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We"re Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums

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68:08

I Hooked Up With Alayna Joy (Basically) | WHGS Ep. 309

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2026/02/02

This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years ago, compulsory heterosexuality, discovering bisexuality on YouTube, and melatonin. Enjoy!FOLLOW

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65:23

Sarah Keyworth Enrolled in a Dominatrix School | WHGS...

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2026/01/26

This episode is trying new things, listener! Sarah Keyworth (they/them) is an award-winning stand up comedian & podcaster that’s been taking the UK by storm, but today they're in the apartment from across the pond to teach us naughty students a lesson! We discuss your friends taking dominatrix lessons in their 30s, coping with bad times, biking, gaming, and how 3D printing is a massive turn off. Ashley beefs with a homophobic troll while gaming. Bre can’t pee. FOLLOW SARAH KEYWORTH: See them

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67:38

Carson Olshansky A/B Tested The Best Finger For...

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2026/01/19

This episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, and having LEGITIMATE trauma from Jimmy Buffet’s “Margaritaville.” Ashley gets boob-honked HARD. Lizzy’s

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65:59

Vico Ortiz: Our FIRST Drag King! | WHGS Ep. 306

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2026/01/12

This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss polyamory, relationship anarchy, decolonizing your life, tricking straights into reading queer smut, and

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62:58

Yvette Segan is Definitely Getting Cancelled From...

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2026/01/05

This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love that you’re writing poetry (gay), dating vs. self worth, and making dated assumptions about queers that

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69:27

WHGS Holiday BONUS — Best of YHGS (Reacting to YOUR...

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2025/12/29

Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get ready for some of YOUR most hilarious moments!Want even more bonus? SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Patreon:

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62:23

When Brandon Rogers Bangs, A Family Falls Apart |...

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2025/12/22

This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking in, acting, representation, the depth & beauty of queer characters, and interior design. Ashley almost

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65:08

I Just Flirt with Catherine McCafferty (of Pretty...

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2025/12/15

This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host Breanne Williamson joins us from the great North! We discuss crying because of a bad hookup, your friends stealing your bed, sexting, how to flirt with gorgeous gay women, and wanting nothing more than to be so good in bed that you ruin lives. Ashley

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72:13

Freddie Shanel Gives The Long-Time Virgin Perspective...

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2025/12/08

This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and how Freddie’s girlfriend has been a WHGS fan since DAY ONE! Ashley bangs a pure lesbian. Lizzy doesn’t

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67:24

Planning My Marriage to My GF w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS...

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2025/12/01

This episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit in discussions about relationship mementos, intimacy kink, shadow work, boob reductions, and the

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69:58

Chloe Moriondo: Making Music for ENBYs & The Sims |...

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2025/11/24

This episode is in Simlish, listener! Chloe Moriondo is an incredible singer-songwriter with over 1M monthly listeners, collabs with queer legends, and even music in THE SIMS, but today she’s in the apartment to play her music in your boomBOX (if you catch my drift). In addition, Kylie Vincent is joining us on a quick trip back from LA! We discuss song-writing, making music for The Sims, the internet, coming out as queer when young, and playing with ALL the pronouns in your gender presentation

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69:45

Gabe Dunn Spills Tea on YouTube’s Most ICONIC Sapphic...

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2025/11/17

This episode is queer history, listener! Gabe Dunn is an iconic writer, podcaster, and filmmaker that has pioneered queer content since the days of Buzzfeed Video, but today he’s in the apartment to break down the most iconic lesbian hookup in internet history! We discuss Gabe’s fabled hookup with Stevie Boebi and Anna Akana many years ago, activism in the modern age, how to fight back against an administration hostile to queer people, and the various problems within the queer community that are

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67:49

Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate...

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2025/11/10

This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet. Follow Dan on IG, Twitter/X, &

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68:42

Claire Sundbye Gets Tortured By Conversion Therapy...

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2025/11/03

This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it all, and growing up queer surrounded by the notoriously hateful Westboro Baptist Church. Also we talk

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64:40

The Truth About Trans Athletes In Sports w/ Harrison...

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2025/10/27

This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of regulations around transgender players, and bizarre gay sex scandals in Boise. Ashley transitions into

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67:07

Gianmarco Soresi Prefers to Flirt With Men Over His...

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2025/10/20

This episode is DEEP and PHILOSOPHICAL, listener! Gianmarco Soresi is a wholly unique stand-up comedian, podcaster, and writer with a new special, “Thief of Joy” out RIGHT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment to out HIMSELF! We discuss visiting Fire Island with your girlfriend in order to flirt with men, straight vs. gay sexual dynamics, Taylor Swift, and money’s effects on the creation of art. Ashley sleeps with a witch. Lizzy ponders language and comedy.Watch his new special, “Thief of Joy,”

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66:08

Leandra Earl (The Beaches) Might Be Bangin’ Her...

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2025/10/13

This episode is rock n’ roll CHAOS, listener! Leandra Earl is the stunning guitarist for The Beaches, one of the hottest rock bands working, but today she’s in the apartment to become the band’s LOVER?! We discuss fighting band-mate relationship allegations, coming out later in life, masc fashion tips, threesomes with friends, and much much more. Yeah, there’s also some tips about how to save your cat. And yeah, there’s a Trump-off too. Things really break format this time, listeners.See The

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61:48

Lauren Chan: The 1st Lesbian on Sports Illustrated &...

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2025/10/06

This episode is RAUNCHY, listener! Lauren Chan is an iconic model, writer, entrepreneur, and the first ever lesbian to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, but today she’s in the apartment to show off what’s *underneath*, listener! We discuss compulsive heterosexuality, blowing up your marriage to be lesbian, couch sex, and findom. Ashley bangs a hippie. Ali tries to recreate a movie sex scene. Also, we unveil the first WHGS BABE OF THE WEEK!!! Follow Lauren on IG and Tik

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63:49

Emma Willmann: Catching Straights Trying to Cheat...

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2025/09/08

Kylie’s old IG account got cancelled, so get her new account to 10K: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/. This episode is JEALOUS and HILARIOUS, listener! Fan-favorite Emma Willmann is a side-splitting stand up comedian and actor that’s RETURNING to the podcast once again to get down and dirty, but this time she’s airing out some straights trying to steal her girl! In addition, we have beloved co-host Kylie Vincent BACK from California for a slate of episodes! We discuss getting insanely

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68:23

How to Start Dating Your Best Friend w/ Kimia...

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2025/09/01

This episode answers an age-old queer question, listener! Kimia Behpoornia is a comedian, actor, and improv MASTER that has been cracking you up on hit shows like Dropout and Abbott Elementary, but today she’s in the apartment to take a crack at the classic sapphic conundrum: what do you do when your in love with your BFF?! We discuss courting, dating, and eventually marrying your childhood best friend; the painful process of coming out; the flexibility of the human mind; and how the straights are

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