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The Mental Healness Podcast

Welcome to the Mental Healness Podcast, hosted by yours truly, Lee Hammock. If you"re new here I have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and I"ve been in therapy for the last 8 years learning how to deal with it and live a better life. From the start I"ve offered you the rare POV of a diagnosed narcissist but NOW I"m switching it up a little bit. I"m interviewing others that are dealing with their own mental health journeys and those that have dealt with toxic relationship dynamics as well. I"m

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00:13:41

I’m a Narcissist: Why We Send You Songs After We Hurt...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/10/10

I’m a diagnosed narcissist, and in this video I explain why a narcissistic person may send you songs after they hurt you, lie to you, cheat, rage, or give you the silent treatment. A song can be a way to pull on nostalgia, express emotion without taking accountability, test whether you are still emotionally available, or reopen the door after conflict. The message may feel deeply personal, but a playlist is not the same as changed behavior, a sincere apology, or repair. This is not an excuse for

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00:41:15

What Did a Narcissist See in You in the First Place?

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/10/07

What did a narcissist see in you in the first place? In this video, Lee Hammock explains why people with narcissistic traits may be drawn to empathy, loyalty, generosity, resilience, forgiveness, and a desire to see the best in others. These are not weaknesses, but without boundaries they can become qualities that a toxic person tries to exploit. Learn the difference between becoming closed off and becoming more discerning, so you can protect your peace without losing the parts of yourself that make

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00:52:38

I Knew the Loud Narcissist… I Wasn’t Ready for the...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/10/05

Ashleyjoins the Mental Healness Podcast to share how she survived two very different toxic marriages: one loud and overt, the other quiet, subtle, and much harder to recognize. After leaving a nearly decade-long relationship marked by control, betrayal, isolation, and emotional abuse, she remarried believing she knew every red flag, until covert manipulation appeared in a different form. Ashley and Lee Hammock discuss narcissistic abuse, love bombing, trauma patterns, co-parenting, childhood wounds,

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00:19:56

I’m a Narcissist: Yes, We Know What We’re Doing

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2026/10/04

I’m a diagnosed narcissist, and in this video I explain why many narcissistic people know when they are manipulating, lying, withholding affection, shifting blame, or causing emotional harm. Awareness does not equal accountability, and knowing better does not automatically mean someone will choose to behave better. This is not an excuse for narcissistic abuse it is a first-person perspective on self-awareness, entitlement, control, and the work required to change harmful patterns. If someone

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01:02:13

She Called the Police After 31 Years of Abuse, Then...

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2026/10/01

In this Mental Healness Podcast interview, Nina shares her story of surviving a 31-year emotionally destructive and volatile marriage while feeling financially trapped as a long-term stay-at-home wife. After calling police for protection, she says she experienced retaliation, isolation, a smear campaign, and rejection from people she expected to support her. Lee Hammock and Nina discuss narcissistic abuse, coercive control, financial abuse, trauma bonds, silent treatment, scapegoating, and why

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00:34:59

Why Narcissists Always Compare You to Their Exes

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/30

Why do narcissistic and toxic people constantly compare you to their exes? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how comparisons can be used to provoke jealousy, create insecurity, keep you competing for approval, and distract from their own behavior. Whether they praise an ex, criticize an ex, or say “my ex would never do that,” the goal may be to keep you emotionally off balance.Book a Coaching Session: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]🔥 My Books:

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00:11:51

He's Torturing Her Online and Enjoying Every Minute...

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2026/09/27

She's going through it! Raising a baby with a psychopathic man that hates her. He is making her life harder in every single way and enjoys the fact that she is talking about it online to the world. Book a Coaching Session: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]🔥 My Books: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]🎙 Listen to the Mental Healness Podcast:

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00:53:06

I Have Narcissistic Personality Disorder; Ask Me...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/23

If you could ask a diagnosed narcissist ANYTHING, what would it be? well you have your chance, join the live and get your questions answered.Book a Coaching Session- https://link.me/mentalhealness

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00:47:08

From Addiction and Abuse to Healing and Freedom |...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/23

In this Mental Healness Podcast interview, Manda shares her survivor journey from childhood trauma, addiction, abusive relationships, family scapegoating, and parental alienation to healing, faith, and rebuilding her life. She discusses getting sober, escaping coercive control, navigating complex PTSD, reconnecting with her identity, and learning that she was never the problem people told her she was. This conversation explores trauma bonds, emotional abuse, recovery, survival, boundaries, and what

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00:16:42

She Had a Baby With a Narcissist Because She Thought...

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2026/09/21

She Had a Baby With a Narcissist Because She Thought It Would Make Him Love Her More and change his ways towards her. Big Big mistake because having babies DO NOT change people. They tend to make things worse. This man thought he was going to be happy with a side chick the side chick didn't even like him lol. Book a Coaching Session: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]🔥 My Books:

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00:09:49

What to Do When You Miss Your Abusive Ex

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/20

What do you do when you start missing your narcissistic ex, even after everything they put you through? In this video, Lee Hammock explains why it is normal to miss someone who hurt you and why that feeling does not mean you should break no contact. Learn practical ways to process the urge to call, text, check their social media, or pain shop, including writing down the truth, creating a video diary, and using voice notes. Missing them is a feeling not a sign that they deserve another chance. You

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00:23:17

What Is Narcissistic Abuse? The Signs You Need to...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/18

What is narcissistic abuse, and how can you recognize it in a relationship, family, friendship, or workplace? In this video, Lee Hammock explains common patterns associated with narcissistic abuse, including love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation, blame shifting, control, isolation, devaluation, and emotional abuse. You will also learn why this pattern can leave people confused, anxious, disconnected from themselves, and questioning their own reality. Narcissistic abuse is not a formal clinical

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00:12:53

What Is The Best Way to Communicate With a Narcissist

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/17

How do you respond to a narcissist or toxic ex when you have to communicate with them? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how to filter hostile emails and text messages, identify important coparenting information, and avoid getting pulled into long emotional arguments. Learn why short, bland, factual responses can protect your peace and reduce opportunities for manipulation. Lee also shares ways to use AI, skimming, or a trusted third party to identify essential details without absorbing every

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01:01:46

I Married the Same Narcissist Twice | Jacqueline’s...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/15

In this Mental Healness Podcast interview, Jacqueline shares her survivor story of marrying the same narcissistic husband twice. After enduring cheating, manipulation, emotional abuse, financial control, isolation, and repeated breakups in her first marriage, she spent years away working on herself before he reentered her life. She explains why she believed he had changed, what happened after they remarried, and how her body began recognizing the danger before her mind fully accepted it. Lee Hammock

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00:19:49

Why an Abusive Person Breaks Up With You First

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/14

Why do abusive people suddenly break up with you, discard you, or move on as if you never mattered? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how a toxic or narcissistic person may leave when they are losing control, being held accountable, facing consequences, or seeking new validation. The discard can be used to punish you, create confusion, provoke you into chasing them, or make them feel powerful again. Their decision to leave does not erase the abuse or prove you were not enough. Learn how to stop

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00:12:27

Why Prayer Won’t Fix a Narcissist

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/10

Join Lee Hammock, a clinically diagnosed narcissist known as Mental Healness, for a live open question and answer session about narcissism, toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, healing, boundaries, cheating, no contact, and recovery. Bring your questions about the behaviors you have experienced or the patterns you are trying to understand. This live is designed to offer insight, validation, and practical perspectives, not to diagnose anyone you know. Please keep the chat respectful and avoid

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00:16:36

How Do Abusive People Act When They Realize You're...

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/08

What happens when an abusive or toxic person realizes you are leaving for good? In this live discussion, Lee Hammock talks about common reactions such as love bombing, guilt trips, promises to change, anger, blame shifting, smear campaigns, threats, and attempts to regain control. Not every person will react in the same way, but changes in behavior and escalation should be taken seriously. If you are planning to leave and feel unsafe, consider creating a safety plan, documenting concerning behavior

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00:18:03

Why a Narcissist Refuses to Say Anything Nice About You

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/07

Why do narcissists struggle to compliment the people closest to them? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how withholding praise, affection, and validation can become part of a toxic relationship dynamic. A narcissistic person may minimize your accomplishments, criticize you after a compliment, praise strangers while ignoring you, or make you feel like you must earn basic kindness. Learn why their lack of affirmation is not proof that you are unattractive, unsuccessful, or unworthy. Recognizing this

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00:12:19

Why Narcissists “Forget” Everything They Did to You

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/05

Why does a narcissist claim they do not remember the things they said or did to hurt you? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how narcissistic people may use selective memory, denial, minimization, blame shifting, and revisionist history to avoid accountability. This is not always genuine forgetfulness it can be part of a larger pattern that makes you doubt your own memories and feelings. Learn why arguing for an admission often keeps you stuck and how to focus on the pattern instead of chasing

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00:13:15

A Narcissist’s Biggest Fear Is Being Replaceable!

The Mental Healness Podcast ·

2026/09/04

Why do narcissists need you to depend on them? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how a narcissistic or controlling person may fear being replaceable and try to create emotional, financial, sexual, or practical dependence. Learn why withholding affection, delaying support, rushing commitment, controlling choices, and creating obstacles can make someone feel powerful or needed. This pattern is not love or partnership. It is often about control, validation, and making it harder for you to walk away

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