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Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

I’ve been a private matchmaker to billionaires and some of the most eligible men in the world since 2008 — and men tell me everything. In nearly 20 years behind the scenes I’ve learned what men do right, what women do wrong, and exactly what it takes to attract the right one. This show is where I share all of it. Real coaching sessions. Real questions from real women. The unfiltered truth about men, dating, and how to finally get this right. No fluff. No sugarcoating. Just the matchmaking intel most

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00:33:04

Is He Stringing You Along?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/10/01

In this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, Gina Hendrix takes calls and offers advice to women who are navigating dating and the dating apps.We cover everything from first dates, to saying no and how to spot the good guys from the bad.One caller asks about dating multiple people at once and when it's actually time to stop, another who is hoping to build something long-term, wonders if she's wasting her time with younger men, and a caller processes a pattern of going for

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00:32:53

Men and Money and Dating

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/09/24

If we don’t ask the right questions, we’re never going to get to the truth of any situation.And when it comes to dating, that works in multiple ways. If we’re not curious about someone, we can build an image of them that doesn’t truly reflect who they are, and that is a recipe for disaster.If we’re not brave enough to ask about our red lines, we’re just going to be disappointed further down the line.In this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, matchmaker Gina Hendrix opens with a

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00:33:38

The Bumble Bio Red Flag

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/09/17

We can all put our best foot forward when everything’s going well. But how we react to the small stuff usually tells us a lot more about a person.How you handle a curveball, not a crisis, just the little stuff, a messed-up reservation, a late Uber, a plan that falls apart last minute, can be very telling. Matchmaker Gina Hendrix has seen this play out hundreds of times, and shares two very different reactions to the exact same kind of hiccup. One took it in their stride, the other cancelled a

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00:31:20

Why the Early Days Mean Nothing

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/09/10

Sometimes life is hard, sometimes bad things happen to good people - but the answer is never to hide away.This episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell A Matchmaker is about dusting yourself off and going again. Whether that’s in the dating world or in life more generally.Matchmaker Gina Hendrix shares two very personal stories from her early years in LA, that almost derailed her, but instead helped shape the woman she would become.And the link to dating is clear, yes you might have one bad experience

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00:32:13

What Men Really Want, with David Matthews

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/09/03

Our special guest on Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker is David Matthews, author of “Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think.”David is a men’s dating coach and he’s here for a candid conversation about how men actually think, communicate, and approach dating. He and matchmaker Gina Hendrix cover why the idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth, why directness gets better results than hints or games, and a surprisingly practical trick for

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00:33:16

Why You Keep Pushing Great Men Away

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/08/27

People rarely sabotage promising relationships because of what actually happened, they sabotage them because of the story they told themselves about what happened. In this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, with Gina Hendrix, we’re having a reality check - is the story you’re telling yourself the truth, or one you’ve made up?Gina walks through a recent matchmaking date that went sideways because both people showed up carrying baggage and skepticism instead of just meeting who was in

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00:31:56

What is Sexy?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/08/20

Sometimes a date can take a turn for the worse, and it’s not entirely clear why.In the early stages, it doesn’t matter too much. If you’re not that interested and not 100% invested, just move on - life really is too short.But matchmaker Gina Hendrix says often, when we look back on why things took a turn, we can learn a lot - and more times than not it comes down to one thing: we weren’t curious enough.Not detective-style curiosity, trying to figure out if he's lying or a match on paper, but

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00:32:22

Are Your Friends Keeping You Single?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/08/13

A positive attitude can go a long way, and that is particularly true when it comes to dating.We all have stories to tell of bad dates, being let down by men we had high hopes for, and wading through bad profiles on the dating apps.But getting downbeat about it all isn’t going to help you find love. And a harsh truth is, being around cynical people can rub off on us.Matchmaker Gina Hendrix knows this all too well and how it can lead some women to “go into the cave”. It may seem attractive in the

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00:33:41

The Red Flags You Miss, with Helen Polise aka The...

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/08/06

Whether you’re going on dates, in a relationship, or meeting men on the dating apps, one thing remains constant: you need to be true to yourself.It’s a rule matchmaker Gina Hendrix has lived by for years and one she’s shared with hundreds of women who are navigating the world of dating.By being true to yourself, you are much less likely to overlook the red flags that often show up when dating.This week’s special guest has the same advice about being true to yourself, and some tips on finding your

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00:31:20

How to Get the Answers You Need from Him

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2026/07/30

If you want to find love, you’ve got to jump in with both feet.18 years ago, matchmaker Gina Hendrix was cold-calling billionaires with a shaking hand and a lucky pen. And the mindset shift that took her from those nervous calls to a woman who built a business out of thin air is the same mindset you need if you want to find love.It’s about no longer waiting. Waiting for the right time, putting it off until tomorrow, procrastinating. It’s about taking a leap of faith and putting yourself out there

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00:30:12

Are You Just Dating Him for the Money?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/07/23

If the man you’re dating isn’t showing up with real effort - he’s not the man you should be dating.Low-level messages, failing to book a second date, or not calling when he said he would are all red flags and it’s probably time to look elsewhere.In this live Q&A, Gina Hendrix gives the advice every woman needs to hear based on her many years working as a matchmaker for billionaires.We hear from a caller who wants to know what to do when her playful energy isn’t matched by her date, another who

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00:30:35

How to Spot a Low-Level Loser in 30 Seconds

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/07/17

When you're dating - you need to keep your standards high, and that means we don't have time to waste on low-level losers.But spotting the signs isn't always easy - unless you know what you're looking out for.In this live Q&A, we cover that and all sorts of other dating topics, including one of the biggest mindsets holding many women back in dating - the tendency to make everything about you.Whether it's a delayed text, a shift in energy, or someone changing their mind, matchmaker Gina Hendrix

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00:27:25

Catfished: How to Spot a Romance Scam

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/07/09

Catfished: How to Spot a Romance ScamIt’s the number one scam in the United States and the people doing it are getting more and more sophisticated.Catfishing is more than just an occupational hazard for women looking for love - but knowledge is power and this episode will help you spot the red flags, and could save you a fortune.Matchmaker Gina Hendrix meets David McClellan, aka "the Catfish King," founder of Social Catfish and star of Fox Nation's Scammed & Getting Even, as well

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00:25:43

The Secret to Calling in Better Men

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/06/25

The Secret to Calling in Better MenAfter 18 years as a private matchmaker, here's what I know for certain: the quality of the men in your life is a direct reflection of the boundaries you have — or don't have. And most women have it completely backwards. They set boundaries after something goes wrong. After they feel disrespected. After they're frustrated. But boundaries aren't a reaction. They're a strategy. And when you get them right, everything changes — including the men you

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00:30:44

Make Him Work for It

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/06/19

Make Him Work for ItIf there's one thread running through this episode, it's this: stop doing the work that should be his.After 18 years as a private matchmaker to some of the most eligible men in the world, I've learned exactly how men think, what they value, and what makes them chase a woman versus what makes them coast. And almost every dating problem I see comes back to the same root issue — women doing the emotional, financial, and relational labor that should belong to him. We give

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00:33:56

Should You Lower Your Standards to Find Love?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/06/11

"Should You Lower Your Standards to Find Love?"It's the question nobody wants to ask out loud. But after 18 years as a private matchmaker to some of the most eligible men in the world, I'm going to answer it — and my answer might surprise you.There is so much noise in the dating advice world right now. Burn the haystack. Trust no one. Raise the drawbridge. And I get why it resonates. But all of that advice is doing the opposite of what it promises. It's not protecting you

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00:43:10

John Gray: What Every Woman Has to Know

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/06/04

John Gray: What Every Woman Has to Know About MenHe wrote the book that changed how the world understands relationships — and nearly 30 years later John Gray is still dropping truth bombs that most people aren't ready to hear. In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix sits down with the legendary author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus for a conversation that every woman dating right now absolutely needs to hear.John Gray has spent decades studying the hormonal and biological differences

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00:38:57

Are You Having Too Much Sex?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/05/28

Are You Having Too Much Sex?It sounds like a question nobody would ever complain about — but what happens when one person wants it constantly and the other just wants to go for a hike? In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix tackles one of the most unspoken compatibility issues in dating and relationships — what happens when your sex drives are completely mismatched, and what that actually tells you about whether this relationship has a future.A woman is seeing a man who wants to be intimate three

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00:34:45

Will He Date a Woman Your Age?

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/05/21

Will He Date a Woman Your Age?It's the question every woman over 40 is secretly asking but nobody is saying out loud. Will he swipe right on me? Am I too old for the dating apps? Are the men I want to meet even looking at women my age? In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix gives you the honest, unfiltered answer — and it's not what most people will tell you.Gina has spent 18 years working with some of the most eligible high net worth men in the world. She knows exactly how they think, what

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00:36:11

How to Spot a High-Value Man

Secrets They"ll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix ·

2026/05/14

How to Spot a High-Value ManHow do you actually tell the difference between a man who is genuinely high value and one who just looks the part? Matchmaker Gina Hendrix has spent 18 years watching men operate behind the scenes — and in this episode she breaks down exactly how to spot the difference before you waste another minute of your time on the wrong one.But first — Gina shares one of the most outrageous stories from her early matchmaking career. A man she met at one of her own singles events

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