men talk about when they meet up? Why don't men have their own feminism?Why don't men even think of themselves as men beyond the male roles they are given?Should gender education

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01:03:31

Dom femmes - Play parties, consent & lots of yap

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2025/01/05

Effie and her special guest Jane Grey are in London to talk about life as a dominatrix. Misty joins from Berlin as the three discuss their personal and professional experiences of being dominant or submissive and how their play has evolved over the years. The Crudies also talk consent, again. And give tips on what to say if you find it difficult to say no before, during or after a scene.Should we say Femdom or Dom femme? What's the difference?Jane Grey is a professional Dominatrix, and founder of

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49:55

Are all furry holes a goal? Crude talks bestiality,...

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2024/12/19

When are hot dogs more than just hotdogs?Crude goes to the zoo for this episode all about bestiality or sexual interactions with our furry and not-so-fury little friends on this earth.Elle and Effie in London are joined by (lone wolf) Frank in Berlin to talk through the laws and hypocrisies within people's attitudes to animal welfare regarding sexual interactions with animals.Which animals would the crew most like to kiss?Is peanut butter the most effective way to seduce your pet?*What we were

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01:02:13

Ménage-à-dude – The rise and rise of the...

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2024/11/24

25 The Crude team talk all about different types of threesomes and what makes us desire them, as well as touching on how to have a good one. Later on, they focus on the rise of male + male + female and male + female + male (MMF and MFM) threesomes. Are they all about power? Is placing the woman at the centre a necessary part of any successful threesome? Are male attitudes on same sex experience changing to suit women's desires, or are the Crudies just living in a sex-positive bubble?While FFM

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38:12

Probed from beyond: Fantasy, fetish and sexy science...

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2024/11/09

Effie is joined by Elle in London, Frank in Berlin and Elle's Lemurian sibling Margaux in California for this extra-sex-terrestrial episode all about aliens, probes, martian pegging and sci-fi.History, scandal and three-boobed mutants. Crude goes to space.Which aliens would the Crudies most like to sleep with or probe?Why did people say aliens abducted them and gave them prostate massages? Was this a medical kink? Or are THEY walking among us now?Abduction story credit: @libbiehiggins*Alien

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50:07

When love becomes loves: It's the polyamory and ENM...

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2024/10/25

In this episode, Frank in Berlin is privileged to be joined by the ineffable Effie and special guest Poppy in London. After all their poly-bashing, are the Crude Crew open to changing their mind on the term? Other questions that the Crew looks at include ...What is polyamory? Why do Misty and Frank cringe at some poly language like "compersion"? Is everyone poly?Poppy Scarlett is a professional over-sharer and Full Time Sex Person™️. As a certified Sex and Relationships Educator, non-monogamy

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01:02:52

Bug chasers, PrEP and all the peckers you want –...

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2024/09/27

On this episode, Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London and special guest Carlos in Birmingham, UK as the Crudies talk about all things gay party scenes and men-who-have-s3x-with-men (MSM)Misty also tells us about her first g0ngbong experience, and Effie talks about London's S3x-worker pride and the party series that celebrated its inaugural event.Special guest Carrrrrlos came on to answer all the questions we wanted to ask gay/MSM people who visit dark rooms and s3x parties. Are

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51:21

Dating sex workers - How SWs navigate the perils of...

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2024/08/28

On this episode, Elle and Effie in London are joined by a special guest Maya to talk about how sex workers date and the many complications that arise from it. Crude Podcast: Seggsual healing*What we were consuming*[Podcast] Eva Oh [Berlin exhibition] With Legs Wide Open [Activism] Hackling // Hustling[Article] Boomtown[Article] Whorearchy[Theory] Madonna–Wh0re complex

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55:33

Breakups - Uncoupling, burning their sh*t or maybe...

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2024/08/15

Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to talk about their breakup experiences. Did they end things or stay friends, and why not just burn their sh* and move on? What about post-break-up seggs? Is it a good idea? Or have they lost the privilege?In the catch-up, Effie talks about her holidays in the French nudist and swinger paradise in Cap d'Agde.*Crudie break up songs*Lou Dillon – ICUPeaches –Fuck the Pain AwayGotye - Somebody That I Used to Know (acapella) Parcels – OnceMichael

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48:37

Sound and sensuality - Start listening to your...

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2024/08/13

Misty in Berlin and Effie in London are joined by their special guest Kėkė to talk all about sex and music. The Crudies kick off with a discussion of how therapeutic gangbangs can be and Effie gives more tips on how to organise them.Berlin-based un-disciplined artist, researching the intersections of sound, film, performance and somatic research. Kėkė's artworks are a space to explore how contemplative embodiment and improvisation can be a point of access to sense the living and connective tissue

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