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PODCAST

Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.comNEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY PATREON EPISODE EVERY MONDAYFollow us Not As We Planned

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42:42

Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast

Not As We Planned ·

2026/02/19

We’ve had some shocking updates from our listeners. In one case, an affair turned out not to be just one, but two. Another story involved a man desperately trying to hide his whereabouts during a FaceTime call. One mum was excited for her family holiday, only to discover her partner had already been frolicking in the sea with another woman. Another man had an affair with someone 13 years younger and, as if that wasn’t enough, she later found out he had been visiting prostitutes… more than 40 in just

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41:47

You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We...

Not As We Planned ·

2026/02/12

Tash gives us an update on finally going no contact but what occurred beforehand, we share some dating stories just in time for valentines day… the man who wanted to drive into a brick wall, playing hide and seek when the date isn’t going well, being presented with a penis in the car, wanting to leave your marriage but guilt is stopping you and when you get caught in the lie! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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49:16

The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We...

Not As We Planned ·

2026/02/05

When you realise you’re carrying your whole relationship, when your partner leaves you for someone else, when your baby daddy is mia for a year and then you find out the most shocking news as to why, and stopping the cohabiting with your ex! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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48:43

Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast

Not As We Planned ·

2026/01/29

Tash shares the sad update that her and her boyfriend have broken up. When the man you’re with punishes you for keeping your baby, a random Facebook message that brings you the truth about your partner and the worst pocket dial confession Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:03:52

Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About...

Not As We Planned ·

2026/01/22

We unpack how she found out and how she felt with it only happening 2 weeks ago! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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44:47

I've Been Sleeping With My Boss... Who's Married

Not As We Planned ·

2026/01/15

This week, we hear a confession from someone sleeping with her married boss, a long-term boyfriend exposed on an Are We Dating the Same Guy page and our advice as to whether we think a listener's boyfriend might be cheating on her. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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58:48

Shelley J Whitehead: How to Heal Your Heartbreak, Set...

Not As We Planned ·

2026/01/08

Divorce week has hit us, and this episode is not one you will want to miss if you’re struggling with healing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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48:36

Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast

Not As We Planned ·

2025/12/18

We speak about the struggles we can face over xmas, being newly single or not having your children, when staying for the kids is not an option, an email that sets us off emotionally with a lovely thank you, and we hear from a male listener whose repeatedly being cheated on…. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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49:07

The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride |...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/12/11

Trigger warning: Domestic AbuseWhen your ex partner is using drugs and tries it on with your sister, a very abusive relationship that’s hard to get out of when you’re in it, and when your perfect life falls apart when he decides he wants to leave out of nowhere! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:12:43

Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/12/04

Jess shares the reasons behind the breakdown of her marriage, behind the camera of OnlyFans and where she sees her life moving forward Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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47:44

The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/11/27

We unpack the lies we’ve told ourselves to stay in an unhappy relationship, when your husband blames your appearance for the reason he left and when all the lies get uncovered from the dreaded phone!!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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41:31

The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/11/20

When your ex gives you an unintentional strip tease, the Christmas party affair that eventually comes out, when you’re chasing closure from the wrong person and questioning if you gave up too soon on your marriage due to motherhood. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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51:21

The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast

Not As We Planned ·

2025/11/13

We hear about the constant betrayal throughout a marriage with some brutal advice given, a shocking story which left someone homeless, the reality of ignoring every red flag and the when love turns into survival Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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50:44

When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! |...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/11/06

We give our brutal opinion on what we believe is bare minimum rather than princess treatment, when the guy you’re dating even lied about his name and figuring out whether a second chance could work. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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43:44

The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast

Not As We Planned ·

2025/10/30

We hear from a broken listener who we give some much needed advice to, when the trust is broken and if you can really move forward from the deceit, and we hear from an ‘imposter’ who shares a different story!Use code CARLY20 for 20% off anything site wide @ruci_uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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1:10:33

Jessica May: the untold events of her husbands affair...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/10/22

For the first time ever, Jessica reveals the detailed truths about her partner's affair, the way she found out, and what she did afterwards!!! Not one to miss! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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39:01

It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/10/15

We actually beg a listener to take our advice, or she will regret it, the lying boyfriend who made out he ended it to do her a favour, the shocking 9-year affair and watching history repeat itself! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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55:58

Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/10/08

A very eye-opening episode which will give you an insightful understanding into the coparenting world, how to manage the legal battle with your children’s parent and growing through the trauma. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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44:41

Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/10/01

We share the most embarrassing moments when you text the wrong person, Tash shares a mortifying experience, finding out you're the home wrecker only after the relationship ends and when your husband leaves you for a man Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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40:56

I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want...

Not As We Planned ·

2025/09/24

We get an update on Carly's dating drama after being ghosted, the most graphic sexual encounter by a male listener, the 5ft7 liar, and dating a criminal! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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