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GETSOME

Michelle Fischler

GETSOME is a podcast about the sexual stories we carry, hosted by sex therapist Michelle Fischler. Sex can bring up a lot. Desire. Pressure. Pleasure. Shame. And questions you"re not sure you can ask out loud. Each episode is an honest conversation about what we want, what we’ve been taught, and what happens when our bodies don’t follow the script. There’s room for humour, discomfort, and things that don’t have a tidy answer. Underneath it all is an unshaming approach: less judgement, more

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00:43:27

Hot People Get Herpes with Courtney Brame

GETSOME ·

2026/10/02

Hot people get herpes. So why can a diagnosis make you feel like nobody will want you?Courtney Brame remembers worrying that his sex life was over. In this episode, he joins sex therapist Michelle Fischler to talk about what happened after his diagnosis, the support that helped him, and learning to feel desirable again.Courtney is the founder of Something Positive for Positive People, a nonprofit supporting people navigating herpes stigma and helping partners and healthcare providers talk about

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00:45:38

The Sex Question You Swallow in the Waiting Room with...

GETSOME ·

2026/09/25

Take two sex questions and call me in the morning. If only talking to your doctor about sex felt that easy.You rehearsed the question in the waiting room. Then the doctor walked in, and you swallowed it.Maybe it was about STI testing. Pain. Pleasure. A change in your body. Something you worried would sound strange, embarrassing or too personal for a medical appointment.Dr. Sheila Wijayasinghe is an academic family physician, medical educator, Menopause Society Certified Practitioner, longtime health

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00:48:31

Does Your Dick Need Rehab?

GETSOME ·

2026/09/18

You went to the doctor. The bloodwork was fine, the scans were fine, and you were told to live with it. So you assumed the problem must be you. But what if the pain, the softer erections, the coming sooner than you want were never in your head? What if the part of your body nobody named has muscles, nerves, and actual treatment options?Dr. Susie Gronski is a pelvic health physical therapist and AASECT-certified sexuality counsellor and educator who built her practice around the gap nobody else was

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00:32:34

Why Men Choose Porn Over Partnered Sex with Lisa...

GETSOME ·

2026/09/11

You promised yourself you'd stop. You didn't. And then you took that as proof of something about you. But what if the porn and masturbation weren’t the whole story? What if they were the strategy quietly keeping something much scarier in place?A man reaching for porn instead of his partner may have found a version of sex that feels safer from shame.Lisa Etherson, UK-based psychosexual therapist and the originator of Shame Containment Theory, offers another lens: performance anxiety can involve fear

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00:29:44

Why Sexual Shame Needs a Witness with David Bedrick

GETSOME ·

2026/09/04

Shame doesn’t care how much it’s ruining your sex life. It just wants an audience. But instead of hitting up the concession stand, what if you sat in the front row and got curious? You might be surprised at what you learn (and how your body responds afterwards).David Bedrick is the founder of The Unshaming Way and the author of five books. Instead of asking how to move past the shame, he asks what the shame is trying to say. Because you’re not a problem: you’re a person with a story whose symptoms

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00:34:36

The Professional With a Kinky Side

GETSOME ·

2024/05/22

LITTLE MISS BEE IS LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE.By day, she’s a high-powered working professional proudly shattering glass ceilings and climbing the corporate ladder. But off the clock, she’s a kink-positive, active member of the rope bondage community. In the final episode of the 3rd season of the GETSOME Podcast, we discuss personal authority, self-acceptance, and keeping it kinky. Our guest, Little Miss Bee, manages to keep her professional and personal worlds completely separate without losing touch

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00:22:35

The Perks of Being a Bi Guy

GETSOME ·

2024/05/08

Imagine being stuck in the “in betweens” of your sexuality.You’re not “gay enough,” but you’re not “straight enough.” Your sexuality is constantly oversimplified, or oversexualized. You’re stuck wondering… “Am I bisexual enough???”Though that may not be the reality for all bisexual men, it certainly is a struggle that a lot of people face. Our guest on today’s episode, West, is a bisexual man who learned to embrace his sexuality and accept that he is “enough” exactly as he is. In his young

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00:29:50

Sex After Having Kids

GETSOME ·

2024/04/24

As a sex worker, Shannon Ariel, founder of Pink Banana Sparkles, always had a strong relationship with sex & her body.…but after her first child, she felt something shift. With a changing body and changing needs, Shannon had to rebuild her relationship with herself, her sex life, and her career.For many, motherhood takes a toll on their sex lives. Their priorities, bodies, and relationships are drastically different than they were before they had their kids, and getting back to a place of

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00:31:55

Micropenis, Macro Sex Drive

GETSOME ·

2024/04/10

At a young age, Chris was diagnosed with a medical micropenis. For years, he struggled with sex and dating until he discovered two kinks that fueled a macro sex drive – Small Penis Humiliation and Cuckolding. Talking about shame, sexuality, and penis size is particularly challenging for cis men due to toxic masculinity. But Chris’ story isn’t exclusively for people with penises (or people with micropenises, for that matter). Chris’ journey to self-acceptance and sexual pleasure is an incredible

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00:29:11

Seniors Seeking Friends With Benefits

GETSOME ·

2024/03/27

Finding a friend with benefits can be hard at any age. But today’s guest, Cynthia, faced the daunting task of finding a sexual partner at the age of 78 and following the loss of her husband. She knew that she wanted a friend with benefits, and she even had her eye on someone specific. But the ultimate hurdle? Asking him.In this fascinating and refreshingly open conversation we discuss:1. What it looks like to be sexually active in your later years of life2. The stigma of being a senior citizen who

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00:32:49

Alphas Who Love Anal Play

GETSOME ·

2024/03/13

On the surface, Bill is your everyday blue collar man. But a back-breaking injury led him down the unexpected path of sexual enlightenment. Bill takes us along on his journey from discovering Kundalini rising to being catapulted into a world where the lines between pleasure, pain, and awakening are blurred, challenging everything we think we know about male sexuality, pleasure, and the power of self acceptance.Show Notes:Introduction to Bill's Journey [00:00:00]: Bill discusses societal

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00:32:02

Sex & Money: When $$$ Met XXX

GETSOME ·

2024/02/28

Money is a major source of stress for so many people. We’re always thinking about it, talking about it, and worrying about it. But it’s rare that we think about the way that money affects our sexual relationships. Listen in to our conversation with Master Certified Ontological Coach, Tracey Burns, as we navigate through the seldom-discussed dynamic of money and sex. We delve into how money's influence extends far beyond the wallet and into the heart. We illuminate the challenges and opportunities

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00:42:34

The Woman Born Without A Vagina

GETSOME ·

2024/02/14

Ready for an Unforgettable Journey of Strength and Resilience?We’re kicking off season 3 with a conversation with Ally Hensley, a woman who was born with a rare condition called Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser (MRKH) Syndrome, resulting in the absence of a vagina and reproductive organs. Our conversation follows her relationship with her body before and after diagnosis, and talks about her personal healing journey to unlearning the feelings of shame she came to feel surrounding sex and

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00:04:42

How To Send Nudes [Quickie]

GETSOME ·

2023/09/13

In this episode, we delve into the hot topic of sending nude pictures in the digital age. Responding to a listener's question, we unpack the risks involved and explore five key strategies to minimize potential harm: consent, self-awareness, anonymity, trust, and legal considerations. Whether you're contemplating sharing an intimate photo or just seeking insight into this modern phenomenon, this episode aims to equip you with the knowledge to make informed and confident decisions. Tune in!Show

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00:34:29

The Boy in the Tighty Whities

GETSOME ·

2023/09/07

Chances are, if you have a unique sexual turn-on, there are many others with the exact same inclination. So many, in fact, that you might just be able to make a career out of it. That's what Milo Miles did. We met Milo last winter at the Dan Savage Amateur Erotic Film Festival, Humpfest. Milo starred in the documentary film "The Boy with the Tighty Whities." The film was selected from hundreds of submissions and was chosen to be showcased in theaters worldwide. This was the first time he revealed a

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00:05:27

Ending Dates Well [Quickie]

GETSOME ·

2023/08/30

Ever found yourself on a date, debating between leaving on a high or just gritting your teeth to the finish? In this episode, we're uncovering the art of gracefully wrapping up dates, with a spotlight on our comfort and safety. Let's navigate the intricacies of those initial encounters. Eager to dive deep? Let's get rolling!Show Notes [00:00:00] - IntroductionEnding dates and the decision to leave.[00:00:30] - Slowing down the intimacy of a date The importance of not rushing into physical

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00:23:13

Jewish Orthodox Sex

GETSOME ·

2023/08/24

Guess what? Even 'Curb Your Enthusiasm' missed the mark on Orthodox Jewish sex! I've got Shely Esses on the show today—a Sex Therapist from Toronto, Canada. With her expertise in Jewish healing, she's here to bust myths and shine a light on the cultural nuances surrounding intimacy within the Orthodox Jewish community. Let's shtup in!Show Notes[00:00:00] Shely explains Judaism's sex-positive perspective: Emphasis on marital context for sexual activity.[00:00:38] Jewish Myths Debunked: The "sheet

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00:03:53

Sexual Intuition [Quickie]

GETSOME ·

2023/08/16

Today we're diving deep into the nuances of initiation. We'll discuss sexual initiation, its dynamics, and why understanding our preferences is more crucial than we might think. If you've ever felt a little out of sync with your partner or just curious about how to create a bridge to sexual connection, this episode is for you. Let's get started!Show Notes Intro:[00:00:00] Introduction and the importance of understanding sexual initiation preferences.Desire Discrepancy:[00:00:15] The challenge of

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00:32:44

Sex After FGM

GETSOME ·

2023/08/10

In this evocative episode, Toronto-based Rahat Pye, MSW, RSW — an adolescent, individual, family, and couples therapist — unravels the deeply personal story of her mother, a Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) survivor from Bombay, India. Diving deep into the trauma, defiance, and resilience, Rahat sheds light on the stark realities of FGM and its profound effect on her mother's life. As the narrative unfolds, we explore the paradox of a mother who, despite her own harrowing experiences, championed the

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00:58:58

That's Handi

GETSOME ·

2023/08/03

We're excited to share a recording of the Sex in Space podcast interview with Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison, co-founders of Handi. Handi makes sex toys designed by and for disabled people. The mission behind Handi is that everyone should be able to ‘get off’. Listen in to hear about how Handi came to be, the hands on research behind Handi and how the bendable, flexible design of the Bump'n Joystick has revolutionized the accessibility of pleasure for all. Show Notes: [00:00:17] Introducing the

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