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PODCAST

Don’t Scare the Newbies!

Kink can be scary, but talking about it doesn’t have to be! S and kirizal, a couple in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship chat about kink, sex, relationships, communication, and all the messy stuff in between.Follow kirizal’s blog and find all their socials at www.kirizal.comSupport U/us on Patreon at patreon.com/dontscarethenewbies

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84:04

Be the Banana: The Power of Nudity with Nat of The...

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/10/29

Nat of The North East Life Art Project joins kirizal and S as O/our first guest. Talking life modelling, body image, objectification, power exchange, sexuality vs sensuality, and so much more! Will S take Their clothes off for money, what has kirizal been doing on the wines at the business meetings, and how is Nat like a banana? Plus an exciting announcement - Don’t Scare the Newbies! is taking yapping about kink into the real world with an upcoming event in Newcastle.Event info and tickets:

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88:55

Just Because They Can: BDSM Contracts & Rules Part Two

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/10/22

In the last episode, kirizal and S talked contracts - and the development of the fixed foundation of O/our power exchange. Now it’s onto the living document of O/our rules - covering protocol, limits, punishment, and the fine details of a life built together to bring kink out from the dungeon and into the ordinary and the every day. Part two of O/our two-parter on the filthy, nerdy structure of O/our dynamic.

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88:23

At Their Absolute Discretion: BDSM Contracts & Rules...

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/10/15

Contracts, rules, formal reviews and paperwork - hot, right? The formal structure of power exchange relationships can often sound like boring admin from the outside, but for two self confessed sex nerds, writing a contract together was like months of foreplay. In this episode, S and kirizal talk about the journey to O/our first contract of Total Power Exchange and talk through everything that goes into it - the responsibilities, risks, commitment and joy. This episode is part one of two, with next

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83:39

Controlled Violations: Consensual Non-Consent and...

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/10/08

One of O/our favourite - and often very misunderstood and oversimplified kinks - is CNC: consensual non-consent. Exploring violation, control, violence, and surrender in both play and O/our dynamic is something that draws U/us both - but how do you keep focus on the “first C” when playing in the darkest parts of your mind? Is it safe? Is it ethical? And is it really just about “forced” fantasies or is there more to it? W/we answer all of that and more!Content Note: This episode includes detailed

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91:34

31 Days of Kink: Beating a Play Slump

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/10/01

W/we sit down to share tips on overcoming a play slump, finding ways to create time and space for all kinds of intimacy when life gets in the way. In July 2025 W/we set a challenge to do something kinky every day for 31 days and almost succeeded - including the most intense and brutal beating kirizal has ever taken and a life changing camping trip, so in this episode W/we recap some highlights from this challenge and what it taught U/us.The blog post referenced in this episode is ‘Sixty-Five’ on

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85:36

i Can Do This All Day: O/our First Interrogation

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/09/24

Recorded two days after the most brutal, intense, and transformative scene W/we have ever done, kirizal and S abandon O/our regularly scheduled content to relive the three hour interrogation scene that was more than two months in the making. Talking about the practical elements, negotiation, emotional impact, and kirizal’s top tips to ensure torture.The blog post referenced in this episode is ‘Not Friends (Ain’t That The Worst Thing You Ever Heard)’ at kirizal.com Content Note: This episode contains

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98:28

Unhinged Pussy Witchcraft: All About Sex

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/09/17

Not all kink involves sex, and not all sex involves kink, but the crossover between the two is a lot of fun! W/we talk sexual communication, overcoming sexual function challenges, and kirizal demands answers to where S learned Their skills in unhinged pussy witchcraftContent Note: This episode includes discussion of blood play, vomit, and fantasies about sexual assault

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68:48

Communication is Key: Communication in D/s Relationships

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/09/10

As you might expect from a couple with a kink podcast, talking about kink is one of O/our favourite things to do! But communication in power exchange relationships is about more than that - in this episode W/we talk about consent models, negotiation, risk management, and the importance of regular check ins - with some clips from one of O/our monthly dynamic review sessions to show how it works!Content Note: This episode includes brief discussion of consensual non-consent play involving simulated

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77:46

Sex Perverts Club: Getting Started in Kink

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/09/03

The world of kink sounds intimidating and complicated, so how does anyone get started? kirizal and S talk about O/our starting points, and how (and why) W/we found O/our way into the kink community after exploring alone. Risk, adventure, and connection - let’s talk about everything involved in getting into kink.

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44:39

Opening the Box: Meet the Hosts

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/09/03

Get to know kirizal and S - O/our earliest kink experiences, kirizal’s chronic over-sharing vs S’s more reserved and private nature, and how on earth that combination led to a podcast about O/our most intimate momentsContent Note: This episode includes brief discussion of addiction, and consensual non-consent play involving simulated sexual assault

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1:34

Episode One Preview Clip

Don’t Scare the Newbies! ·

2025/08/25

A little snippet of what’s to come!

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