Whisper Lounge Podcast

In this second part of the trilogy, we explore what happens when something meant to be play—joyful, exploratory, connective—becomes something else: possession.Why do we attach ownership to sex? Why is betrayal defined only by physical acts? And how did society decide that sexual freedom threatens love rather than deepens it?Drawing on history, psychology, and culture, this episode unpacks the origins of possessive sexuality—from patriarchal systems to religious shame—and how those ideas shaped our

When did sex stop being playful? In this episode, we revisit the idea of sex as play—as an essential, creative form of adult connection. Just as children learn who they are through curiosity and play, adults need those same instincts to explore their sensual and sexual selves.We’ll talk about how fear, shame, and conditioning have made sexuality too serious—and how rediscovering playfulness can reconnect us to our bodies, our partners, and our joy. From exploring sensuality without performance to

In this episode, I slow down to explore a question we don’t often ask: Is what I’m feeling attraction, sensuality, or simply affection? These feelings often overlap—and our culture rarely gives us the language to tell them apart.We’ll dive into the nuances of attraction (sexual and otherwise), the misunderstood beauty of sensuality, and the safe emotional closeness of affection. I share how practices like sensual dance have reshaped my understanding of intimacy, and how men and women alike are

Am I bi—or just curious? In this episode I get personal about attraction, identity, and what it means to listen to your body without rushing into a label. I share early memories of wanting closeness with girls, growing up in conservative Christian spaces, and how a first threesome unexpectedly opened the door to a real, tender connection with a woman.We unpack the difference between bi-curious vs. bisexual, “passing” as straight, and why bisexuality can feel invisible or misunderstood in both

Sex positivity gets thrown around a lot—in hashtags, in headlines, even as a trendy identity. But what does it actually mean in real life? In this episode, I unpack what sex positivity looks like off the internet and inside real relationships.I share how my own story—from abstinence and a sexually-anorexic marriage to divorce, curiosity, and freedom—reshaped the way I think about sex and desire. For me, sex positivity isn’t about being boundaryless, hypersexual, or saying yes to everything. It’s