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"Come On, Man" Podcast

Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value

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01:07:22

This Fixes A Sexless Marriage So Fast It Feels Like...

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2026/10/05

Sexless marriage fix strategies that actually work start with understanding why negotiated sex and marriage counseling both hit a ceiling, because attraction can't be bargained for no matter how calm the conversation stays. Paul Bauer breaks down why obligation sex and bribery tactics like flirting in front of her backfire, what passive dread actually is, and why pre-selection makes her desire come from her own head instead of a deal you made.➡️ Take 20% off The Passive Dread Blueprint until October

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01:15:28

10 Proven Ways To Build Mental Toughness Most Men...

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2026/10/02

Mental toughness for men comes down to ten specific techniques most men never learn, covering everything from emotional control and composure under pressure to self-validation and staying calm when someone tries to bait you. Paul Bauer breaks down the ten-second pause, building a mentor inside your own head, why fighters go cold instead of hot before a fight, the belief that kept a man conscious after being impaled by a sword, and why saying "good" when things go wrong changes everything.➡️ Take 20%

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00:58:51

The One Big Marriage Red Flag You'll Miss Before You...

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2026/09/30

Marriage red flags before remarriage after divorce go far beyond money, and contempt is the single strongest predictor of divorce according to relationship research. Paul Bauer breaks down nine warning signs men over 40 need to vet for before saying "I do" again, from unresolved drama with an ex and financial dishonesty to prenup refusal and lackluster intimacy, and why building your own contenders list matters more than any single checklist item.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure

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01:01:25

How Married Men Over 40 Should Use The Manosphere in...

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2026/09/28

Manosphere criticism and "All Women Are Like That" get addressed head-on in this breakdown of what critics get right about red pill content and where they miss the mark entirely. Paul Bauer goes point by point through the most common critiques, from frame and dominance to bitterness and covert contracts, showing married men over 40 how to use LUCA versus DEERing and the Male Action Plan to actually fix a sexless marriage instead of feeding resentment and creating better beta males.VIDEOS TO WATCH

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01:18:01

If You Ask Her What She Wants to Do, You've Already...

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2026/09/25

Frame and approval seeking determine whether a woman respects you or walks away, and this episode breaks down a real text exchange where one small habit cost a man his girlfriend on his own birthday. Paul Bauer covers why asking "what do you want to do" hands her a decision she never asked for, why forgiving her before she apologizes trains her to test you harder, and the exact rewrite that would have changed the entire outcome.➡️ Original Post:

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01:20:06

Blaming Yourself After A Breakup? Men Over 40 (You...

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2026/09/23

Breakup recovery for men over 40 starts with understanding hypergamy and female psychology, not blaming yourself for what you were never taught. Paul Bauer breaks down why the breakup felt sudden but was actually a slow process of disillusionment, why checking her social media keeps the wound open, why accommodating behavior learned as a kid backfires with women, and the exact steps to redirect your energy and move forward on purpose.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix

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01:11:45

(WARNING) HYPERGAMY Doesn't Care How Long You've Been...

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2026/09/21

Female hypergamy and sexless marriage advice for men both trace back to the same root cause: her instincts are constantly measuring you against every man she's ever seen, and that never fully clocks out. Paul Bauer breaks down the dual mating strategy splitting her instincts in two, why ovulation spikes her cheating risk, the mate switching hypothesis behind why she leaves, and how passive dread and preselection put hypergamy back on your side.➡️ The Passive Dread Blueprint:

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00:02:25

The REALITY Of Deciding If A Sexless Marriage Can...

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2026/09/20

Sexless marriage recovery has a limit, and hypergamy explains why some relationships stay dead no matter how much frame, game, or self-improvement a man puts in. This excerpt from Get Her to F*ck You Again covers why attraction is dynamic, not static, why a checked-out woman won't respond to your growth, and how to recognize when you've hit the point of no return instead of chasing a spark that isn't coming back.➡️ Grab a copy on Amazon or Audible: https://mybook.to/GHTFYA

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01:12:47

(Hidden) Nobody Actually Explains The Real 3 Hermetic...

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2026/09/18

The Law of Attraction and the seven Hermetic Principles trace back to the same source, and this final chapter reveals that manifestation is really three laws firing together at once. Paul Bauer breaks down Mentalism, Vibration, and Cause and Effect, why missing even one of the three breaks the chain, how your conscious mind projects while your subconscious expresses, and why a woman reads your internal coherence as an electromagnetic signal whether she can explain it or not.VIDEOS TO WATCH

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01:00:53

(Disturbing) Alan Ritchson's Divorce Teaches Men THIS...

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2026/09/16

Alan Ritchson's divorce after 20 years of marriage and three kids proves betatization never announces itself, it just adds up one small concession at a time. Paul Bauer breaks down why doing everything right doesn't guarantee a marriage survives, why she never stops testing a man no matter how long they're married, why complacency is the direct enemy of attraction, and why a woman's negative read on a man almost never gets erased once it locks in.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure

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01:05:56

Why More Men Over 35 Don't Want To Get Married...

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2026/09/14

30 million single men and the marriage crisis experts can't explain it — but community property laws, alimony calculations, and custody defaults most men never see coming tell the real story. Paul Bauer breaks down how a marriage license can hand her half your house even if you made every payment alone, why a will and trust protect you better than a courtroom ever will, and why feminism's own success made marriage a preference instead of a necessity.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure

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01:01:10

Your Visualization Won't Actually Work Until You Fix...

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2026/09/11

The quantum observer effect and visualization coherence explain why most men picture a goal for five minutes and get nothing, and this episode breaks down exactly why that happens. Paul Bauer covers the laser versus flashlight metaphor for organized energy, heart-brain coherence and why your emotional state is broadcasting whether you know it or not, why vague goals produce vague results, and the actual 90-day window a new pattern needs to become automatic.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to

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01:17:22

The RED PILL Truth Behind Why Modern Dating Feels So...

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2026/09/09

Red pill dating psychology and why modern dating feels broken comes down to churn marketing, beta bait, and a hypergamy strategy most men never learn to read, and this episode breaks all of it down. Paul Bauer covers why dating apps are built to keep you scrolling instead of matched, why time is a woman's real enemy and not yours, why the birth rate crisis is your problem to navigate even if it isn't your fault, and why hypergamy isn't hypocrisy, it's just strategy.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this

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00:56:45

This One Simple Habit Fixes A Sexless Marriage...

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2026/09/07

Fixing a sexless marriage and rebuilding attraction with your wife both come down to one habit most men have never heard of, and it has nothing to do with love languages, counseling, or trying harder. Paul Bauer breaks down why talking, quality time, and constant affection all fail to rebuild desire, and introduces the daily journaling exercise from the Get Her to F*ck You Again workbook that surfaces the subconscious beliefs actually killing your marriage.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to

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00:06:10

Alpha Male Affirmations: I AM Statements That Rewire...

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2026/09/05

Alpha male affirmations and subconscious paradigm reprogramming determine whether you develop a dominant masculine presence or stay stuck repeating the same patterns, and this excerpt from Psychology-Paradigm breaks down exactly how. Paul Bauer covers journaling and self-reflection questions that surface hidden beliefs, mindfulness and meditation as a tool for catching automatic reactions, and the I AM statement method that overwrites old paradigms with new ones.➡️ Shop now:

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01:09:38

Ask This One Question Before You Believe Your Next...

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2026/09/04

Quantum entanglement and neuroplasticity explain the same principle: nothing about your identity is fixed, it's a pattern built through repetition that can be rebuilt the same way. Paul Bauer breaks down the David Hawkins emotional frequency scale, the NLP third party observer technique, and why a woman reacts to what's underneath your behavior long before she reacts to the behavior itself.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage:

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01:06:10

A Relationship Expert EXPOSES The HYPERGAMY Signs...

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2026/09/02

Hypergamy and the mate switching hypothesis explain the two mating tracks running at once inside every relationship, and this episode breaks down 10 signals that show up before an affair ever goes physical. Paul Bauer covers the backup men she keeps active through work and old flames, the sudden appearance upgrade with no occasion behind it, the pulling back that protects her from guilt, and why building the man she can't replace is the actual fix.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure

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01:00:57

Why You Shouldn't Ignore What A SEXLESS MARRIAGE Does...

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2026/08/31

A sexless marriage takes a toll on testosterone, sleep, and cardiovascular health in ways men already feel but never connect to the bedroom, and this episode breaks them all down. Paul Bauer covers the mental health toll of chronic rejection, the physical decline hiding in routine bloodwork, and how Get Her to F*ck You Again and its companion workbook give men the exact steps to rebuild attraction instead of guessing.VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing

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00:03:22

The Truth About SHIT TESTS: Why She’s Actually...

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2026/08/30

Dead bedroom marriage and sexless relationship problems often trace back to shit tests men fail without realizing it, and this excerpt from Get Her to F*ck You Again breaks down why. Paul Bauer covers why shit tests intensify the longer a marriage goes on as men slip into complacency and lose the frame she originally married, why emotional stability determines whether you pass or fail, and why reacting defensively is the exact signal that kills attraction in a sexless marriage.➡️ Grab Get Her To

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01:06:52

The Hermetic Law Killing Your FRAME (Nobody Talks...

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2026/08/28

The Hermetic Law of Gender and the conscious versus subconscious mind explain why most men send contradictory signals without realizing it, and this episode breaks down the exact mechanics behind it. Paul Bauer covers why a passing thought changes nothing, why real internal coherence reads as genuine while performed confidence doesn't, how quantum electrodynamics backs up an idea that's thousands of years old, and why most men are only using half their available creative power.VIDEOS TO WATCH

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