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Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

Kim & Roberto @ Phoenix Rising Retreats

For couples who crave more connection, passion, and truth - Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples helps you reignite the flame that date nights can’t. Hosted by intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, and coach Kimberly Phoenix (formerly Coffin) and her partner Roberto, a men"s coach and sacred partnership facilitator, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern

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00:03:19

Our Wedding, Part 3: Why We Still Fight & How We Find...

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2026/09/30

Yes, we're relationship and intimacy coaches. Yes, we just got married. And yes, we still fight.In Part 3 of our wedding series, we're taking you behind the beautiful ceremony and celebration to talk about the relationship we were actually celebrating that weekend.Because that relationship wasn't created on our wedding day. It was built through the beautiful moments and the messy ones. The triggers, misunderstandings, hurt feelings, uncomfortable conversations, repairs, and all the times we've

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00:55:43

Inside Our Tantric Wedding: Love, Ritual, and Doing...

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2026/09/23

What does it really mean to consciously choose each other, not just on your wedding day, but throughout your relationship?In Part 2 of our Tantric wedding story, we take you deeper inside the rituals, emotions, laughter, tears, and unexpected moments that made the weekend so meaningful to us.But this episode is about much more than our wedding. We explore what it means to be truly witnessed in your relationship, the power of ritual and presence, becoming unapologetically yourself, and why getting

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00:50:10

Inside Our Tantric Wedding: Love, Ritual, and Doing...

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2026/09/16

What happens when you stop asking what marriage is supposed to look like and start asking what you actually want it to feel like?A few weeks ago, we got married at our home and private lakeside sanctuary, Phoenix Rising Retreats. But this wasn't a traditional wedding. We created a deeply personal weaving of vows rooted in Tantra, ritual, nature, community, and consciously choosing one another.In Part 1, we're taking you inside the experience, from elemental altars and fire rituals to the traditions

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00:47:43

What Nobody Tells You About Sex After 50

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2026/09/09

What if your best sex isn’t behind you, but still ahead of you?In this episode, Kimberly and Roberto challenge the idea that sex inevitably declines with age and share how their own experiences of intimacy have transformed at 50. They get candid about menopause, sexual and body shame, performance, pleasure, past experiences, and the conditioning that can keep us disconnected from our bodies and each other.They explore why great sex has far less to do with technique and much more to do with slowing

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00:31:30

Why Date Nights Aren't Fixing Your Relationship

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2026/09/02

One of the most common pieces of relationship advice is, “You just need more date nights.”But what if you’re already spending plenty of time together and still feel disconnected? Dinner, vacations, concerts, movies, and weekends away can all be fun, but simply being in the same place doesn’t automatically create connection. In this episode, Kimberly and Roberto explore the difference between spending time together and actually connecting, why date nights can sometimes become a Band-Aid for deeper

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00:37:19

Why Midlife Is So Hard On Relationships

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2026/08/26

Midlife can be one of the biggest relationship stress tests couples will ever face.Your body changes. Your children grow up. Parents age. Careers shift. Health and retirement become more important. And somewhere along the way, you may realize you’ve spent years surviving, achieving, and taking care of everyone else without truly connecting with yourself or your partner. In this episode, we get personal about their own midlife journeys and explore why this season can bring old wounds, burnout,

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00:49:54

The Real Reason You're Not Having Sex Anymore

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2026/08/19

When sex starts disappearing from a relationship, most couples assume sex is the problem.But what if the lack of sex is actually the messenger? Stress, resentment, pressure, shame, emotional disconnection, and feeling unseen or unheard can all show up in the bedroom. And simply trying to have more sex doesn’t address what’s happening underneath. In this episode, Kimberly and Roberto explore why desire fades, what gets in the way of real intimacy, and how slowing down, creating emotional safety, and

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01:09:21

Thinking About a Couples Retreat?

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2026/08/12

Have you ever been curious about a couples retreat but wondered what actually happens once you get there?Are we going to have to share everything in front of strangers? Do we have to get naked? Is there s*x happening in the group room? What if we’ve never done Tantra before? What if our relationship isn’t actually that bad? And what if one of us is way more interested than the other? These are some of the real questions couples ask us before booking, so in this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex &

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00:30:29

Can You Fall Back in Love With Your Partner

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2026/08/05

“I still care about my partner… but I don’t know if I’m in love anymore.”It’s a question many couples quietly carry. Not because the relationship is over… but because something feels different. Heavier. More distant. Less connected. So the question becomes: Can we actually get back to where we were? In This Episode, We Cover: why love doesn’t just disappear… it gets neglected what really causes couples to feel “out of love” the importance of both partners being fully committed why love

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00:35:56

How to Escape Roommate Mode and Feel Like Lovers Again

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2026/07/29

“We feel more like roommates than partners.”It’s one of the most common things couples say… Not because they’re unhappy. Not because they’re fighting. But because they’re disconnected. Living side by side. Managing life. Getting through the week. Hoping connection will somehow come back on its own. But it rarely does. In This Episode, We Cover: how couples gradually drift into roommate mode why proximity does not equal intimacy the role of stress, responsibilities, and distractions in

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01:22:15

The 15 Ways We Secretly Sabotage Our Own Relationships

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2026/07/22

Why do relationships break down… even when there’s still love?It’s usually not one big moment. It’s the small, repeated patterns… the ones we don’t even realize we’re doing. In this episode, we unpack the 15 most common ways couples secretly sabotage their relationships… not because they don’t care, but because they’re trying to protect themselves. And often, those protection patterns create the very disconnection we’re trying to avoid. In This Episode, We Cover: the 15 most common subconscious

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00:59:16

Why Women Stop Wanting Sex In Long-Term Relationships

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2026/07/15

Why does desire fade in long-term relationships? And why does it feel so confusing, painful, and personal when it does? In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most misunderstood dynamics in relationships… when a woman stops wanting sex. Because it’s rarely about attraction. It’s about what’s happening underneath. In This Episode, We Cover: why female desire is deeply connected to emotional safety and the nervous system how stress, overwhelm, and over-functioning impact libido the concept

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00:52:30

Why Men Shut Down…And What Women Often Misunderstand...

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2026/07/08

Why do men shut down in relationships? And why does it feel so personal when they do? In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and misunderstood) dynamics in relationships… the shutdown. Because when one partner is trying to connect, and the other pulls away, it can quickly turn into a painful cycle of pursuit and withdrawal. But what’s really happening underneath might not be what you think. In This Episode, We Cover: why men shut down during conflict what’s happening in the

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00:45:00

How to Feel Wanted Again in Your Relationship

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2026/07/01

What does it really mean to feel wanted in a relationship? For many couples, this is where disconnection quietly begins. You can be spending every day together… living life side by side… and still feel unseen, undesired, or emotionally distant. In this episode, we’re opening up an honest conversation about what it actually takes to feel wanted again… and why so many couples miss each other in this area. Because it’s not just about sex. It’s about feeling chosen, valued, appreciated, and

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00:33:42

How Couples Slowly Drift Apart Without Realizing It

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2026/06/24

Most couples don't wake up one morning and decide to disconnect. There isn't usually a huge betrayal. No dramatic ending. No single moment where everything falls apart. Instead, it happens quietly. Through busy schedules. Work. Parenting. Phones. Responsibilities. Stress. Life simply takes over. And little by little, connection gets pushed to the bottom of the list until one day couples find themselves saying: "We love each other… but we don't really feel connected anymore." In this episode of

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00:50:59

Why You Keep Feeling Rejected in the Bedroom (And How...

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2026/06/17

Feeling rejected in the bedroom hurts.Whether you're the one initiating or the one saying no… it can quickly become one of the most painful dynamics in a relationship. The person reaching for connection may be wondering: "Do they even want me anymore?""What's wrong with me?""Am I not attractive enough?" Meanwhile, the person saying no may be thinking: "I'm exhausted.""I don't feel connected.""I'm feeling pressured.""I don't even know what I need right now." In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex

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00:43:48

From Pressure to Pleasure - Rewriting Your Sexual...

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2026/06/10

For many couples, sex becomes loaded.Pressure. Expectation. Avoidance. Performance. Resentment. And once that dynamic sets in, even love can start to feel tense. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore how sexual dynamics become shaped by pursuer-withdrawer patterns, obligation, performance anxiety, shame, and unspoken needs… and what it actually takes to move back toward pleasure, connection, and erotic aliveness. They share their own experiences,

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00:55:03

Why Emotional Intimacy Alone Won’t Sustain Passion

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2026/06/03

You love each other.You communicate. You trust each other. You’re best friends. So why does the spark feel different? Why can a relationship feel safe, connected, and stable… yet still feel flat, predictable, or disconnected sexually? In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, Kim & Roberto explore one of the biggest misconceptions about long-term relationships: Emotional intimacy is essential… but it’s not enough on its own to sustain passion. They unpack the missing

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00:28:48

Desire Is Built Outside the Bedroom…Not Inside It

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2026/05/27

Most couples think desire starts in the bedroom. That if intimacy feels flat, the fix must be: A date night. A new toy. A different position. A quick spark strategy. But here’s the truth… By the time you get to the bedroom, desire has already been built… or eroded. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack what actually creates lasting desire in long-term relationships… and why emotional connection, safety, playfulness, and polarity matter far more than

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00:30:41

You’re Not Fighting About the Dishes…Here’s What’s...

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2026/05/20

Most couples think they’re fighting about chores.The dishes. The garbage. Laundry. The forgotten text. The missed appointment. The thing that didn’t get done. But most of the time? That’s not the real fight. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack one of the most common relationship patterns they see… couples arguing about surface-level logistics when the real issue is emotional disconnection, unmet needs, resentment, and feeling unseen. They break

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