Probing In The Sheets

00:45:38

S3E7 come CLIMAX with Fiona MacDonell

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2026/10/09

Fiona MacDonell, a registered sex therapist with the Ottawa Centre for Relationship and Sex Therapy, joins us to talk about desire, intimacy and the many shapes relationships can take. She shares what she has learned from clients exploring non-monogamy: why shame so often gets in the way when a nervous system is on fire, and why slowing down doesn't have to mean stopping.Fiona, Jamie and Miel get into relationship anarchy, jealousy, attachment panic and the work of repair after rupture, with

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00:55:38

S3E6 Come CLIMAX with Martin from Iron Cabaret

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2026/10/05

Martin Fransham, co-producer of the Iron Cabaret and Cabaret Nova, joins us to share how his team built a home for after-dark entertainment in Ottawa. He talks about creating stages where sex workers, pole dancers, over-forty burlesque performers and first-timers all have full creative freedom. He also explains why running a transparent, team-first business has changed the way performers and crew relate to the work and to each other.Martin, Meil and Jamie also explore hotter monogamy, from

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00:48:02

S3E5 Come CLIMAX with Becky from A Spoonful of Becky

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2026/10/02

Becky joins us to share her journey of navigating disability, chronic illness, intimacy, and sexuality while building a life and career rooted in self-advocacy and representation. She talks openly about living with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, and how understanding her body and health has changed the way she thinks about relationships, desirability, pleasure, and connection. Becky, Jamie and Miel explore the importance of communication when navigating intimacy and health challenges, and how pleasure and

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00:53:47

S3E4 Come CLIMAX with Meghan from Mindfulness Meghan

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2026/09/25

In this conversation, Meghan talks about pleasure activism, mindfulness, and the ways that patriarchy, colonialism, capitalism, and racism shape our experiences of ourselves, our bodies, and our relationships. Meghan, Jamie, and Miel also explore how mindfulness can influence our relationships, our experiences of pleasure and conflict. This raw and real episode explores how taking the time to connect with our inner selves can be an act of rebellion against the systems that seek to divide us.Key

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00:48:30

S3E3 Come CLIMAX with Lisa Flanders | Cliterally...

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2026/09/18

Lisa Flanders discusses the importance of pelvic health physiotherapy, breaking down the stigma surrounding pelvic health issues, and the need for education on these topics. Lisa shares her journey into pelvic health, the common misconceptions about who can benefit from pelvic floor therapy, and the various issues that can arise for all genders. Lisa, Jamie and Miel speak candidly about the value of open conversations about sexual health, pleasure, and the power of curiosity in overcoming shame.Key

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00:44:02

S3E2 Come CLIMAX with Dr. Keiko Chan

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2026/09/18

Dr. Keiko Chan discusses various aspects of sexual health for people with vulvas and vaginas, particularly focusing on perimenopause, menopause, hormone treatments, and misconceptions surrounding testosterone therapy. The conversation explores the complexities of desire, intimacy, and sexual health. Delving into relationship dynamics, the importance of emotional connection, and the impact of societal expectations on libido. Dr. Chan emphasizes the need for a biopsychosocial approach to understanding

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00:41:18

S3E1 Come CLIMAX With Natalia | Kinks And Coffee |...

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/09/11

Natalia shares how her personal sexual reawakening evolved into Kinks and Coffee, House of Kink, Climax, and a larger role in Ottawa’s sex-positive community.This candid episode explores moving beyond shame, discovering pleasure, building safer spaces, and turning personal pain into purpose. Natalia also discusses creating inclusive events, making kink more approachable, and why collaboration is essential to a thriving community.Key topicsReclaiming pleasure after divorceMoving beyond shame and

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00:32:51

S2E17 All By Myself

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2026/05/22

For this episode, Miel and Jamie got together to chat about the joys of being alone and the many ways solo play can be explored in kink. TW/CW: This episode mentions eating disorders.About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that

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00:34:51

S2E16 Talk Dirty To Me

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/05/15

In this episode, Jamie and Miel share their experiences with dirty talk and their thoughts on how to get past the awkward stage where we don’t know what to say for fear of being cringey, offensive or downright triggering. About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a

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00:35:28

S2E15 Keep A Lid On It!

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2026/05/08

In this episode, Miel and Jamie delve into the intricacies of public exhibitions of kink and D/s dynamics. What is appropriate in public and what constitutes a violation of consent for those who bear witness.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political

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00:43:02

S2E14 Raevolution (Part 2)

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2026/05/01

In this episode, Jamie and Miel continue their chat with Rae Szereszewski (Share with Rae, Wife Bae Rae, Raezor). In Part Two, they discuss boundaries and triggers in ENM partner dynamics, a radical solution to the male loneliness epidemic, and healing trauma through kink https://www.sharewithrae.com/kinkandtraumaAbout MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in

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00:36:12

S2E13 Raevolution (Part 1)

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2026/04/24

In this episode, Jamie and Miel are taking their show on the road and welcoming someone new into their hotel room bed. Rae Szereszewski (Share with Rae, Wife Bae Rae, Raezor) is a certified sexual health educator and relationship coach with a background in latex fetish wear design. In Part One of their chat, they learn about Rae’s history with the kink community and navigating ENM dynamics.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel

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00:47:15

S2E12 Dominant Hands

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/04/17

In this episode, Miel and Jamie dominate the conversation, converse about dominance and ask themselves: What are the main types of dominants? What makes a good dom/domme? What green flags should you look out for when vetting a dom/domme? What questions should you ask them? About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has

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00:25:57

S2E11 Manifesting (Part 2)

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2026/04/10

In Manifesting, Part Two, Miel and Jamie go deeper on the steps required to bring dreams and ideas into reality.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human

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00:29:23

S2E10 Manifesting (Part 1)

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2026/04/03

Jamie and Miel have manifested another wonderful two-part episode. In Part One, they open up about what manifesting means to them and share examples of how to put it into practice in kink and in the real world.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political

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00:49:13

S2E9 Maddy In The Middle

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/03/27

In this episode, our very first guest jumps into bed with Jamie and Miel. Maddy wears many tantalizing hats, from sex educator (@sexedwithmadds) to sex shop owner (@wickedwandas) and event manager (@events.houseofkink & @climax.conference). She talks about being raised by a domme and sex shop owner, finding her own space in the kink community and shares some insights on the culture and business of pleasure.About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a

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00:29:58

S2E8 Q&A Time With Miel & Jamie (Part 2)

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2026/03/20

In this episode, Miel and Jamie answer more questions from listeners. How did they meet their partners? How do they feel about how kink and BDSM are portrayed in the media? What spicy books do they recommend?…and more! About JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and

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00:23:55

S2E7 Q&A Time With Miel & Jamie (Part 1)

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2026/03/13

In this episode, Miel and Jamie answer questions from listeners. What have they learned from their journey through kink? What unusual toy/implement do they recommend? What safe word should people use, other than “red”? …and more! Continued next time in Part 2. Kink Playlists:Beat The Ones You Lovex Femme Fatale xAbout JamieAs a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of

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00:27:15

S2E6 Sex & Kink

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/03/06

In this episode, Miel and Jamie chat about kink without sex, sex without kink, kinky sex and sexy kinks. Choose your own adventure and join us as we venture to disambiguate and validate the realm of possibilities. About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply

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00:38:05

S2E5 Shame! Who do you think you are?

Probing In The Sheets ·

2026/02/27

This episode is all about shame. Jamie and Miel talk about coming out as kinky, vulnerability and openness about our needs and desires, working through internal shame about our kinks, attractions and preferences, social pressure, critics and outside opinions. Who do we think we are?About MielMiel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To

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