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PolySoCal

PolySoCal — your invitation to look behind closed doors and into the real worlds, bedrooms, and living rooms of ethical non-monogamy. Whether you"re just beginning to explore or already living this lifestyle, you"ll find something here: real voices, honest stories, and grounded insights from couples and polycules navigating love, growth, and connection beyond the traditional mold.We talk about what it actually means to practice ENM—with care, clarity, and consent. From communication tools and

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49:52

Aging, Desire, and the Changing Shape of Intimacy

PolySoCal ·

2025/12/17

this episode dives into the emotional landscape of aging within polyamorous and kink-friendly relationships. The group explores vulnerability, sexual confidence, physical changes, emotional safety, and the evolving experience of intimacy between partners of different ages. What starts as a discussion about sexual safety expands into honest storytelling about ED, communication, demisexuality, confidence, being seen, and how partners can support each other as their bodies and desires shift over...

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40:38

What Does Sexual Safety Mean?

PolySoCal ·

2025/12/10

The discussion moves far beyond physical protection, delving into emotional safety — the kind of trust that allows someone to be fully vulnerable, seen, and accepted. Each guest brings a deeply personal perspective: Patty speaks about freedom of expression and emotional honesty, John reflects on being “a safe person” and the complexities of male vulnerability, Heather explores how self-knowledge and boundaries create safety, and Katerina opens a profound dialogue about energy, forgiveness, an...

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35:20

Patty: Lessons in Love and Longevity

PolySoCal ·

2025/12/03

In this candid interview, host Alonzo Banx sits down with Patty, a cornerstone of the PolySoCal community, for a deep and heartfelt conversation about her 31-year relationship with her husband John, their journey through polyamory, and the wisdom that only comes from decades of experience. Patty shares stories from their early days — from swinging to growing into emotionally connected polyamory — and opens up about raising children, facing red flags, and learning the art of saying no without ...

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35:00

Is Poly Kinky? — Where Love, Labels, and Laughter...

PolySoCal ·

2025/11/26

One of the most spirited PolySoCal roundtables yet, exploring the question: Do you have to be kinky to be poly? and Isn’t poly just swinging, anyway? What begins as a lighthearted discussion quickly evolves into a candid exploration of love, sex, and self-definition. With a full cast including Max, Patty, Cupcake, John, Noah, and Heather, the conversation dives deep into how we define “kink,” what separates emotional connection from sexual play, and why definitions matter less than honesty an...

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44:38

Feeling Secure — Building Safety and Trust in Poly...

PolySoCal ·

2025/11/19

In Episode 18, Alonzo Banx brings together a familiar and lively panel — Heather, Cookie, Noah, Blake, and Lana — for a deep, candid conversation about what it really means to feel secure in polyamory. The discussion explores how love languages, trust, and communication shape emotional safety, and how security isn’t static — it’s something partners build, test, and rebuild over time. From redefining “rules” as evolving agreements, to balancing freedom with safety, and learning to love from a ...

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39:57

New Relationship Energy — The High, the Hurt, and the...

PolySoCal ·

2025/11/12

The PolySoCal crew dives deep into the electric, chaotic, and beautiful phenomenon known as New Relationship Energy (NRE) — that intoxicating rush when a new connection begins. Hosted by Alonzo Banx with Heather, Noah, Max, and Cupcake, the conversation explores how to recognize, manage, and sustain relationships when NRE hits hard. From emotional honesty and neglected partners to compersion, dopamine highs, and hilarious real-world stories, this roundtable captures the full spectrum of what ...

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39:40

Cupcake: Becoming My Authentic Self

PolySoCal ·

2025/11/05

In this intimate and powerful one-on-one, Alonzo Banx sits down with Cupcake, one of the most loved voices of the PolySoCal community. For the first time, she shares her journey through trauma, recovery, and self-discovery — from surviving assault and toxic relationships to finding love, strength, and healing through kink, polyamory, and community. What begins as a personal history unfolds into a message of courage, growth, and the freedom to finally live as your authentic self. Alonzo ...

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37:10

What makes someone feel truly ‘part of the community

PolySoCal ·

2025/10/29

In this heartfelt roundtable, the PolySoCal crew opens up about belonging, rejection, and what it truly means to feel part of a community. Hosted by Alonzo Banx with guests Lana, Noah, Ash, Sy, and Cupcake, this episode dives into the emotional undercurrents of inclusion — when we feel invited, when we don’t, and how our own perceptions shape that sense of belonging. The group explores how trust, self-worth, and proactive care from community leaders can make all the difference between isolati...

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41:14

Male Anxiety in Poly

PolySoCal ·

2025/10/22

What does fear look like when you’re trying to love openly? In this episode, three men sit down to talk honestly about confidence, insecurity, aging, and the quiet ways anxiety shows up in polyamorous relationships. It’s not a debate or a lectureit’s a real conversation between friends who’ve lived the questions they’re asking. From feeling “replaceable,” to learning emotional maturity, to the unspoken pressures men carry in love, this episode hits close to home for anyone who’s ever wo...

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35:28

Types of Poly, Finding What Fits You

PolySoCal ·

2025/10/15

Guest host Noah leads a lively and heartfelt discussion exploring the many forms of polyamory — from kitchen-table dynamics to monogamish relationships, harems of cuddle buddies, and solo poly living. The conversation opens with introductions from the full PolySoCal crew and new guests, each sharing their experiences and definitions of what “poly” means to them. Together, they dive into the importance of communication, boundaries, and how relationships evolve in today’s changing world. What b...

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41:52

How to Join the Community, and Do It Right

PolySoCal ·

2025/10/08

In this roundtable conversation, the PolySoCal Podcast takes on one of the most common questions newcomers ask: “How do I join the community and conduct myself properly?” Alonzo Banx is joined by Cupcake, Noah, Ash, Oslo, Heather, and Craig for an honest and sometimes raw discussion about the do’s and don’ts of entering poly and lifestyle spaces. The group explores respect, boundaries, consent, and the importance of self-awareness before diving in. Along the way, personal stories highli...

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43:41

Men – What to expect in the community

PolySoCal ·

2025/10/01

Hosted by Alonzo Banx, this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast brings together a group of men—Jon, Beeb, Craig, Blake, Max, and Noah—for an unfiltered conversation about what it really takes to show up in shared spaces and non-monogamous dynamics. They tackle hard truths about ego, consent, communication, and emotional responsibility, sharing both personal insights and practical advice. It’s an honest and at times vulnerable conversation about growing into the kind of man who builds trust...

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31:57

Ladies – What to expect in the community

PolySoCal ·

2025/09/24

In this powerful episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, host Patty guides a roundtable of six incredible women—Heather, Jenna, Cupcake, Captain Lynn, and Lana—through a deeply honest conversation about what to expect when entering the world of open or non-traditional relationships. Drawing on lived experience and hard-earned wisdom, they explore how to ask for what you need, how to stay grounded in your values, and how to handle emotional overwhelm without losing yourself. This episode is a ...

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37:41

Unequal Playtime: Navigating Attention in Polyamory

PolySoCal ·

2025/09/17

This episode of PolySoCal podcast dives into one of the most challenging and relatable dynamics in open relationships: the uneven balance of attention and playtime between men and women. Our panel of voices shared personal stories of jealousy, reassurance, cultural bias, and creative solutions—like being your partner’s wingwoman, setting clear agreements, or simply learning to celebrate each other’s connections. The conversation was honest, vulnerable, and full of insights for anyone navigati...

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45:45

When four become family

PolySoCal ·

2025/09/10

In this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo sits down with Patty, John, Heather, and Beeb — a four-person polycule — to talk about how their connection began, what it’s like to grow from swinging into a committed quad, and how they navigate the everyday challenges of jealousy, compersion, agreements, and family disclosure. From playful banter about “love cups” to honest reflections on emotional vulnerability and time management, this conversation offers a candid look at how four people a...

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34:47

So... I’ve Been Thinking: How Do We Even Start This...

PolySoCal ·

2025/09/03

In this episode of the PolysoCal Roundtable Talk, host Alonzo Banx and a diverse group of guests discuss the intricacies of polyamorous relationships. They explore how to navigate the introduction of new partners, the importance of communication, and the lessons learned from past experiences. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mental health and the need for transparency and trust in polyamorous dynamics. Each guest shares their unique perspectives and advice, creating a rich dial...

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32:46

What Is Poly, Really?

PolySoCal ·

2025/08/27

What does the word “polyamory” actually mean anymore? In this thoughtful and sometimes spirited roundtable, Alonzo Banx opens the floor to unpack a question that’s become more complicated with time: Has the word “poly” lost its meaning—or expanded it? From ethical non-monogamy to monogamish dynamics, from swinging to polyfidelity, this episode dives into the evolving language of love and the emotional distinctions that set polyamory apart. With voices ranging from deeply seasoned to freshly c...

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30:57

If Judgment Fell Away: How Would You Love?

PolySoCal ·

2025/08/19

In this powerful, vulnerable roundtable, the PolySoCal community explores a single, profound question: “If society never judged your relationships, how would that change the way you love?” What unfolds is a raw and deeply human conversation about family rejection, corporate fear, the grief of lost friendships, and the bittersweet path to self-acceptance. Voices range from seasoned poly veterans to newer explorers—each sharing the emotional weight of secrecy, the strength it takes to live auth...

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25:53

Agreements in Action: Building Trust and Boundaries...

PolySoCal ·

2025/08/13

In this week’s PolySoCal Roundtable, host Alonzo Banx welcomes an engaging mix of voices—from seasoned polycule partners to a guest with a monogamish perspective—for an honest conversation about relationship agreements. Together, they explore how couples create, uphold, and evolve agreements that foster trust, respect, and safety in ethical non-monogamy. The group shares personal strategies, from subtle “in-the-moment” check-ins to the courage of renegotiating boundaries as relationships grow. Along

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31:23

Beyond Equal Time: Presence, Intentionality, and...

PolySoCal ·

2025/08/06

In this week’s PolySoCal Roundtable, host Alonzo Banx and an inspiring panel of voices explore one of the most persistent myths in ethical non-monogamy—the idea that fairness means splitting time equally between partners. Through candid stories, laughter, and heartfelt insights, they reveal why emotional presence, intentionality, and genuine connection matter far more than keeping the calendar balanced. From practical tools like “love cups” check-ins to the deep value of being fully present with

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