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The Sacred We

Michael Elliott and Courtney Wren

A conscious relationship podcast for couples and individuals exploring intimacy, somatic healing, sacred love, and conscious parenting. Hosted by Somatic Therapist & Mystic, Courtney Wren and Relationship Coach, Mike Elliott, The Sacred We blends real-life vulnerability with expert tools for growth, connection, and devotion. Deepen trust, navigate parenting, and experience the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

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01:24:06

End the War in Your Relationship: Harville Hendrix &...

The Sacred We ·

2026/10/01

Join Harville & Helen's online Getting the Love You Want weekend workshop for couples, Oct 23-25, 2026:https://harvilleandhelen.com/calendar/What if there were a tool to end war in your relationship? Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt, the founders of Imago Relationship Therapy, say the answer is not to work harder on yourself. We are wounded in relationship, and we heal in relationship. The healing lives in the space between you, and dialogue is the tool they have taught to couples for

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01:01:38

Why Money Fights Are Really About Avoidance

The Sacred We ·

2026/09/24

Most couples don’t fight about money. They avoid it until it leaks into resentment, sex, and every little decision. Jenn Pike and Chris Borsellino were in overdraft as a lifestyle — two kids, two businesses, ships passing — until they put every receipt in a basket and made money neutral. This is the conversation that shows how.In this episode of The Sacred We, Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren-Mabbutt sit with Jenn Pike and Chris Borsellino — partners in life, business, and a decades-long experiment in

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01:00:03

Why You Sabotage Love Right When It Gets Good | Gay &...

The Sacred We ·

2026/09/17

You know that place where love, pleasure, or success just leveled up — and then some sneaky sabotage pops the bubble? That's upper limiting. Nothing is wrong with you. It's a human condition.Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren-Mabbutt sit down with Gay and Katie Hendricks — pioneers of conscious loving and body intelligence, authors of 40+ books including The Big Leap and Conscious Loving — for a deep dive into how couples upper limit their love the moment it expands. Gay and Katie

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00:52:05

It's Not Him, It's You — You're Designed to Draw Him In

The Sacred We ·

2026/09/11

Trigger alert: it's not him — it's you. (Well… not entirely you.). If you're aching for him to do the work and finally meet you emotionally — and you know what you've been doing isn't helping — Courtney and Mike go into the feminine's role in sacred relating.They name the "if he changes, everything will be fine" shadow, the wall women yell over, and why mothering him kills polarity.The invitation is a different seat: land in Me, know the little girl who's hypervigilantly managing him, and embody

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00:56:55

The Disconnection In Your Relationship Is Your...

The Sacred We ·

2026/09/03

3 Somatic Practices for Deeper Connection 👉Sign up for a FREE guide here: https://www.sacredrelating.com/deeperconnectionWhen you feel disconnected from your partner, it’s rarely just about them. In this episode of The Sacred We, Mike and Courtney share why the disconnection so many couples feel isn’t ultimately about the relationship — it’s a disconnection from God.Mike and Courtney open up about what it means to build a God-led relationship: the different names they each use for the divine, how

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00:51:16

Too Much, Not Enough Healing the Polarity Wound in...

The Sacred We ·

2026/08/27

Every couple knows this dance: she reaches for more and he braces, or he tries to fix what was never broken and she feels unseen. In this episode, Mike and Courtney unpack two of the most common wounds in relationships — the "too much" wound in the feminine and the "not enough" wound in the masculine — starting with a reframed reading of the Adam and Eve myth through a goddess mythology lens.Then they get real: earlier that same day, Mike and Courtney had their own version of

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01:13:46

The #1 Secret to Lasting Love And How Secure...

The Sacred We ·

2026/08/20

What if your relationship didn’t need one more insight — just a better dance? On this episode of The Sacred We, Mike and Courtney sit down with licensed marriage and family therapist Dayna Mullen, who has spent 18 years studying under Stan Tatkin and building a marriage of her own around the same principle she teaches every couple who walks through her door: secure functioning.Dayna unpacks what Stan Tatkin calls the "couple bubble" — the shared ecosystem a couple creates when they agree

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00:41:25

Avoidance Is the Enemy, Not the Person With It

The Sacred We ·

2026/08/13

You already know something needs to change. The Initiated Man Program is where it starts. Join The Initiated Man Program today →https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/TIMDo you have a partner who avoids hard conversations, avoids taking responsibility, and seems to get farther away the more you reach for connection? In this episode, Mike Elliott breaks down what avoidance really is, why it shows up in relationships, and how it quietly ends up running the show when it goes unaddressed.Mike shares how

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00:46:45

How I Unwound My Childhood Mental Health Through...

The Sacred We ·

2026/08/06

To the mamas holding it all together while still longing to feel like you — Courtney's Holy Mama community is opening its doors soon. Join the waitlist to be the first to know:https://www.courtneywren.com/holy-mama-waitlistBefore she was ten, Courtney had been diagnosed with panic disorder, generalized anxiety, and ADHD — and put on the first of what would be over a decade of psychiatric medication. In this solo episode, she tells the real story behind those diagnoses: the night terrors that

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01:17:21

Unlocking Inherent Vitality: A Radical Approach to...

The Sacred We ·

2026/07/30

Stay tuned for 2 upcoming offers!To the mamas holding it all together while still longing to feel like you — Courtney's Holy Mama community is opening its doors soon. Join the waitlist to be the first to know:https://www.courtneywren.com/holy-mama-waitlistThere's a two-year-old standing at a breakfast table, methodically arranging every jelly packet on it into patterns—and a fifty-year veteran educator choosing to say nothing at all. That single moment holds the whole conversation. In this

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01:11:22

Sacred Sexuality: Alchemy of Desire with Justin...

The Sacred We ·

2026/07/23

🔥Dive deep with Mike and Courtney and learn about their 2:2 Work: https://www.thesacredwe.com/2-2-container-detailsWhat if the desire you've been taught to suppress is actually your fastest path to awakening? This week, Mike and Courtney sit down with Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel Winters -- co-founders of Yoga of Intimacy and life partners of 17 years -- for a raw conversation on sexual polarity, sacred intimacy, and how to alchemize desire into devotion.Justin Patrick Pierce and

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01:03:48

Why Couples Lose Their Spark in Midlife And How to...

The Sacred We ·

2026/07/17

🔥Turn your worst fights into connection! Listening before July 20th? Mike and Courtney are teaching their Rupture & Repair framework live: https://www.thesacredwe.com/rupture-and-repairCan midlife be the most alive, connected season of your relationship — not the one where the spark fades? Kimberly and Roberto of Phoenix Rising Retreats join Mike and Courtney to reveal why couples lose intimacy in midlife, what menopause really does to eros, and how to rebuild playfulness and pleasure after

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01:16:06

Radical Self-Love When Things Get Hard with Allana Pratt

The Sacred We ·

2026/07/09

Join our new Masterclass offering for couples wanting to reopen their hearts after conflict. 👉Sign up HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/rupture-and-repairWhat does radical self-love actually look like when life refuses to cooperate? When you're in the middle of a custody battle that drags on for 13 years? When your son goes no-contact for six and a half years and you don't know where he lives? When every relationship you try to build seems to surface the same wound in a new disguise?In this

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00:37:28

How to Love Your Partner in Their Shadows While...

The Sacred We ·

2026/07/03

Join our new Masterclass offering for individuals and couples wanting to reopen their hearts after conflict. 👉Sign up HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/rupture-and-repairIn this episode of The Sacred We, Mike and Courtney go into some of the most honest, vulnerable territory they've shared yet. Mike's shadow: the numbness and freeze that comes from losing two primary attachments before his first birthday -- and how his body stopped showing signs of wanting connection even when he

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00:43:27

Your Relationship Is Your Child's First Love Story -...

The Sacred We ·

2026/06/25

Want to turn moments of conflict into opportunities for intimacy? 👉Sign up for our couples list HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredweYour children are not just watching you. They are becoming you.This is not a conversation about perfect parenting. It's a conversation about the invisible field that lives between you and your partner -- and how that field is shaping your children's nervous systems, their sense of safety, their capacity for love, and the relationships they will one day

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00:52:34

Cracking The Male Code - How To Get Your Husband To...

The Sacred We ·

2026/06/18

Want to turn moments of conflict into opportunities for intimacy? 👉Sign up for a FREE guide to 3 Somatic Practices for Deeper Connection HERE: https://www.sacredrelating.com/deeperconnectionYou want him to open up. He wants to open up. So why isn't it working?In this episode of The Sacred We, Mike and Courtney Elliott go deep into one of the most painful and confusing dynamics in modern relationships: the woman who desperately wants to feel her man, and the man who desperately wants to let her

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00:30:13

From Dismissed and Invisible to Heard and Seen

The Sacred We ·

2026/06/04

Curious about our new Masterclass? 👉Sign up for Seen & Heard a Sacred We deep dive: https://www.sacredrelating.com/Heard&SeenIf something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call →Tune-in Call with CourtneyWhat happens inside your body when you don’t feel heard? Your nervous system reads it as danger. Your defenses go up. And the very person you love becomes someone

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00:27:23

Why Your Partner Doesn't Really See You

The Sacred We ·

2026/05/28

Ready to go deeper? Join Mike and Courtney on June 8th for a 90-minute live deep dive on the To Be Seen and Heard Framework.👉Sign up for Seen & Heard a Sacred We deep dive: https://www.sacredrelating.com/Heard&SeenIf you clicked this, some part of you doesn't feel seen. This episode starts by honouring that ache — and then it gives you a map.In this raw and deeply personal solo episode, Mike Elliott traces the arc of his own unseenness from childhood to adulthood — and distils

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00:47:32

Why One-on-One Support Is Ruining Your Relationship

The Sacred We ·

2026/05/14

Ready to do the relational work — not just the individual work? Mike and Courtney's 2:2 couples container holds both of you, tracks the patterns in real time, and wires you toward connection.💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 → ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/sacred-relating-couples⁠What if the most well-intentioned support you're getting is quietly wiring you further from your partner?In this disruptive, deeply honest episode, Mike and Courtney challenge one of the most common beliefs in

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00:41:59

Mapping Your Relational Imprint: How to Heal...

The Sacred We ·

2026/05/07

Curious about Mapping your Imprinting with Courtney?If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call →Tune-in Call with CourtneyWhat if the relationship patterns you keep repeating aren't about the person you're with — but about what's already written in your body, your DNA, and your ancestral field?In this solo episode, somatic therapist and attachment

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