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Probing In The Sheets

Probing In The Sheets

At its core, we understand the vast ripple effect kink can have on our lives, rooted in pleasure, personal growth, and community. It’s time to tune into yourself and connect on a deeper level, while having delicious fun exploring topics within the kink and BDSM realm. In association with Probe Ottawa.

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00:47:15

S2E12 Dominant Hands

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/04/17

In this episode, Miel and Jamie dominate the conversation, converse about dominance and ask themselves: What are the main types of dominants? What makes a good dom/domme? What green flags should you look out for when vetting a dom/domme? What questions should you ask them? About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has

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00:25:57

S2E11 Manifesting (Part 2)

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2026/04/10

In Manifesting, Part Two, Miel and Jamie go deeper on the steps required to bring dreams and ideas into reality.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human

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00:29:23

S2E10 Manifesting (Part 1)

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2026/04/03

Jamie and Miel have manifested another wonderful two-part episode. In Part One, they open up about what manifesting means to them and share examples of how to put it into practice in kink and in the real world.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political

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00:49:13

S2E9 Maddy In The Middle

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2026/03/27

In this episode, our very first guest jumps into bed with Jamie and Miel. Maddy wears many tantalizing hats, from sex educator (@sexedwithmadds) to sex shop owner (@wickedwandas) and event manager (@events.houseofkink & @climax.conference). She talks about being raised by a domme and sex shop owner, finding her own space in the kink community and shares some insights on the culture and business of pleasure.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a

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00:29:58

S2E8 Q&A Time With Miel & Jamie (Part 2)

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2026/03/20

In this episode, Miel and Jamie answer more questions from listeners. How did they meet their partners? How do they feel about how kink and BDSM are portrayed in the media? What spicy books do they recommend?…and more! About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and

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00:23:55

S2E7 Q&A Time With Miel & Jamie (Part 1)

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2026/03/13

In this episode, Miel and Jamie answer questions from listeners. What have they learned from their journey through kink? What unusual toy/implement do they recommend? What safe word should people use, other than “red”? …and more! Continued next time in Part 2. Kink Playlists:Beat The Ones You Lovex Femme Fatale xAbout JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of

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00:27:15

S2E6 Sex & Kink

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2026/03/06

In this episode, Miel and Jamie chat about kink without sex, sex without kink, kinky sex and sexy kinks. Choose your own adventure and join us as we venture to disambiguate and validate the realm of possibilities. About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply

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00:38:05

S2E5 Shame! Who do you think you are?

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2026/02/27

This episode is all about shame. Jamie and Miel talk about coming out as kinky, vulnerability and openness about our needs and desires, working through internal shame about our kinks, attractions and preferences, social pressure, critics and outside opinions. Who do we think we are?About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To

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00:27:34

S2E4 The Masks We Wear (Part Two)

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2026/02/20

In this episode, Miel and Jamie continue their discussion about the masks we wear in life and BDSM. Topics include the importance of self awareness and flexibility, neurodivergence and masking when we’re outside our window of tolerance, and finding our custom mask through introspection and experience.About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves

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00:34:13

The Masks We Wear (Part 1)

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/02/13

In this episode, Miel and Jamie discuss the masks we wear in life and BDSM. Topics include the importance of self awareness and flexibility, neurodivergence and masking when we’re outside our window of tolerance, and finding our custom mask through introspection and experience.About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world

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00:41:27

Burnout in Kink

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2026/02/06

Burnout in KinkIn this episode, Jamie and Miel discuss the signs of burnout, how burnout affects our kink dynamics, supporting partners who are experiencing burnout, how to listen to our natural cycles and cultivate the power of saying no.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of

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00:51:45

Navigating Health Issues and Kink

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2026/01/30

In this episode, Miel and Jamie share their experiences with health issues, how illnesses and injuries can affect kink dynamics, the importance of advocating for yourself when communicating with health professionals about kink and BDSM, and how health issues can impact D/s dynamics.About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the

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00:39:36

Rupture & Repair in Kink Dynamics (Part 2)

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/12/19

In this episode, Jamie and Miel continue their discussion on rupture and repair in kink dynamics and relationships. Part 2 explores tools and practices for repair, power vs. control in relationships, owning our actions, setting boundaries and trusting friends to learn their lessons.The song Jamie mentions near the end is Tattoo by Jordin SparksAbout JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to

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00:36:40

Rupture & Repair in Kink Dynamics (Part 1)

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/12/12

In this episode, Miel and Jamie delve into the concepts of rupture and repair in kink dynamics and relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of taking responsibility in relationships and explores the magic of repairing connections, and how it can deepen a dynamic or play partnership.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and

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01:04:08

FRIES: Consent in Kink

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/12/09

In this episode, Jamie and Miel dive into the nuances of consent, focusing on the FRIES acronym to help understand its components: Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific. The conversation emphasizes the importance of ongoing consent and how it applies in various kink contexts. Contact us @ probinginthesheets@gmail.comTakeawaysConsent must be ongoing and reversible.Informed consent is crucial in all interactions.FRIES helps simplify understanding of consent.Reversibility is a

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01:05:37

FRIES: Consent in Kink

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/12/05

In this episode, Jamie and Miel dive into the nuances of consent, focusing on the FRIES acronym to help understand its components: Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific. The conversation emphasizes the importance of ongoing consent and how it applies in various kink contexts. Contact us @ probinginthesheets@gmail.comTakeawaysConsent must be ongoing and reversible.Informed consent is crucial in all interactions.FRIES helps simplify understanding of consent.Reversibility is a

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00:46:26

Frenzy Unleashed: Balancing Excitement and Safety

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/11/28

On this episode of 'Probing in the Sheets,' hosts Miel and Jamie explore the concept of 'frenzy' within the kink community, discussing its implications for both submissives and dominants. They delve into the emotional and psychological aspects of frenzy, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, boundaries, and communication. The hosts share personal experiences and grounding techniques to help listeners navigate their own journeys in kink safely and joyfully.TakeawaysFrenzy is a

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00:46:03

Somatics and Negotiation in BDSM

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2025/11/21

Right on the heels of the Climax Conference, Jamie and Miel dive into a very important topic that was brought forward during the inaugural conference. This episode delves into the art of negotiation, emphasizing its dynamic nature and how it can be adapted to various situations. The discussion highlights the importance of planning and thinking strategically, with insights into somatics and the role they play in negotiations to achieve successful outcomes.TakeawaysNegotiation is a living, adaptable

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01:15:05

Intensity Bonding and Navigating Breakups in Kink

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/11/14

In this episode of 'Probing in the Sheets,' hosts Miel and Jamie delve into the complexities of breakups within the kink and BDSM community. They explore the emotional depth of relationships, the concept of intensity bonding, and the importance of self-care and healing. The conversation touches on the societal norms of relationships, the beauty of evolving connections, and the courage to choose oneself amidst loss and grief.TakeawaysIntensity bonding is a unique aspect of BDSM relationships.Choosing

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00:39:31

(Self) Trust In Kink and BDSM Dynamics

Probing In The Sheets ·

2025/11/07

In this episode of 'Probing in the Sheets,' hosts Miel and Jamie delve into the intricate dynamics of trust within the kink and BDSM community. They explore the importance of self-trust, the role of communication in building trust with partners, and how it can transform personal relationships. The conversation also touches on the concept of self-abandonment, the impact of trauma, and the journey towards radical self-love.Check Out Sonya Renee TaylorLearn More About Dr. Gabor

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