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Ready For Love with Hilary Silver

I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does. This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life. As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to

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20:20

#95: Stop Settling in Relationships And Get What You...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/12/19

If your relationship looks good on paper but feels empty, this episode explains why settling in love keeps happening and how it quietly trains you to accept less in relationships.Hilary gets direct about why smart, capable women keep choosing the wrong men and staying in relationships that technically work but emotionally fall flat. This is not a dating pool problem. It is a self-worth and scarcity mindset issue that shows up when fear of being alone feels safer than asking for more. If you have

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40:44

#94: Dating After Loss: How Charlene Found Real Love...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/12/12

Charlene thought she was ready to date after losing her husband and parents, but she struggled to find real love with the men she was dating. Each relationship reflected the same old wounds she carried into her marriage: overgiving, hoping for scraps of connection, and treating attention like approval. Nothing shifts until you’re willing to look at what keeps repeating and ask why it still has a hold on you. That question became her turning point.Inside the Ready for Love program, she rebuilt

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19:05

#93: Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and How to...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/12/05

Feel like a narcissist magnet? If you keep dating narcissists, attracting narcissists, or you keep repeating narcissistic relationship patterns, there’s a reason, and it has everything to do with something no one is telling you. The truth is, narcissistic relationships take hold when you sideline your own needs and shrink your self-worth.Hilary breaks down the traits that make women vulnerable to toxic relationships with narcissistic men: people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, craving attention,

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22:57

Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/11/28

Unrequited love can take down even the most capable, confident women, and Hilary is done watching smart, high-achieving women lose themselves over someone who can’t meet them where they are. This episode is a call back to your power, especially in those moments when your mind is spinning, your heart is hopeful, and the person you want isn’t choosing you back.Hilary dives into the shame, the second-guessing, and the quiet panic that shows up when you start making someone else’s behavior mean

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21:46

The Painful Truth About Why You’re Still Single

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/11/21

Still single and calling your love life “fine”? Please. Hilary isn’t buying it, and neither should you.In this episode, Hilary is getting real about the quiet ache that hides behind independence and success. She’s talking about the kind of loneliness that becomes familiar enough to live with, even when it quietly hurts. Maybe you’ve told yourself the timing isn’t right to start dating or to find romance, or that you’re focused on other things. But what if you’ve just gotten comfortable being

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35:40

How to Stop Sabotaging Your Love Life

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/11/14

Think you’re “too much,” “too independent,” or “too intimidating” for love? You’re not. You’re just done playing small!In this episode, Hilary Silver sits down with Ready for Love grad Kara Judd, a powerhouse executive who finally got honest about what was really holding her back in relationships. Kara opens up about how she stopped blaming her success, her height, and her “strong personality,” and started doing the deeper work, rewriting the stories that kept her settling for less. Now she’s

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14:37

#89: Why He Won’t Commit (And Why You’re Still Waiting)

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/11/07

When a man keeps you half chosen and half confused, the real problem isn’t his hesitation but the part of you willing to wait for it!Ever been strung along by a man who gives just enough to keep you hopeful but never enough to give you certainty? One day he’s all charm and chemistry, the next he’s conveniently unavailable? You start analyzing his behavior like a crime scene. Does he have trauma? Is it timing? Is it me? Hilary calls BS! In this episode, Hilary dismantles the obsession with

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22:50

#88: How Kimberly Found Love After 13 Years of...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/10/31

When you’ve been single for 13 years, “I’m fine” starts sounding a lot like “I’ve given up.”Kimberly was successful on paper, but she was quietly miserable off it. Between perimenopause, work burnout, and pandemic isolation, she’d convinced herself she was too busy (and too jaded) for love. Then she found Ready for Love, and everything shifted. She thought she was signing up to find love. Happily, she found herself in the process. In this episode, Kimberly gets raw about forgiving herself

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17:51

Stop Mothering Your Man

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/10/24

If you’re a woman who can run circles around most humans — yet still finds herself scheduling her partner’s appointments, tracking his moods, or generally keeping his life stitched together — congratulations, you’re unofficially in man-keeping mode. Hilary is calling it out the silent epidemic of high-achieving women accidentally becoming their partner’s project manager instead of their partner. Spoiler: nothing kills attraction faster than turning romance into a daycare.But rather than blaming

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26:15

#86: From Walls Up to Wide Open: Meryl’s Reset on...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/10/17

If you’ve ever rejected a man because his name annoyed you… this episode is for you.Hilary sits down with award-winning interior designer and unapologetic former love-skeptic Meryl Stern, who admits she once dismissed perfectly good men for crimes like “bad vibes” and “unfortunate first names.” (Her words.) But beneath all that discernment? A woman hiding behind a beautifully curated emotional wall. Inside Ready for Love, Meryl didn’t just “work on herself” — she resigned from decades-old

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#85: The Worst Dating Advice for Women...And Yes, I’m...

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2025/10/10

Ever seen those videos promising to “make him obsessed with you in 5 texts” or “7 tricks to make a man worship you like a queen”? Yeah… Hilary’s not having it.This week, she’s calling BS on the toxic, clickbait dating advice flooding YouTube. From “dark psychology” tactics to straight-up patriarchal conditioning, this advice is designed to manipulate women, keep them second-guessing themselves, and—let’s be honest—get them to buy something. Hilary breaks down four reasons why these tactics are

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#84: How Investing in Yourself Can Change Your Love Life

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2025/10/03

Lori Young, a Ready for Love alum, decided she was done settling for crumbs of affection, heartbreak, and controlling men. Instead of buying the couch she’d been saving for, Lori put that money into herself—and it changed everything.In this conversation with me, Lori shares how she broke old patterns, stopped confusing drama for chemistry, and learned to ask for what she actually wanted. Today she’s married to a secure, steady partner, thriving in her career, and bold enough to run for city

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14:34

#83: What Matters MORE than Who You Are Meeting

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/09/26

You can spend thousands on a matchmaker or swipe until your thumbs go numb, but if you keep running into the same disappointing patterns, the real question isn’t “where are all the good men?” The real question is how are you showing up when you meet them?In this episode, Hilary unpacks why so many smart, successful women struggle in love even when everything looks perfect on the outside. Ghosting, mismatches, and one-sided relationships aren’t the problem themselves—they’re signals of something

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#82: If You think Men are Intimidated by You, Listen...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/09/19

If you’ve ever blamed your single status on men being “intimidated,” it’s time for a reality check. That story might feel good at the moment, but it’s keeping you from the very connection you want.In this episode, Hilary calls BS on the idea that your success is the reason love hasn’t worked out. With 25 years of experience coaching powerhouse women, she breaks down what’s really going on when you hear that “intimidating” feedback. Spoiler: it’s less about men being scared and more about the energy

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#81: Attach Too Quickly? How to stop the Cycle of...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/09/12

Wanting love and being ready for it aren’t the same thing. You might be on the apps, going on dates, even hiring a matchmaker—but if you keep finding yourself in the cycle of “hot and heavy” followed by fade and fizzle, the problem may be pacing.In this episode, Hilary unpacks the anxious dating behaviors that push love away and she lays out five concrete ways to date with emotional security rather than a sense of urgency. From keeping your schedule intact, to knowing when to hold back on texting

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11:59

#80: Dating Over 50 is Actually The Best Time

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2025/09/05

Most women I talk to over 40, 50, and 60 say the same thing: “I never thought I’d be here, dating at this stage of life.” And let’s be honest, midlife dating often gets a bad rap. But the truth? It can be the BEST time in your life to find real love… if you know how to approach it.In this episode, we talk about why dating now can be easier, more authentic, and more fulfilling than ever—and how shifting your perspective can change everything. Episode Highlights: Why dating now can feel easier and

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13:13

4 Dangerous Dating Blind Spots Revealed

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/08/29

Blind spots can quietly wreck your dating life long before you realize they’re there. And for high-achieving women, they’re sneaky. You can be doing all the “right” things on paper and still keep ending up with the wrong men—or no men at all.Hilary’s breaking down the four biggest ones she sees over and over again. Are you sending mixed signals without realizing it? Mistaking career confidence for genuine self-worth? Letting yourself be chosen instead of actually choosing? Or telling yourself

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12:22

He Ghosted You? 3 Moves to Get Your Power Back

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/08/22

He disappears. No explanation, no closure, just gone. And you’re left questioning everything: Did I do something wrong? Was any of it even real?In this episode, Hilary calls out the emotional whiplash of ghosting and gives you three power moves to shift out of helplessness and back into your worth. And no, it’s not about getting answers from him, it’s about giving closure to yourself. If you’ve ever been left on read and spiraled into doubt, this conversation is your emotional reset. Episode

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17:09

Why Can’t I Find Men At My Level?

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/08/15

You’ve got your life together: thriving career, financial independence, emotional intelligence, and yet your love life? A hot mess of emotionally unavailable, underemployed, or unstable men. What gives?In this episode, Hilary calls it like it is: this pattern isn’t about the men. It’s about you. More specifically, your subconscious beliefs, unresolved self-worth issues, and fear of real intimacy. Hilary breaks down 7 brutally honest reasons smart, successful women keep dating down—and how to stop

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09:54

Anxious Or Avoidant? Why Attachment Theory Is Keeping...

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver ·

2025/08/08

Everyone’s suddenly an expert on attachment styles. Anxious, avoidant, disorganized—it’s all over your feed, and maybe even your therapist’s office. But here’s the truth: if you’re trying to use attachment theory to decode every date and relationship, it’s keeping you stuck.In this episode, Hilary is breaking down why obsessing over your (and his) attachment style is doing more harm than good, and what actually matters when you’re looking for real love. If you’re a smart, self-aware woman who’s

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