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YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek

Nicholas Tanek (Author) and our kinky friends worldwide discuss BDSM, fetishes, music, comedy, lifestyles, romance, and more. Nicholas Tanek is an author, speaker, and podcaster. He is best known for his memoir, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself, which chronicles his experiences as a young man in the 90"s rave scene and BDSM subcultures. He is the author of the book and podcast, Your Kinky Friends, interviewing people involved in BDSM, kink, and other alternative lifestyles. LIVE interactive Lo-fi

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01:20:36

YKF WEEKENDS - 9.2026 - "The Importance of Checking...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/10/05

"The whisper network depends on us." Anna Valentina and Mistress Sophie reunite on YKF WEEKENDS to discuss the importance of kinksters checking in on each other. Kinky friends should check in on each other. We've lost too many this year. Don't you wish you kept the connection with some people? While catching up, we talk about Isla Moon, pegging, and also how R.C. Horsch is a scumbag who does not represent the BDSM/kink community. "Connections live in the doing.""Just

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01:07:20

Vintage YKF: KATE WEST - June 2, 2022

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/09/12

Rest in Power Kate West. June 2, 2022"I’m an equal opportunity sadist.” The glorious Mistress Kate West is a professional Dominatrix from Phoenix, AZ. We discuss feminization, feet, chastity, BDSM culture, gender fluidity, CBT, bastinado, knives, her love of GORE, needles, and blood. She also shows us her dirty feet.“I love blood”Twitter and Insta - @JezabelQueen To book and bio - MistressKateWest.com http://www.yourkinkyfriends.com http://www.youtube.com/ykfcinema https://x.com/NicholasTanek

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01:08:58

Lady Vesper - 8.2026

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/08/24

"Dominance is an internal state." Lady Vesper is a writer, podcaster (Power Unleashed podcast), and online Domme known for precise language, an intellectual approach, and a complete refusal of easy FemDom clichés. On this episode of Your Kinky Friends, Lady Vesper shares how her first female submissive inspired her poetry, the unsolicited DMs that pushed her into financial domination and full-spectrum control, and why authentic dominance means creating from her own desires—not catering to male

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00:57:42

Mischief Matters Radio: Rebecca Blanton (aka Auntie...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/08/20

August 18, 2026 ShowTonight on Mischief Matters Radio Mistress Schari and Catnip will be discussing two very different types of kink with two of the upcoming Presenters at Forbidden FrostlandRebecca Blanton (aka Auntie Vice)is a writer and kink educator. Their work focuses on gender, power, and kink//BDSM. She runs the award-winning blog LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com and has published several books, including The Big Workbook for Submissives, a finalist for the 2018 Golden Flogger Award. In 2026,

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01:45:41

YKF Cinema: SPRING BREAKERS (w/ Griselda Venum &...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/08/14

"The spring breakers are the scum." Nicholas Tanek sits down with high-protocol dominatrix and one-woman haunted house Griselda Venum to break down Harmony Korine’s cult classic Spring Breakers. We dive deep into the film’s dark underbelly — exploring the BDSM and kink elements, the infamous gun fellatio scene, grooming dynamics, power exchange, and the seductive corruption of youth. Griselda unpacks the twisted masculine/feminine themes, class and race dynamics, poverty vs. hedonistic excess,

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01:18:01

YKF Cinema: SHORTBUS (w/ Briska & Nicholas Tanek)

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/08/12

“Who hasn’t had a threesome that started like this?"Rope goddess, proud fem daddy, and poly household leader Briska returns to The YKF Cinema Show for a raw, joyful, and explicit deep dive into John Cameron Mitchell’s cult classic SHORTBUS — the 2006 NYC erotic masterpiece packed with unsimulated sex, chaotic orgies, queer healing, and post-9/11 messiness. Briska reveals how this film literally changed her life as a young sexual health advocate, why it still hits different 20 years later, and how it

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01:32:22

YKF Cinema: VIDEODROME (w/ Mistress Genevieve & Peter...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/07/03

Videodrome: The Ultimate Kinky Mindf()ck | YKF CINEMA SHOW - In this special panel episode of the YKF Cinema Show, host Nicholas Tanek dives deep into David Cronenberg’s 1982 masterpiece Videodrome with two incredible guests: professional dominatrix and dark cinema lover Mistress Genevieve and BDSM historian/author Peter Tupper (A Lover’s Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism). From body horror and media as a virus to masochistic surrender, erotic transformation, and the seductive power of the

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00:59:45

Mischief Matters Radio: Date Night Takes On A Whole...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/07/02

May 19, 2026 ShowMistress Schari explores how alternative lifestyles, BDSM, and fetishes intersect with modern dating. What's it like to be dating someone who is also selling a product, THEMSELF. Is your partner always "on"? How do you navigate their desire to be the center of attention with your desire for ANY attention. Do you work with them, support them, promote them, ignore them? As a kink personality myself, I am sure catnip has plenty to contribute to this discussion. Joining

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00:49:28

Mischief Matters Radio: Forbidden Frostland -...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/07/01

This week on Mischief Matters Radio, we explore a brand-new convention that's bringing together educators, creators, and curious minds from across the spectrum, including yours truly as one of the Chairs. Forbidden Frostland 2027 is a brand new con bringing together workshops and community building to break down stigma and celebrating self-expression. This episode goes beyond the surface and into what these spaces really mean for the people who attend them. Whether you're experienced,

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01:25:06

YKF Cinema: TRAINING DAY (w/ Griselda Venum &...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/06/23

Griselda Venum and Nicholas Tanek break down Training Day. They explore the film's layered trauma of rape, the corrosive nature of power, chess versus checkers, Denzel Washington's timeless performance, and the smiles-and-cries duality that makes the movie unforgettable. Was Jake Hoyt the shepherd? And does King Kong have shit on Alonzo? "I always wanted to pistol whip somebody." - Griselda VenumIn this episode of YKFCinema, Griselda Venum and Nicholas Tanek dive deep into the

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01:02:10

YKF Cinema: "BARBARELLA" w/ Cassidy Cream

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/05/18

"I can absolutely blow that machine up."Cassidy Cream educates Nicholas Tanek on the film BARBARELLACASSIDY CREAMHttps://Onlyfans.com/cassidycreamhttps://mistresscassidycreamsmusings.blogspot.com/2024/08/for-fear-tonight-is-all.htmlhttps://allmylinks.com/cassidycream YOUR KINKY FRIENDShttps://yourkinkyfriends.com/Your Kinky Friends(the book that started it all)https://a.co/d/eyW5oYY

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01:23:56

YKF Cinema: "PILLION" f/ Briska

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/05/05

Briska (New Jersey rope educator and performer ) educates Nicholas Tanek on the film PILLION.Your Kinky Friends(the book that started it all)https://a.co/d/eyW5oYYYKF Your Kinky Friends on SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/41QVG4q...www.YourKinkyFriends.com@YourKinkyFriends / nicktanek YOUR KINKY FRIENDS: http://www.YourKinkyFriends.comSUBSCRIBE TO THE YKF CINEMA SHOW at https://www.youtube.com/@ykfcinema/videos

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00:54:54

YKF CINEMA: "Alucarda" w/ Mistress Genevieve

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/05/04

"Nuns of Fire!" Mistress Genevieve schools Nicholas Tanek on the wild Mexican classic ALUCARDA (1977). In the premiere episode of THE YKF CINEMA SHOW, we dive into Juan López Moctezuma’s blasphemous fever dream: a loose adaptation of Carmilla where two teenage orphan girls in a remote Catholic convent strike a blood pact with dark forces, unleash demonic possession, and turn the house of God into absolute hell. Expect hysterical nuns, forbidden desires, graphic exorcisms, blood-soaked

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01:49:10

Cassidy Cream - 4.2026 - (introducing The YKF Cinema...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/04/28

"I can cum from a foot massage."Cassidy Cream returns to help introduce the concept of THE YKF CINEMA SHOW. We talk Barbarella, GIMP HOUSE, and we write the poem “Chastity Tears”"I'm the Goblin King's bitch.""I have really sensative feet.""I'm of the opinion that it's better if you don't know what's coming next."https://yourkinkyfriends.com/Your Kinky Friends(the book that started it all)https://a.co/d/eyW5oYY

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01:27:27

YKF GROWL: "Personal Services (1987 film)" Critique...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/04/07

🚨 FIRST KINK PODCAST IN KINK HISTORY to dedicate a full episode to the wildest 1987 cult classic you’ve NEVER heard of… until now! 🚨What do you get when a broke single mum and part-time waitress decides to turn her quiet suburban house into London’s most exclusive brothel for randy old men with VERY specific kinks?✨Personal Services ✨- the outrageously funny, shockingly true story (loosely based on real-life madam Cynthia Payne) directed by Monty Python legend Terry Jones and starring Julie

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00:43:48

A CBT Evening at Mischief Manor (f/ Mistress Schari)...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/04/05

"I can't believe that I got to play whack-a-mole with a penis." On Easter Weekend 2026, we hosted a CBT Evening at Mischief Manor. Previously, I was invited to film a CBT session with a sub named Film Slave. Tonight, we watched the session with a live audience, then broadcast a live podcast discussing everything we just saw. We dive into spiked heels, kicking suspended balls, vampire gloves, nipple pinching, dick-in-a-box trampling to female-empowerment pop anthems. Nicholas Tanek

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01:29:48

GROWL movie review: Preaching to the Perverted w/ The...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/03/18

🎙️ Growl Podcast – Movie Recap & Review: Preaching to the PervertedIn this episode of the Growl Podcast, we dive into the cult classic Preaching to the Perverted (1997)- a provocative, controversial, and surprisingly insightful look at the BDSM underground of the late 90s.Join us as we recap the entire film, break down its unforgettable characters, and explore the film’s themes of morality, sexuality, and power. But we don’t stop there…We also compare the movie’s portrayal of kink culture with

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01:29:39

YKF Hip-Hop: TAME-ONE's Mom - (Tame-One of Artifacts)

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/03/18

Exclusive: Tame One's Mother Speaks – Rare Interview on His Life, Legacy & Artifacts Journey | YKF Talks Hip-Hop IMPORTANT NOTE: This is not your typical interview. This is a personal "Thank You"; to Ma D for supporting the art of Tame-One and an attempt to raise money for the documentary about Tame -One. She is in her 80's and I am recovering from a liver transplant. We are two unlike friends dealing with the pain of loss, grief, and recovery. This is a document of a

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01:20:29

Mistress Ultra Violet - 3.2026

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2026/03/03

"We're not actually kidnapping people."Mistress Ultra Violet is the owner of Atlanta Dungeon, Atlanta Bed and Bondage, and Atlanta Sissy School. She joins YKF to talk about the beauty of sissy transformation, running a BDSM bed & breakfast, scent trainings, sissy school, sissies being addicted to chastity, and Camp Captivity for consensual kidnapping."I would like to do more kidnappings."Mistress Ultra Violet currently resides in Atlanta and is the owner and operator of

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00:02:02

#KinkHelpsKink YKF / Mischief Manor Introduction by...

YKF: Your Kinky Friends w/ Nicholas Tanek ·

2025/09/27

#KinkHelpsKink YKF / Mischief Manor Introduction by Nicco NoireCashApp: $YKFtanekwww.patreon.com/ykfwww.YourKinkyFriends.comYoutube:https://www.youtube.com/@yourkinkyfriends/streams

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