Things I meant to say naked

In today's episode, we go into the inglorious history of the glory hole, its queer cultural significance, and what it reveals about ourselves — changing what we mean by 'vulnerable'. for updates, follow me on instagram and tiktok: @thingsimeanttosaynaked Or learn about figs, the therapist and her services go to figstherapy.com citation and things I read in preparation for today's episode: Ashford, C., & Longstaff, G. (2021). (Re) regulating gay sex in viral times: COVID-19 and...

Maybe you love horror—or maybe you’ve even AI’d yourself into your favorite final girl. Or… you’ve got a thing for masked men. In this episode, Figs dives into the rising interest in predator/prey play and mask play (a.k.a. the “Ghostface kink”). Play hide and seek with figs as she tries to understand: why the chase can feel hot, how fear flips into desire, and what consent, context, and safety look like when you want to be caught. Citation/references and other things I read for today’s epi...

The dick pic. Or should I call it: genital gerrymandering? Today's episode focuses on just how common are dick pics? Why our penis princes send them? And what to consider before concocking a photo creation. Citation and things I read for this episode: Anderson, K. J. (2010). Benign bigotry: The psychology of subtle prejudice. Cambridge University Press. Beres, M. A., Herold, E., & Maitland, S. B. (2004). Sexual consent behaviors in same-sex relationships. Archives of sexual behavior, 33...

Just because we are healing doesn't mean life catches up with us. Today, we will talk about how you can be in therapy, journaling, and setting boundaries… and still repeating toxic patterns. You’ll get: red flags to watch in yourself, antidotes, and maybe learn how to call in softness to yourself and your relationships. Things I’ve read and citations: Gottman, J., & Schwartz Gottman, J. (2016). Level 1 clinical training: Gottman method couples therapy. The Gottman Institute. Hamme...