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The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. Talk to us

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50:49

Listener Guest Raina: Against Chill, For Vulnerability

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/10/03

FDS queens are not chill. Patricia is joined by our listener Raina to bury the idea of being "pathetic", center our desires and hold tight to our standards. Its pretty feel-good.Wanna co-host with us? Email us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens

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56:30

Sarah Says

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/09/19

Guest host Sarah joins Rose in a freewheeling discussion about alllllll the ways women are told to shrink, dismiss, and ignore how patriarchy instructs us to settle and date down.Affirmative action for men in real time - Sarah and Rose tick through the boxes they've broken out of and how they orient themselves to successfully value themselves in the dating realm.

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60:46

Summerhouse & Ciara Miller: an FDS primer

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/09/04

Guest host Anne-Sophie joins Rose to discuss the lessons learned from the reality tv show Summerhouse and Ciara Miller: how her charisma elevated her platform on the series, and how FDS queens might learn from her journey navigating dating, friendship, and racial/class differences as a reality tv star.

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44:24

No Matter What, People Will Always Have an Opinion

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/08/16

Patricia brings another fascinating topic to the table as the Queens return from summer break to resume FDS talk time! In this episode, we delve into self/identity as a woman and human being, and how we fully embody our selves in the face of non-stop criticism and ceaseless attention.

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0:31

Summer Break

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/07/11

Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!

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61:16

The Secret Palermo Bodega

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/06/26

Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.

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65:56

Manosphere & Online Dating: FDS Queens Don't Sweat It!

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/06/13

What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along

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60:01

The Four F's: FDS Strategies to Survive and Thrive

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/05/30

What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest."Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal ViolenceThich Nhat Hanh youtube video on helping hungry ghosts

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51:41

The Not-Dating Female Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/05/12

Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyoneLet us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens!Scrotes die mad

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2:17

A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/05/01

Let us know!contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comlove u, see you next week

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54:54

The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/04/21

FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comScrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies

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57:59

Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/04/04

Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

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59:08

My Kink is Shaming

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/03/21

In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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59:39

Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle...

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/03/14

Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic Join the conversation by commenting on SpotifyAlso, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡

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52:49

Let's Talk About Sex!

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/02/20

Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.

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54:02

A Sobering Tale: Rose's Journey to Sobriety

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/02/09

In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS.Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026🎙️ Episode Resources & Links📘 Free Download – FDS HandbookLevel up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.👉 Download here💖 Support the PodcastLike what you hear? Help us keep the message going:👉 Donate via PayPal🌐 Explore More FDSWebsite: thefemaledatingstrategy.comTwitter:

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52:27

Should You Play Games? Taking FDS Principles to Heart

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/01/25

Rose and Patricia delve into the timeless question: should you play games? In the ensuing discussion, they find answers that underline how important FDS principles are in ensuring a healthy approach to dating and life.Would you like to share a Queen Level-Up Story? Or a roast-a-scrote tale? Write us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

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44:06

What Is FDS: Rekindling The Communal Flame

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/01/10

Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our bestBuckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up.As we shared on Savanna's Swan Song (last pod), If you are still subscribed to the Patreon, we very much value your

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17:24

Savanna's Swan Song

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2026/01/03

Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!

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44:19

Logical Fallacies Part 2

The Female Dating Strategy ·

2025/07/16

Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics. 🎙️ Episode Resources & Links 📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook. 👉 Download here 💖 Support the Podcast Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon! 👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon 🌐 Explore More FDS Website:

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