The Love Movement

00:16:00

How to get a loving man

The Love Movement ·

2026/10/05

A loving man doesn't just appear, he shows up for a woman who knows how to receive love.In this episode, Lama breaks down what actually draws a genuinely loving man in, why the way you see yourself determines the kind of love you accept, and how becoming someone who can receive love without sabotaging it is the real work that changes everything.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this

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00:14:26

Dating potential vs. reality

The Love Movement ·

2026/10/05

Falling for who someone could be instead of who they actually are is one of the most painful mistakes you can make in this process.In this episode, Lama breaks down why so many people stay in situations that aren't working because they're attached to potential, how to see someone clearly for who they are right now, and why accepting reality, even when it's disappointing, is what actually moves you closer to the right person.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for

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00:14:49

Talking stages that lead to marriage

The Love Movement ·

2026/10/02

Not every talking stage is created equal, and the ones that go nowhere all have something in common.In this episode, Lama breaks down what a talking stage that actually leads to marriage looks like, how to show up with clarity and standards from day one, and why knowing what you're looking for before you start is what separates the conversations that go somewhere from the ones that waste your time.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need

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00:15:46

How to make a decision to marry someone (or not)

The Love Movement ·

2026/10/02

The decision to marry someone shouldn't feel like a gamble, but for most people, it does.In this episode, Lama breaks down how to actually make the decision with clarity, what the difference is between a genuine red flag and fear talking, and why waiting for certainty is the one thing that will keep you stuck the longest.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this episode on YouTube →

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00:13:53

The truth about the "marriage crisis"

The Love Movement ·

2026/09/04

There is no marriage crisis. There's just a crisis in how people see themselves and the opposite gender.In this episode, Lama breaks down why the idea of a "marriage crisis" is keeping people stuck in scarcity mode, why the real problem isn't the lack of good men or women but the way you're showing up, and how taking personal responsibility for your self-concept is what actually gets you out of the cycle.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1

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00:21:41

The gap between waiting and getting married

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/30

Most people are stuck not because they haven't tried enough, but because they haven't closed the gap between who they are now and who they need to become.In this episode, Lama breaks down the five things that actually separate people who get married from people who stay stuck, why your reaction when things don't work out says everything about your readiness, and how surrendering the timeline is the most important shift you can make.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1

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00:10:52

Allah doesn't need your evidence to get you married

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/30

You've been waiting for proof that it's going to happen before you believe it will. But that's not how faith works.In this episode, Lama shares real stories of women in their 40s who got married after doing the inner work, why the only block standing between you and what you want is believing you're the exception, and how full conviction in Allah, not evidence, is what finally makes things move.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to

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00:12:19

Long talking stages prevent you from meeting your spouse

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/24

If you're in a talking stage that's going nowhere, the problem isn't the person — it's the reason you're still there.In this episode, Lama breaks down why some people attract husband material while others stay stuck in endless talking stages, how your self-concept determines the standard you hold in the process, and why going with the flow is quietly keeping you from the person actually written for you.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching

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00:17:18

How Shaitan Keeps you stuck from being loved.

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/24

The thought that you're not good enough isn't just in your head — it has an agenda. And that agenda is to keep you stuck.In this episode, Lama breaks down how Shaytan uses shame to block you from love, why the "I'm not good enough" thought keeps coming back no matter how much work you do, and how to fight back so it stops running your life and your relationships.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the

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00:18:13

How to handle heartbreak

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/10

Heartbreak isn't what you think it is — and it's not as scary as you've been making it.In this episode, Lama breaks down what actually happens in the brain when things don't work out, why people stay stuck in heartbreak for years, and how processing it properly takes a lot less time than you think — so you can move forward without carrying the weight of it.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch

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00:13:54

The healing it takes to get married

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/09

Waiting until you're fully healed before getting married is one of Shaytan's most effective tricks to keep you single forever.In this episode, Lama breaks down why using self-development as a way to earn the right to be loved is the wrong approach entirely, what the only real difference is between people who get married and people who don't, and how to show up for marriage as you are, messy, imperfect, and worthy.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and

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00:11:35

How avoidance blocks you from being loved

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/08

If you keep ending things right when they get good, it's not because the person isn't right for you; it's because being loved feels unsafe.In this episode, Lama breaks down how avoidant patterns show up in the search for a spouse, why the ick you keep getting is really just self-rejection in disguise, and what it actually takes to let someone in without running away.Ready to go deeper?Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking

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00:20:58

How to be chosen in a relationship

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/07

You don't need a man to choose you. You are already chosen, and until you see that, no human being will ever be able to fill that void.In this episode, Lama breaks down where the desperate need to be chosen actually comes from, why waiting for someone to validate your worth is keeping you stuck, and how shifting from needing to be chosen to choosing yourself first is what actually makes you magnetic.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need

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00:14:33

How to determine religious compatibility

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/06

Just because someone looks religious doesn't mean they have the values you're actually looking for.In this episode, Lama breaks down the difference between performative religion and genuine faith, why romanticising Islam in marriage leads to falling for the wrong people, and what religious compatibility actually looks like in a real, lasting marriage.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this

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00:17:13

How to choose a spouse

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/05

There will always be someone better out there — and that thought is exactly what's keeping you from a good marriage.In this episode, Lama breaks down the difference between maximizers and satisfiers, why chasing the perfect person leads to less happiness not more, and how focusing on values over preferences is what actually leads to a marriage that lasts.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch

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00:14:26

The reality of marriage

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/03

Marriage is not going to save you — and it's not going to ruin you either.In this episode, Lama breaks down what marriage actually looks like beyond the social media highlight reel, why the first year catches so many people off guard, and how getting clear on the reality of it is what helps you approach it from a healthy, grounded place.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this episode

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00:10:00

The balance of Tawakul and action in finding your spouse

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/02

Stressing about the search won't make your person appear faster but neither will sitting back and doing nothing.In this episode, Lama breaks down what it actually looks like to balance trust in Allah with real action, why your beliefs about what's possible are what drives everything, and how to take steps forward from a place of faith instead of fear.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking

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00:07:34

When you're not finding the people you want

The Love Movement ·

2026/08/01

If all you're getting is people you don't want, the problem isn't the search it's the mindset you're bringing to it.In this episode, Lama breaks down the difference between a victim mindset and an empowered one, why your energy determines what you attract, and how shifting your focus from the outcome to who you're becoming is what actually moves things forward.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the

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00:08:26

The stress of picking the right person

The Love Movement ·

2026/07/31

There is no one perfect person, and the pressure of finding them is exactly what's making the search so exhausting.In this episode, Lama breaks down why the obsession with picking the "right" one is coming from a void that needs to be filled, what actually matters when choosing a spouse, and how to approach the whole thing with a lot more ease and flexibility.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse

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00:12:16

How to use online platforms to meet your person

The Love Movement ·

2026/07/30

The apps aren't exhausting — your thoughts about the apps are.In this episode, Lama breaks down why no platform is good or bad on its own, how the mindset you bring to the search is what actually determines your results, and how to approach putting yourself out there from a place of growth instead of desperation.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this episode on YouTube →

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