Totally Normal About That

75:22

Queerness and Role Models

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2026/09/30

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about role models and queerness. We talked about the way role models function to uphold patriarchal, white supremacist, heteronormative standards. We also discussed the lack of older queer representation in media. We then introduced our new favorite word: Privilegemaxxing! Do you have thoughts on role models and queerness? We want to hear them! Talk to us on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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100:51

First Day

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2026/09/23

Hi friends! This week we talked about the Australian show First Day. We discussed Hannah's relationships with her friends, casual transphobia, and how adults should actually care about supporting children. We also talked about Hannah's relationship with Billy. If you have thoughts about this show, you can find us on Tumblr or Bluesky!

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75:34

But I'm a Cheerleader!

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2026/09/16

Hi friends,This week we had a Totally Normal conversation about But I'm a Cheerleader! We discussed Mary's weird relationship with her son, the absurdity of there being a root cause for being gay, and conversion camp being a bad thing. We also talked about how Megan's boyfriend actually is just bad at kissing. Do you have thoughts on this movie? Let us know on tumblr or Bluesky!

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86:29

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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2026/09/09

Hi friends! This week we felt totally normal about The Perks of Being a Wallflower. Quick content warning: This movie involves themes of self-harm, sexual assault, violence, and mental illness. We did discuss all those things in our coverage. We also discussed whether Sam was fair to ask Charlie why he never pursued her, Charlie's boyfriend skills, and Rocky Horror Picture Show. Have thoughts on this movie or episode? Let us know on Bluesky or Tumblr, or email us at

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66:56

Love, Simon

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2026/09/02

Hi friends! This week we were feeling Totally Normal about Love, Simon. We discussed Martin's extremely poor choices, the overly friendly principal, and the pressures around coming out. We also talked about casual homophobia. Do you have thoughts about this movie? Let us know on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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72:42

Heartstopper Forever

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2026/08/26

Hi friends! In this episode we discussed Heartstopper Forever, the conclusion to the Heartstopper series! We talked about the pacing of the movie, the lessons Charlie and Nick learned, and how the hair and makeup did Kit Connor no favors. We also talked about our favorite teachers, Mr. Farouk and Mr. Ajayi! If you have thoughts about the conclusion to this series, please let us know on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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93:03

Nancy Drew part 2

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2026/08/19

Hi friends! This week we continued our conversation about Nancy Drew sans Chris (booooo). We talked about the various relationships on the show, including Nick and George's relationship and why it made sense that it ended, Nancy's relationships with men and sex as a form of self-harm, and Bess's relationship with Addy and the larger implications it has on how we understand consent. We also talked about the number of ghosts this show shoved into romantic relationships. Do you have thoughts on

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108:32

Nancy Drew part 1 (with Chris Mosher)

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2026/08/12

Hi friends! This week we were joined by our friend Chris to talk about the 2019 TV show Nancy Drew. We discussed the show's wild timeline, Nancy's tiny dad and regular dad, and the role the supernatural plays in the show. We also talked about the age gap dynamics in some of the relationships and the big topics the show addressed. Want to talk to us about the show? You can find us on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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125:51

I Saw the TV Glow

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2026/08/05

Hi friends! This week we were joined by friend of the pod Roxie to talk about the movie I Saw the TV Glow. We talked about Owen's inability to accept his own trans identity, the intersectionality of Owen's identity, and the messaging the movie was ultimately trying to present. We also discussed the lighting and sound effects and just how incredibly homoerotic The Pink Opaque was. Do you have thoughts on this movie? Find us on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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130:40

Gentleman Jack

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2026/07/29

Hi friends! This week we had a totally normal conversation about the show Gentleman Jack. We discussed Anne Lister's relationship to gender roles and the patriarchy, Ann Walker's mental health and the benefits of climbing a mountain, and how class roles shape our understanding of the world. We also talked about our frustrations with some of the side plots and the way things wrapped up.

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90:24

Tombstone

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2026/07/01

Hi friends! This week we had a Totally Normal conversation about the 1993 Western, Tombstone. We talked about Billy and Fabian's background romance, Doc Holliday and Johnny Ringo's Latin flirt session, and Wyatt Earp's relationships with Mattie, Josephine, and Doc. We also talked about how all of these identical dirty white men should probably just get real jobs. Don't worry Supernatural fans, we finished up our conversation by talking about that scene. If you have thoughts about this episode, you

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109:04

Queerness in History

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2026/06/24

Hi friends! This week we continued our Pride Month specials by having a totally normal conversation about queerness in history. We discussed pederasty in Ancient Greece, Anne of Green Gables, and the origin of certain tropes. We also talked about lesbian flash mobs in Australia. Got things to say about this episode? Got other queer historical figures we should have talked about? Come talk to us on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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103:49

Queerness and Celebrity Culture

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2026/06/17

Hi friends! This week our Totally Normal conversation turned to the real world. We talked about the way queer celebrities are often forced to hide their identities and the dangers of being outed as a celebrity. We also discussed parasocial relationships and how the demand for authenticity in media has led to a dangerous trend of forcing celebrities to explain their sexuality before they're ready. Have any thoughts about this topic? You can find us on Bluesky and Tumblr!

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76:22

Bury Your Gays

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2026/06/10

Hi friends! This week we continue our Pride month special episodes with a conversation about the Bury Your Gays trope. We talk about queer characters and queer-coded characters being portrayed as villains, the violence surrounding queer characters, and the way the Hays Code contributed to the trope. If you have thoughts on this trope, we would love to hear them! You can find us on Bluesky and Tumblr.

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78:21

Queerbait, Queercode, Pinkwash

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2026/06/03

Hi friends! In this episode we celebrate the start of Pride Month by talking about queerbaiting, queercoding, and pinkwashing. We talk about the history of queerbaiting and queercoding, including the Hays Code. We also discuss the dilution of language and how it impacts people. Feeling Totally Normal about something we discussed? Hit us up on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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130:40

Good Omens

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2026/05/27

Hi friends! This week we were feeling Totally Normal about Good Omens! We had special guest Veronica join us to talk about all three seasons. We talked about our frustrations with the finale, the whimsy of the first season, and the narrator. We also discussed bad wigs and Crowley's tight pants. If you feel Totally Normal about this show, come yell at us on Bluesky or Tumblr!

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78:03

Burlesque

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2026/05/13

Hi friends! This week we felt Totally Normal about the movie Burlesque (2010)! We talked about how Jack and Ali's relationship is one of the least interesting ones in the movie, the history of the burlesque genre of performance, and Tess's relationships with the other characters. If you feel Totally Normal about this movie, come yell at us about it on Tumblr or Bluesky!

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66:46

Plot a Gay Movie!

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2026/04/29

Hi friends! This week we've got something special for you! We came up with the plot of a queer movie based on what we want to see in a movie! We talked about casting, shrimp cocktail incidents, and travel gays. What would you want to see in a queer movie? Let us know!

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71:04

Barbie Part Two

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2026/04/15

Hi friends!This week we finished up our totally normal conversation about the movie Barbie!We talked about how Mattel has been responsive to feedback over the years, the music choices in the movie, and the way the patriarchy places expectations upon men and women.If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky, Tumblr, or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

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78:09

Barbie Part One

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2026/04/08

Hi friends!This week we had a totally normal conversation about the movie Barbie!We talked about how the patriarchy is the real villain, the way the movie flips gender norms and expectations, and second wave feminism. If you have totally normal feelings about this movie, please come yell with us! You can reach us on Bluesky, Tumblr, or email us at totallynormalaboutthat@gmail.com.

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