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Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST

Steve V. Rodriguez

TAGSPODCAST aka Talk About Gay Sex is a Queer podcast offering advice on sex and relationships plus delivers the latest LGBTQ hot topics on health, politics and entertainment to keep you updated. Shows are dropped bi-weekly on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Created and Hosted by Stevie V featuring Co-hosts Kodi Maurice Doggette, Jeremy Ross Lopez, Lincoln, Teddy Alexis and Amir Yass. Interested in sponsoring or advertising on this podcast? Visit show website: tagspodcast.com

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All Episodes

01:01:41

We’re Open… But What Does That Actually Mean? EP 797

Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST ·

2026/10/01

Why open doesn’t mean “anything goes”The difference between rules, agreements and boundaries Asking permission vs. simply giving your partner a heads-up Whether jealousy automatically means something is wrong Sexual intimacy vs. emotional intimacy When a repeat hookup starts becoming something more Whether “don’t catch feelings” is even a realistic rule What responsibility open couples have to the people they hook up with Steve and Teddy play Ransom’s “Would This Count?”

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00:57:09

Are We De-Gaying Ourselves? From Naked Men on the...

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2026/09/30

What does it actually mean to “de-gay” your home?Would you remove homoerotic artwork when family comes over? Is nude male art treated differently than female nudity? Where is the line between art, erotica and porn? Being considerate of guests vs. censoring yourself Kodi’s first impressions of Folsom Street Fair What surprised him most about leather and BDSM culture Kink as sexual expression, identity and community Why queer spaces still matter Have gay men become more concerned

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01:00:42

Season’s Breedings: Brad Ouellette Turns Queer Desire...

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2026/09/24

We get into:How Brad’s background and personal journey shaped him as an artist The origins of Season’s Breedings and that unforgettable name Turning homoerotic imagery into playful queer pop art Where sexuality, humor and fantasy intersect in his work Celebrating the male body without apologizing for desire Creating art specifically through a queer gaze How Brad develops his characters, concepts and imagery The response to his work from the queer community Why provocative queer

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00:58:52

Leather, Rain and the Statue of Liberty: Why Showing...

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2026/09/22

In this episode:Why imperfect plans can sometimes create the most memorable experiences The fellow partygoer who declared, “We’re the real New Yorkers—we showed up” Leather, exposed ass cheeks and dancing through uncertain weather The surprisingly meaningful conversations Steve had with gay men throughout the boat Why even the busiest among us still need time for pleasure, release and community How smaller crowds can sometimes make queer nightlife feel more intimate Steve and Diego’s

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00:58:52

Hank Social: Kink, Community and Connection Beyond...

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2026/09/17

Also discussed:Why Hank Social was created and what was missing from existing gay apps The difference between a social community and a traditional hookup platform Creating spaces for leather, pups, rubber, gear and other fetish communities Balancing sexual expression with friendship, education and genuine connection Privacy and discretion for men who may not be publicly open about their interests Helping newcomers explore kink without judgment or intimidation The importance of

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00:52:11

Too Old for the Sauna? Gay Ageism, Sexual Energy &...

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2026/09/15

In this episode: The controversial “no men over 55” entrance policy Why describing older gay men as “more relaxed” feels so condescending Ageism and the obsession with youth in gay male spaces Why energy, confidence and sexual vitality do not have an expiration date The difference between creating a specific atmosphere and outright discrimination The sauna’s avatar game and its attempt to blend technology, fantasy and cruising Whether digital interaction enhances real-life

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00:58:56

Drunk, Glamorous and Full of Stories with Maria Van...

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2026/09/10

In this episode:Maria Van Cartier brings the glamour, humor, and unforgettable stories. The importance of documenting and preserving queer history. How New York City nightlife creates community and chosen family. Making space for the stories of Black and Brown queer people. What it means to live—and age—openly and unapologetically. Maria shares the inspiration behind her podcast, Remember the Time. Steve V discusses his current Substack post, “When Gay Men Started Looking at Me.”

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01:00:09

Drawn to Desire: Inside the Erotic Art of Miguel...

Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST ·

2026/09/03

In this episode:• When Miguel first discovered his artistic voice • Celebrating the sensuality and diversity of men’s bodies • The line between erotic art, pornography, and fine art • Creating intimacy and trust between an artist and his subject • Body confidence, aging, vulnerability, and being truly seen • The importance of preserving queer sexuality through art • What Miguel saw—and captured—when he drew Steve It’s a revealing conversation about art, desire, masculinity, body image, and the

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00:56:59

Where Have All the Tops Gone? The Truth About Gay...

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2026/09/01

In this episode:• Is the “top shortage” supported by real data? • Why are younger gay men more likely to identify as bottoms? • Do some men grow into topping as they gain confidence and experience? • Are there no tops—or simply no tops who meet every requirement? • The erection and performance pressure placed on tops • Why topping a partner can feel easier than topping a stranger • Porn, hookup apps, masculinity, and unrealistic sexual expectations • Can a soft top still deliver a great sexual

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01:00:17

Sorry, Just Seeing This: Why Gay Men Ghost on Grindr...

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2026/08/27

In this episode:More hilariously vague Grindr phrases translated Why “not on here much” rarely means what it says The difference between losing interest and genuinely ghosting someone Why men initiate conversations they have no intention of continuing Whether apps provide validation even when no hookup happens The endless cycle of taps, photos, attention and disappearing Why possibility can feel more exciting than actually meeting App fatigue and the exhaustion of repetitive

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00:56:50

What Grindr Bios Really Mean: Sex, Vibes and the...

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2026/08/25

In this episode:What common Grindr bios are really trying to say “Just vibes” and the language of emotional ambiguity Why sincerity on dating apps can feel suspicious The appeal—and limitations—of a Gay No Sex Weekend - actual group in the UK.... Whether sex and emotional connection actually conflict The difference between removing sex and removing pressure How gay men have historically built community in sexual spaces Why clearer communication may matter more than stricter

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01:00:23

Why Are We Still So Horny for Heated Rivalry? EP 786

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2026/08/20

Why Heated Rivalry delivers more than just steamy sexThe irresistible fantasy of being sexually and emotionally obsessed with someone Why yearning may be hotter than hooking up Whether dating apps have made intense romance feel even more desirable Women enjoying gay male romance versus men consuming lesbian fantasy The difference between admiration, voyeurism and fetishization Fan art, Patreon, musicals and the expanding Heated Rivalry universe Whether pop culture has been

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00:56:09

Have We All Benched Someone? Dating, Backup Boys and...

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2026/08/18

When does being genuinely unsure about someone become stringing him along?Are we avoiding rejection—or simply avoiding an uncomfortable conversation? Why do we sometimes want someone more the minute they start pulling away? Can you have a roster of casual guys without actually benching anybody? Have dating apps conditioned us to constantly look for the next best thing? Is being slowly benched actually worse than being ghosted? And when you finally know someone isn't right for you, do

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01:00:20

Gay Trauma, Gay Healing: Dan Werner on Breaking the...

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2026/08/13

In this episode:What do we actually mean when we talk about gay trauma? The lasting effects of growing up feeling different or unsafe Shame, rejection, bullying, and the closet How trauma can influence sex, dating, intimacy, and attachment Seeking validation through sex, attention, and relationships Recognizing survival behaviors we've carried into adulthood Why healing doesn't mean becoming less sexual or less adventurous Creating healthier connections without judging the choices

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01:09:41

The Last Days of Hot Gay Summer EP 783

Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST ·

2026/08/11

In this episode:• Leo energy, Lincoln and loving the spotlight • Why summer feels so damn sexual • Sex vs. validation: do we just want to be wanted? • Thirst traps, flirting and the erotic power of attention • Hot Gay Summer expectations—and sexual FOMO • Feeling sexy as we get older • Hookups, connection and end-of-summer reflection • The ultimate question: when nobody is looking, do you still feel desirable? Hot Topic: Bears in Ptown are on Ozempic and they don't know how they feel about

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01:01:21

Native, Gay and Unfiltered: Jon Reclaims His Story EP...

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2026/08/06

In this episode: • Jon’s life since his first appearance on TAGS • Why he created the new podcast Why Not?! • His Native American background and family history • The intersection of Native and gay identity • Cultural community, chosen family and belonging • Living openly as a gay man in Oklahoma • Navigating HIV, misdiagnosis and healthcare • Finding queer-affirming medical and emotional support • Turning difficult experiences into purpose • Reclaiming your story through podcasting Hot Topic: Perez

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01:03:31

We Need Our Sexual Mistakes: Gregg Araki, Gen Z and;...

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2026/08/04

Why bad sex and bad relationships can still teach us somethingThe difference between a regrettable experience and a harmful one Whether Gen Z is sexually repressed or simply more cautious How fear of judgment is changing flirting, dating and intimacy The mistakes gay men commonly make during breakups Why heartbreak can be valuable information What today’s queer cinema may have lost The freedom and danger of queer life in the 1990s America’s ongoing fear of sexual pleasure Why

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00:56:29

Level Up Your Love Life: Are Your Dating Skills Ready...

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2026/07/30

In this Episode:Why wanting a relationship does not necessarily mean you are ready for one The dating skills gay men are rarely taught Chemistry versus genuine romantic compatibility How anxiety, self-sabotage, and old relationship patterns affect dating Whether attraction can develop over time Becoming your own matchmaker Recognizing when someone is truly a good match Dating with clearer intentions without making it feel like a job interview Why love may be a skill we can

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00:50:27

Feral Summer: Naked Beaches, Cruising & Gay Men Gone...

Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST ·

2026/07/28

In this episode:Why summer makes gay men feel more sexual and adventurous Naked beaches and the freedom of being seen Cruising in Central Park’s Ramble Curiosity about sex parties and group experiences Shirtless confidence versus body anxiety Working out for yourself versus working out for validation Queer spaces, community, and spontaneous connection Knowing your boundaries while still allowing yourself to explore Whether our “feral” selves might actually be our most honest

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01:02:01

Are You Ready for Love—or Just Repeating the Pattern?...

Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST ·

2026/07/23

In this episode:• Why emotionally unavailable men can feel so irresistible • The difference between compassion and making excuses • Dating while you are still healing • When someone’s trauma becomes harmful to the relationship • Why recognizing a red flag does not always stop us from pursuing it • The subconscious beliefs that influence attraction • How RTT and hypnotherapy may help interrupt recurring patterns • Whether chemistry can sometimes be anxiety in disguise • Learning to choose

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